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Mar 26, 2022
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Somerville, Christopher
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Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- England -- West Country, Railroads -- Abandonment, West Country...
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Mar 25, 2022
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Mar 25, 2022
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Cockman, F. G. (Frederick George)
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Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Great Britain -- Directories, Chemins de fer -- Abandon --...
Mark 15:34
Topics: sermon, Faith EFC, Bible, Scriptures, Jesus, God, Father, Holy Spirit, Chris Wylie,...
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Mar 18, 2022
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Mar 18, 2022
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Sam Vaknin
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To participate in the seminar, write to: Barbara Gyura narciszcoach@gmail.com Narcissist’s Relationship Cycle Decoded and What To Do About It • Lovebombing, grooming, and honeymoon (Dual Mothering) • Idealization and Introjection (snapshooting) • Devaluation, Discard, and Separation-Individuation • Replacement and Repetition-Compulsion Narcissist regards himself as dream come true, god’s gift to you, perfection reified, the ideal intimate partner. How can he be so sure? Because he...
Topics: Narcissistic Abuse, Narcissism (Symptom), narcissism, narcissist, psychopath, survivor, victim,...
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Mar 13, 2022
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Mar 13, 2022
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Virginia Department of Historic Resources (Richmond, Virginia) and Longwood Institute of Archaeology, Longwood University (Farmville, Virginia)
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Document featuring Nansemond County or Suffolk, Virginia items of historical interest
Topics: Nansemond, Suffolk, Virginia, United States, history, Nansemond Ghost Fleet, Nansemond River,...
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Mar 11, 2022
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Mar 11, 2022
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Sam Vaknin
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Constructive Anger Communicate your anger honestly, firmly, but not aggressively (never bottle up or internalize your anger, never act passive-aggressively) Describe your state of mind, don’t blame, guilt-trip, or shame Ask for change: new actions or behaviors or speech acts. Offer change in return, if need be. Be assertive, not submissive. Narcissistic rage has two forms: I. Explosive – The narcissist flares up, attacks everyone in his immediate vicinity, causes damage to objects or...
Topics: narcissist, narcissistic rage, anger, fury, wrath, pissed-off, angry, raging, wrathful,...
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Feb 21, 2022
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Feb 21, 2022
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Skrdla, Harry
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Topics: Photography, Artistic, Abandonment of property -- United States -- Pictorial works
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Feb 7, 2022
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Feb 7, 2022
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Sam Vaknin
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The narcissist is incapable of attachment, bonding, and positive emotionality He is possessive of his women only in two situations: GRANDIOSITY/UNIQUENESS 1. When he is acquiring a woman and she chooses another man over him for sex only or for more, thus disrupting the process of co-idealization; UTILITARIAN/INSTRUMENTAL/TRANSACTIONAL 2. When in a shared fantasy and he risks losing the 3 Ss that she provides him with (sex, services, narcissistic or sadistic supply). Similarly, he is interested...
Topics: relationships, intimacy, jealousy, regulation, narcissist, psychopath, borderline, codependent,...
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Jan 25, 2022
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Jan 25, 2022
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COL Media
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In this episode of COL Drag Race ‘T-Time’, Gary and Damon are back back back again!! And this time, they’re changing it up! As 14 new queens come together once again to snatch that glorious crown, the guys are shaking up their format to bring a new show to you. Instead of recapping every episode, enjoy these occasional nuggets of pure shade and tea spilling. And, of course, they’re holding nothing back!
Topics: COLDR, Drag Race, Season 14, Episode 1, changing, preshow, game, ruveal, bored, entertainment,...
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Jan 22, 2022
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Jan 22, 2022
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Holland, Julian, 1946-
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Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Great Britain, Railroads -- Great Britain -- Guidebooks, Railroads,...
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Jan 20, 2022
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Jan 20, 2022
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Cockman, F. G. (Frederick George)
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88 pages : 18 cm
Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- England, Railroads -- England -- Guidebooks, Railroads, Railroads --...
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Jan 19, 2022
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Jan 19, 2022
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Spaven, D. L. (David L.), author
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1 volume :
Topics: Railroads -- Scotland -- Scottish Borders -- History, Railroads -- Scotland -- Scottish Borders --...
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Dec 22, 2021
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Dec 22, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Some narcissists devalue and discard their partners during a pregnancy or shortly after childbirth. What gives? A pregnant female is an autonomous, agentic woman. This challenges and undermines the inert and malleable internal object that represents her in the narcissist's mind (her "snapshot" or introject). The narcissist reacts with separation insecurity (abandonment anxiety) to this divergence. He is humiliated at his exposed dependence and helplessness. In an attempt to rid...
Topics: narcissist, psychopath, children, family, hate, false self, narcissistic supply, health, caregiver,...
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Nov 19, 2021
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Nov 19, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Weak people terrify me. Weakness of character is indistinguishable from evil. The weak are suggestible, malleable, mutable and, therefore highly unstable, unreliable, and untrustworthy. People pleasing and an inability to say “no” even to the most degrading offers and demands lead the weak to reckless, disgraceful, and antisocial acts. They are enablers in the worst sense of the word: aid and abet the self-destructiveness of others. Gradually, to survive their wracking guilt, shame, and...
Topics: narcissist, people-pleaser, codependent, narcissism, codependency, charm, charmer, abandonment,...
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Nov 3, 2021
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Nov 3, 2021
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Welbourn, Nigel, author
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1 volume : 24 cm
Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Scotland -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- Scotland -- History --...
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Oct 30, 2021
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Oct 30, 2021
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Stansfield, Gordon
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Topics: Railroads -- Scotland -- Angus -- Abandonment -- History -- Pictorial works, Railroads -- Scotland...
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Oct 29, 2021
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Oct 29, 2021
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Stansfield, Gordon
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Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Scotland -- Aberdeenshire -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment --...
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Oct 29, 2021
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Oct 29, 2021
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Harris, John, 1931-
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Topics: Country homes, Architecture, Domestic, Upper class -- Dwellings, Housing -- Abandonment
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Sep 16, 2021
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Sep 16, 2021
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Christiansen, Rex
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Topics: Railroads -- England -- Midlands -- Abandonment, England West Midlands Railway services Disused...
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Sep 13, 2021
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Sep 13, 2021
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Hall, Mike, 1950-
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Topics: Railroads -- England -- Middlesex -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- England -- Middlesex,...
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Sep 6, 2021
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Sep 6, 2021
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Osiris Saline
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A prog by the way of dense shoegaze EP about the arrogance and emptiness found by werewolves of Cymru, after living adjacent to colonization and industrial horror. Bandcamp: https://osirissaline.bandcamp.com/album/on-pedestrian-wolves Archive: https://archive.org/details/osiris-salineonpedestrianwolves Osiris Saline on the internet: Bandcamp : https://osirissaline.bandcamp.com/ Covers Bandcamp : https://osirissalinecovers.bandcamp.com/ Archive : https://archive.org/details/@osirissaline --...
Topics: creative commons, horror, werewolves, cymru, welsh folklore, progressive rock, shoegaze,...
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Aug 25, 2021
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Aug 25, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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A 2017 study shows that many narcissists are MORE forgiving and merciful that healthier folk. This debunks one of the many nonsensical myths propagated online by hacks with academic degrees who proclaim themselves as "experts" on narcissism with zero relevant credentials. Here is another piece de resistance of profound ignorance: Many self-styled narcissism “experts” would tell you with the faux authoritativeness of the hack that all psychopaths are narcissists. It is rank...
Topics: narcissist, abuse, giving, charity, charm, altruist, prosocial, communal, loving, money,...
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Jul 24, 2021
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Jul 24, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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The psychopath’s defiance and contumaciousness are often misperceived as fearlessness or nonchalance, but, in reality, there is a lot of trepidation in both. They are form of dysregulation. Even (lazy) scholars get it wrong, this stereotype of the primary (factor 1 or F1) psychopath as fearless. Psychopaths experience anxiety and fear even more than the rest of us do. There are several important differences, though: 1. Their brain and physiology are different. Skin conductance, brain...
Topics: cptsd, ptsd, trauma, borderline, personality disorder, dysregulation, abandonment, psychopathy,...
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Jul 23, 2021
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Jul 23, 2021
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Holland, Julian, 1946- author
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299 pages : 21 cm
Topics: Railroads -- Great Britain -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- Great Britain -- History,...
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Jul 22, 2021
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Jul 22, 2021
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Oppitz, Leslie
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Topics: Railroads -- England -- Surrey -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- England -- Surrey --...
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Jul 14, 2021
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Jul 14, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Even skilled diagnosticians find it difficult to distinguish between psychopathy (and Borderline), autism, schizoid personality, and C/PTSD. All four conditions involve extreme reduced affect display: no show of emotions, flat presentation of personal experiences, and reticent self-disclosure. All four types of patients use language in a highly idiosyncratic way: vulgar, putrid, ambiguous, non-committal, clinical, and impersonal. They corrupt language and render it circumspect and cynical. They...
Topics: cptsd, ptsd, trauma, borderline, personality disorder, dysregulation, abandonment, psychopathy,...
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Jul 12, 2021
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Jul 12, 2021
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Somerville, Christopher
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144 p. : 23 cm
Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Great Britain, Walking -- Great Britain
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Jul 11, 2021
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Jul 11, 2021
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Abbott, Stan, 1952-
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viii, 224 pages : 21 cm
Topics: Settle and Carlisle Railway, Railroads -- Great Britain -- Abandonment, Railroads -- Abandonment,...
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Jul 9, 2021
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Jul 9, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Some grandiose narcissists and all primary (F1) psychopaths have a relatively robust self-concept and stable self. Not so vulnerable (covert) narcissists and secondary (F2) psychopaths (aka borderlines). Stephen M. Doerfler, Maryam Tajmirriyahi, William Ickes, Peter K. Jonason, The self-concepts of people with Dark Triad traits tend to be weaker, less clearly defined, and more state-related, Personality and Individual Differences, Volume 180, 2021, 110977, ISSN 0191-8869,...
Topics: narcissist, psychopath, self, borderline, npi, leadership, authority, exploitativeness, grandiose,...
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Jun 25, 2021
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Jun 25, 2021
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King, Stephen, 1947-
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404 pages ; 20 cm
Topics: Abandonment of automobiles -- Fiction, Police -- Pennsylvania -- Fiction, Buick automobile --...
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Jun 13, 2021
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Jun 13, 2021
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Not Bitter. Just Petty.
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In this first episode, you are introduced to the host, Doretea Burton. She describes her motivation for starting the podcast and the direction in which she plans to take the listener. A powerful recording of the host is shared. A recording where she shares her tears, concerns, and prayers to God as she processed the hurt of being abandoned, betrayed, and divorced by her husband of nearly 25 years.
Topics: Podcast, betrayal, cheating, divorce, limerence, marriage, reconciliation, restoration,...
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Jun 11, 2021
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Jun 11, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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The comorbidity of narcissistic and borderline personality disorders (NPD and BPD) is counterintuitive: they appear to be mutually exclusive. Both Borderlines and narcissists are grandiose, but the former possess warm empathy and emotions whereas the latter lack them. The only way to reconcile these contradictions and to square the circle is by assuming the existence of semi-dissociated self-states that come to the fore in reaction to changing circumstances and environments. In a comorbid...
Topics: People-pleasers, anxiety, anxious, narcissist, psychopath, borderline, addict, addiction, sex,...
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Jun 6, 2021
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Jun 6, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Some behaviors and psychodynamic processes appear to be artifacts of pathological narcissism – but are not. Consider, for example, serial idealizers and anxious people-pleasers. Serial idealizers go through brief sexual episodes or micro-relationships at a dizzying speed. They instantly and counterfactually idealize a date or a random stranger - or even a group of them! - as potential mates or friends. Sometimes within minutes from a chance encounter, they construct a one-sided fantastic...
Topics: People-pleasers, anxiety, anxious, narcissist, psychopath, borderline, addict, addiction, sex,...
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Jun 2, 2021
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Jun 2, 2021
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Coach My World
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In Part 2 of this challenging topic, Coach Renée continues to pull on our heartstrings as she uncovers more behavior traits that accompany abandonment. Her objective is to bring awareness so that we can begin the healing process. Listen in and begin your healing journey as she coach's your world.FOLLOW‼‼‼FaceBook & Instagram @iamreneeroberts BOOK SESSIONS @ www.iamreneeroberts.com
Topics: Podcast, Abandonment, loneliness, emotional healing
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Jun 2, 2021
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Jun 2, 2021
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Coach My World
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In the final installment of this moving topic, Coach Renée continues to uncover more behavior traits that accompany abandonment. In addition she closes out with tools to navigate through this painful spot. Listen in and begin your healing journey as she coach's your world.FOLLOW‼‼‼FaceBook & Instagram @iamreneeroberts BOOK SESSIONS @ www.iamreneeroberts.com
Topics: Podcast, Abandonment, healing, loneliness, alone, pain, depression, anxiety
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Jun 1, 2021
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Jun 1, 2021
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Atterbury, Paul
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256 pages : 29 cm
Topics: Scenic railways -- Great Britain -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- Great Britain, Railroads...
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May 15, 2021
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May 15, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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With no strings attached sex freely available from multiple women, men no longer feel the need to invest in relationships or commit in any way. One night stands (including on first and only dates) and hookups have become the dominant form of sexual practice in the West and beyond. Agentic (usually drunk) women now pick up men for casual sex the way men used to pick up “easy women” well into the 1960s. Such emancipation and equality among the genders is liberating and laudable. But women...
Topics: Self-trashing, cheating, mate selection, conflict, dysregulation, lability, borderline, psychopath,...
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May 14, 2021
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May 14, 2021
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King, Stephen, 1947-
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404 pages ; 20 cm
Topics: Abandonment of automobiles -- Fiction, Police -- Pennsylvania -- Fiction, Buick automobile --...
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May 9, 2021
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May 9, 2021
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Ellison, M. H
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192 pages : 180 pages
Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Scotland, Walking -- Scotland, Railroads -- Abandonment, Walking,...
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May 5, 2021
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May 5, 2021
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Burton, Anthony, 1934-
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192 pages : 26 cm
Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Great Britain, Railroads -- Abandonment, Great Britain, Great Britain...
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May 4, 2021
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May 4, 2021
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Wham, Alasdair
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152 pages : 22 cm
Topics: Railroads -- Abandonment -- Scotland -- Lothian -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- Scotland --...
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May 4, 2021
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May 4, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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DBT, mindfulness effective Abandonment anxiety -- preemption Rituals and procedures of presence, permanence, stability, and predictability Object inconstancy ---identity disturbance (emptiness) Mementos Programmed reminders Mantras Decompensation Techniques to tackle anxiety and panic (breathing, journaling and reading aloud) Acting Out (Self states, secondary psychopathy): impulsivity and recklessness Decatastrophizing Mirroring Techniques for impulse control (redirection, motivation,...
Topics: borderline, maternal, abandonment, high-functioning, empathy, social, cues, functioning, nonverbal,...
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Apr 23, 2021
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Apr 23, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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The thing that amazes me the most about narcissists is the DISCONNECTS, the disparities, incongruities, and discrepancies. Between their self-awareness and the utter lack of transformative insight Between their often towering intelligence and their ubiquitous pseudo-stupidity Between the sagacious wisdom which many of them possess and display – and their pervasive inanity Between their goal-orientation and their ultimate and ineluctable failures Between their non-existent positive emotions...
Topics: self-awareness, transformative insight, intelligence, pseudo-stupidity, sagacity, inanity, wisdom,...
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Apr 21, 2021
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Apr 21, 2021
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Stennett, Alan
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160 pages : 22 cm
Topics: Railroads -- England -- Lincolnshire -- History, Railroads -- Abandonment -- England --...
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Apr 18, 2021
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Apr 18, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Most patients diagnosed with BPD lose the diagnosis spontaneously or with the help of DBT, but retain the dysfunctional behaviors associated with it. Robert S Biskin The Lifetime Course of Borderline Personality Disorder Canadian Journal of Psychiatry. 2015 Jul; 60(7): 303–308. Zanarini MC, Frankenburg FR, Hennen J, et al. The McLean Study of Adult Development (MSAD): overview and implications of the first six years of prospective follow-up. Journal of Personality Disorders....
Topics: DBT, healing, cure, remission, relapse, functioning, spontaneous, self-trashing, cheating, mate...
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Apr 17, 2021
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Apr 17, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Autoeroticism (regarding oneself as one’s sex object) often goes hand in hand with exhibitionism (becoming sexually aroused by another’s objectifying gaze). The more numerous the observers, the more intense the sexual excitatory state. That is why the autoerotic - mainly narcissists and psychopaths - gravitate to group sex with total strangers even in early adolescence. The autoerotic objectify not only themselves but also the partner, whose body they use as a sex toy, to masturbate with....
Topics: autoeroticism, exhibitionism, Self-trashing, cheating, mate selection, conflict, dysregulation,...
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Apr 15, 2021
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Apr 15, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Psychopaths: no switching and self-trashing promiscuity. Sexual Masochism: Self-trashing in BPD, Cleckley (psychopathy). Feeling bad/trashed leads to sexual arousal. Self-trashing strategies: Despoiling Cheating (shame, guilt, immoral “bad object”) Substances Inappropriate mates Cluster B personality disordered patients are goal oriented. All goals forms of supply: abandonment (BPD), sadistic narcissistic supply (NPD), money-sex-power (AsPD). Each personality disorder has its own form of...
Topics: Self-trashing, cheating, mate selection, conflict, dysregulation, lability, borderline, psychopath,...
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Apr 8, 2021
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Apr 8, 2021
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fieldcharge
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Recording of a live multi-stream of the Seattle Police Department's East Precinct abandonment on June 8th, 2020, leading to the area being occupied for the next few weeks by activists during the Black Lives Matter movement and in response to the death of George Floyd. This shows the moments when "CHAZ" or "CHOP" came into being. Footage includes the morning crowd developing (which had continued from the last week), the gradual build up and deconstruction of defenses, the...
Topics: capitol hill, seattle wa, seattle, chaz, chop, protests, capitol hill autonomous zone, capitol hill...
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Apr 4, 2021
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Apr 4, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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The antinarcissist is a masochistic covert narcissist. His grandiosity is founded on failure, defeat, self-annihilation, and self-destruction as he seeks to merge with his empty schizoid core. The grandiose narcissist someone switches to the antinarcissist masochistic covert state. The narcissist is angered by the lack of narcissistic supply. He directs some of this fury inwards, punishing himself for his "failure". This masochistic behavior has the added "benefit" of...
Topics: Antinarcissism, masochist, recluse, schizoid, core, empty, self-trashing, sex, promiscuity,...
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Apr 2, 2021
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Apr 2, 2021
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Sam Vaknin
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Borderline Personality Disorder is s form of CPTSD (complex trauma) and, in many cases, gives rise to compulsive sexual ideation and hypersexuality (“sex addiction”). In early childhood, the Borderline had learned to associate sex, pain, and love inextricably, sometimes owing to a history of childhood sexual abuse. Hereditary brain abnormalities are at play, too, predisposing the child to develop emotional dysregulation and mood disorders and lability. The Borderline sexualizes her emotions...
Topics: borderline, maternal, abandonment, high-functioning, empathy, social, cues, functioning, nonverbal,...
