. >> ah, but nobodever said life was fair, tina. i'm bigger and i'm faster. >> oh. >> and meaner, too. >>ow do you teach yourids the concept and protect them from being disappointed. >>nd how do you handle them yourlf as an adult. psychologist jennifer hartstein has some advice. lovely to see y today. >> it's something we teach our kids from a younage. you want kids to play ir, be fair, share, all those kind of things. you say metimes we turn into the fix-it mom. >> we do. we turn to the people that jumpn instead of letting the kids figure it outnd fight their own ttles. >> that's it. >> wsaid in the tease that we want to protect themrom being disappointed but being disappointed is good thing. it helps them. it teaches them a lot. if we want them play fair, we sometimes have to lethem figure it out on their own. >> yeah. thplayground is kind of like "lord of the fli." going around taking toys and beg mean to each other. your instinct iso jump in and make it okay. that's doi them a disservice. they have to learn that you can't always

. >> ah, but nobody er said life was fair, tina. i'm bigger and i'm faster. >>h. >> a meaner, too. >> h do you teach your ks the concept and protect them from being disappointed. >> and h do you handle them yourself as an adult. ychologist jennifer hartstein has some advice. >> lovely to see you. >> it's something weeach our kids from a young age. you want kids to play fairbe fair, are, all those kind thin. you say sometimes turn into the fix-it mom. >> we do. we turn into the peoe that jump in instead of lting the kids figure out and fight their own battles. >> that's it. >> we saidn the tease that we want to protect them from being disappointed but being disappnted is a good thing. it helps them. it teaches thea lot. ife want them to play fair, we sometimes have to let them figure it out onheir own. >> is that what -- >> yeah. the playground is kindf like ord of the flies." going around taking toys and beg mean to each other your instinct is to jump in and make it okay. that's doing tm a disservice. u can't always fix it. they mig not always be able fix it.

now it's gting to be that tina is the standard. it ds look vy good. >> i'mxcited to try it out. thank you. a lk at san fraisco city hall which is booked u with couples getting married all day today. why? becausit's 11-12-13. >> o yeah. >> the santa cruz couy clerk's office is holding ceronies every i half hour from 9:30 to 5:00. but ten of the3 openis have been filled. now the next date with consecutive numbers is next year, 12-13-14. >> tay in about three hours that goe deeper. 9-10-112-13. i'm happy i can still add. christina loren what's going on? >> looking good. marla, going to buy a lottery ticket,ac book pro. the upper 50s, we're tracking showers is morning and you can all of theicro climas are era covered. we face our camera to the east. make an appearance. staing to we've got rn clouds overhead so let's get to that. you can see the north bay getting a littl bit of activity. the bulk of the moistur right now is moving right or the north endf the peninsula and san francio so as you mak your way up 101 and 0, you do wanto travel cautiously. we're going to be storm tracking

tina says th is my husband, prate first class robert ortiz. he is deployed and we're expecting our third child. he ipires me with his potive out look on the even more daunting situation. he's our rk, our cornerstone and everything. that is from tina. this is so arable. my little man chris inspes me evy day. he's aistic and such a hap kid. this is from his mother susan. keep them coming guys. >>> tamron, thank yovery much. a police officer so aumatized on what he saw on thday of the newtown school shootg he has not been able to retn to work and now town offials are threatening to fire hi he's witus with his story. but now, on a monday mning, veterans day, this is "tay" on nb al >>> coming u why george clooney is taking on b names hollywood. >>nd a concert from lady antebllum after your local news and weatr. [ male announcer ] mmmm. cinnamon and sug so delicious. oh yeah. the cinna-swe taste yojust can't resist. cinnamon toast crunch. crave those crazy uares®. >> it's 7:26. i'm jon kelley. the fire thatent dangerous smok in the air out at rwood

. >> hey, tina turner, let's stay together. now a cizen of switzerland. what d you say, bill? >> don't know. >> what did you ? >>> comedy troe improv everywhereas taken real people to re-create this faus scene fr "when harry met sally" scen >> oh. >> you all right? >> oh. >> oh! yes! >> i'll have what she had. >> three times that, please. i'm richard lui. is is early today. we hope 's just your first -- >>> leading the headlines, in ""the w york times," most federal stm aid still undistributed in new jery. w numbers show only quaer of the $1.2 billion for hurricane sandy relief has been distribud. and in "the orlando sentinel," 1 dispatcher arreste accused of pointing a gun at a reporte happened when a local this happened when a reporter cameo her home, hing for an interview. she was recently suspended from work after a traee under her care made the fatal miste of sending medics to the wrong adess. that pson later died. >>> haii's governor neil abcrombie is expected to sign a bill today to legalize gay rriage. president obama said the bils passage kes him even prouder toave be

we hear tonight that tina is finally out of her coma and improving on a daily basis. one thing i have learned is people who do good once, they tend to do it over and over again. here's looking forward to the next 140 bay area prouds. >>> a decent amount of raining falling across the bay area this evening. >>> the storm system is currently passing most of the bay area right now with some sort of rain drops. anywhere from light to moderate. what you'll be able to see as well as a decent tap here of subtropical moisture. you can see on that live doppler radar, we have rain from the north bay finally down to the south bay. we'll take you across the peninsula. this is where it is going good across the bay bridge. rain drops starting here across the south bay. that's where the most dangerous commute is at least at this hour. we've had some of the driest weather in the past three to four months in that location. we do have a reducing visibility here across the east bay. in the south bay right now, we are finally getting those showers right now. we want to bring in my colleag

tina is finally out of her coma and improving on a daily basis. garvin thomas, "today in the bay." >> i think garvin may have the best job in tv. >>> still ahead, the sweetness of sleep. coming up on "today in the bay," these pictures made a bay area mother an internet sensation. what she hopes is puppy love encourages everyone to do. >>> we're watching low clouds in the bay area. san francisco, 48 degrees is relatively warm compared to the rest of the bay area this morning. we'll talk more about the cool start and the next chance of rain in the forecast when we come right back. >>> you are watching "today in the bay." >>> good morning to you. looks all peaceful in the distance and we have the trees swaying, but we know we had some wind in the forecast last week and now oakland has a new tourist attraction of sorts thanks to mother nature. that giant tree we showed you yesterday is still down, and now it's drawing crowds that just want to take a picture with it. the eucalyptus blocking a walking path at lake mirror is 30 feet in diameter. the wind

the goddess of rock 'n' roll, tina turner, 74 and still looking great. here's what's coming up later on the "today" show, kelly clark son performs live in the studio. get your earplugs, and opening up about marriage and expecting her first child. she can belt it out there, bill. keep it here for news and sports, and weather. i'm richard lui, along with bill karins, you have a great day ahead. it's great having at&t u-verse high speed internet. walter likes to download fix-it videos... and watch "boardwalk empire." it helps sam with math... [ beeping ] ...and online gaming. and suze loves her smartphone for "social" studies... like video-chatting with sara. hi, ms. kelly. hi, sara. [ male announcer ] go to the website below now to get all the speed you need. just $14.95 a month for 12 months. on our newly expanded advanced digital network, you get more connectivity, reliability, and speed options. we have our own private wi-fi hot spot right here. getting connected is no problem, even all at the same time. it's fast, it's reliable, and it's affordable. [