when people like my friend bo dietl and others say, look, the only way to stop a guy with a gun is with a gun, when they say that, i believe that. when the people who are for gun criminal say, there are more guns than people in this country, that has to change and when the president spoke eloquently about thises i believe him, too, these are social issues that cannot be pushed cornered our ability to see their implications. >>neil: fathers finally, when you talk to the flock, they are getting increasingly scared about their fellow man. they see this shooting. they see mall shooting a couple of weeks prior, and the shoot of in aurora at a movie theater. they see increasingly human beings turning on each other in violent ways. these could be exceptions to the human rule of decency but they are more punctuated and increasingly more common. what do you tell them? >>guest: i say that love wins in the end. it could be we see a great deal of evil because our focus is when the dog bites the man, that is the thing we are attracted to, to looking at, but if we can focus on other models because th