my friend, dapo, was one of them. he was just 25 when he was murdered. this is dapo's grave. and it looks completely abandoned. it's literally falling apart. even the headstone's missing. coming here is supposed to give me, like, a sense of closure, but seeing his grave in such disarray... it just. .. it hurts. this is the final resting place for somebody who had aspirations, who had dreams. not even a photo of dapo survives. it feels like he's been forgotten, totally. it's like... no memories of him. like he was never here. thousands and thousands of young men have died like this in the last four decades. and just nobody remembering them, it's like they died in vain. shouting every week across nigeria, more young people are being murdered by cultists. wailing pain of the family goes viral for all of us to see on social media. how much longer can nigeria continue like this? when will those in political power finally say, "enough is enough"? wailing hello, again. hello, there are, i've got a really stunning weather watcher picture to start off with, showing clear sunny skies i