kim hatley, the wife of first sergeant john hatley, says she refuses to let herself cry even in private because she needs to be strong for her husband and her 19-year-old son who is now fighting in afghanistan. some people might call your husband a murderer. >> mm-hmm. >> what do you call him? >> i call him a good man. >> she has no reason to stay in germany any longer. she's packing up her life and moving to texas. her husband's home state. >> okay. here's the card for you, too. >> oh, thanks. >> jamie leahy, the wife of mike leahy, works at her mom's beauty salon. it was never part of the plan but keeps her occupied. is it up setting when people look at him and say monster. >> it does. you don't know who you are talking about at all. he is a person. he's a son. he's my husband. >> and johana mayo, the wife of sergeant first class joseph mayo struggles to hold her family together. do you believe you'll get through this? >> yes. i know we will. it's just -- it's just, you know, it's hard right now but we'll get through it. >> three wives now waging a battle of their own. they want their