you needed a teacher who could says, melike jesus too. have a very not thick skin and i cry every day. tavis: what is driving our contestation of somebody's humanity? that is what homophobia is, that is what ageism is. what is driving our contestation of somebody else's humanity? >> terror. evil are terrified. one of the reasons i felt like it was on my hard to write this people are terrified. one of the reasons i felt like it was on my hard to write this book. are terrified and what they do is they clench in the get small. and in their smallness, they dehumanize anyone who is not exactly like them. casts outrfect love fear and you see these things like george wallace, probably the most famous example of going from the ultimate ignorance and bigotry to egging -- begging forgiveness. i was wrong. take me back. and so it is fear, and it is this culture. as a woman we have had a different set of challenges. as a woman i was told to stay very small and to be a person helpinglue came from men feel a lot better about themselves and helping my f