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WiLUAM B. Cairns
Professor of English
UNivERsnY OF Wisconsin-Madison
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ELEMENTS OF CHARACTER.
MARY G. CHANDLER.
" An exclusively iutellectaal education leads, by a very obvious process, to
hard-heartedness and" the contempt of all moral influences. An exclusively
moral education tends to fatuity by the over-excitement of the sensibilities.
An exclusively religious education ends in insanity, if it do not take a di-
rectly opposite course and lead to atheism." — Edinbuboh Review.
BOSTON:
PUBLISHED BY OTIS CLAPP,
No. 28 School Stbebt.
1855.
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CONTENTS,
Charaoteb.
The Humah Trinitt,
Thoituht,
Imagination*
Affectiow.
COWYERSATJOW,
Mann e 113,
COMPANJOKSHIP.
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tontlonAllj^ tD KQk T&tJ^» vbat virtue £iTe9 ttmo what Tiztqe ii ; thA tVfrKrd
t&ther than tbe eezTice^ tbo feUdly rather than %bjb Hfe, tbs dowiy^ l^t mfltej)
imUieF than ttw bride.'' — - T^ T. Stchee.
^'^His practice was <)f m in ore dlThie extncti&n} drawn from the yfzttd at
Qdd^ and wrought op hj tbi^ lu^timAe of hie Spirit ; tb«r«ftm. In the beitd
of oil hii "riitnea I ^hoU set ih&t wh^ch wis this heod and ipmij; of tbioni flU^ hJi
ChrlBtlajiity ; for tbt? ulotut!' Is t1\e true ro^al blood 4:bat rutts th.rou£h the whole
body of TirtQSf and efery pnt«tid<^T to tb«t glorious famHy, who baa iw tlnctuiv
Off kf ta &n impoisto]-. This is that loiup fonptqJn which baptiavth till the g;eQr
tJo TirtuFK th&t AO hnmcirtalltfi tbf? nameA df the old philD^opjiicr^ ; bo^m tbej
*tt ngenemtsedi and take a. new nEim» and n4turf<, Dui^ up in ibe wlJcleirTveafl.
cf jjAtim^ and dipjied in thid hying ^prin^^ thoj am plan tod axiii fioiirltib In tbft
paimdiac of llod By CbrlAtiaDlty I hitend that universal hahJi of grttce whlah
Lp wmogbt in a loul by tbo rcgftiiera^iJii Spirit of Ood^ whereby ths whole
cFToture II resided up in^ thd Dlrfne will i%bd l4>ve, and nJi itd actions diActed
to the obodi(moo tmd glflrj of its MnkEr;* —Msaoras o? Col. HffTCHUf&ow, BT
The weakness and helplessness of humanityi
in relation to tlie fortunes of this life, have been
a favorite theme with philosophers and teachers
ever since the world began ; and every term ex-
pressive of all that is uncertain, insubatantiaJj
and unstable has been exhausted in describing
the feebleness of man's power to retain in pos*
session the good things of this life, or even life
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itself. However firmly .the hand, of man may
seem to grasp power, reputation, or wealth ; how-
ever numerous may be the band of diildren or
friends that surrounds him, he has no certainty
that he may not die friendless and a pauper. In
fact, the most brilliant success in life seems
sometimes to be permitted only that it may
make the darkness of succeeding reverses the
more profound. - .
Weak and helpless as we may be in the affairs
of this life, there is, however, one thing ov«r
whioh w:e have entire control. Riches may take
to themselves wings, though honest industry exert
its best efforts to acquire and retain them; power
is taken away from hands that seek to use it
only for the good' of those they govern; reputa-
tion may become tarnished, though virtue be
without spot; health may vanish, though its
laws, so far ?is we understand them, be strictly
obeyed ; but there is one thing left which mis-
fortune cannot touch, which God is ever seeking
to aid us in building up, and over which he
permits us to hold absolute control; arid this
is Character. For this, and for this alone, we
are entirely responsible. We may fail in all
else, let our endeavors be earnest and patient
as they may; but all other failures touch us
only in our external lives. If we have used
our best endeavors to attain success in the pur^
suit of temporal objects, we are not responsible
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though we fiiU. But if we do not succeed i^
attaining true health and wealth and power of
Chai^cter, the tesponsibility is all our own ; and
tiie consequences of our failure are not bounded
by the shores of time, but stretch onward through
the limitless regions of eternity. If we strive for
this, success is certain, for the Lord works with
us to will and to do. li we dd not strive, it were
better for us that we had never been bom.
Character is all we can take with us wlien we
leave tiiis world. Fortune,- learning, reputation,
power, must all be left behind us in the region of
material things ; but Character, the spiritual sub-
stance of our beings abides with us for ever. Ac-
cording as the possessions of this world have
aided in building up Character, — forming it to
Hhe divine or to the infernal image, -— they have
been cursings or blessings to the soul.
Before we can understand hcfw Character is to
be built up, we must come to a distinct faith in
its reality ; we must learn to feel that it is more
real than anything eke that we possess ; for surely
that which is eternal is more real than that which
is merely temporal; it may, indeed, be doubted
whether that which is merely temporal has any
just claim to be called real.
Many persons xK)»found reputation with Char-
acter, and believe themselves to be striving for
the reality of the one, when the fantasy of the
other alone stimulates their desires. Reputation
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is the opinion entertained of us by our ieUow-
beings, while Character is that which we really
are. When we labor to gain reputation, we are
not even taking the first step toward the acquisi-
tion of Character, but only putting on coverings
over that which is, and protecting it against im-
proveitient. As well may we strive to be virtu-
ous by thinking of the rewaord of heaven, as to
build up our Charactew by thinking of the opin-
ions of men. The "cases are precisely parallel.
In each we are thinking of the pay as something
apart from the work, while, in faxxt, tiie only pay
we can have inheres in. the doing of the work.
Virtue is its own reward, because its perform-
ance creates the kingdom of heaven within us,
and we cannot attain to virtue until we strive
aft«r it for its own sake.
A wisely trained Character never stops to ask,
What will society think of me if I do this thing,
or if I leave it undone ? The questions by which
it tests the quality of an action are, whether it is
just, and wise, and fitting, when judged by the
eternal laws of right ; and in accordance with this
judgment will its manifestations ever be made.
If the mind acquires the liabit of deliberately
asking and answering these questions in ]:^ard
to common affairs, it acqUipes, by degrees, dis-
tinct opinions in relation to life, forming a regu-
lar system, in accordance with which the Char-
acter is shaped and built up ; and unless this be
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done, the Character cannot become consistent
'and harmonious. It is never too late tb begin to
do this ; but the earli^ in life it is done, the
more readily the Character^ can be .conformed to
the standard of right which is thus established.
Every year added to life ere this is attempted, is
an added impediment to its performance; and
until it is accomplished, thore is no safety for the
Charaiter^ for eaclr year is adding additional
force to careless or evil habits of thought and
aife^tion, and consequently of external life*
It is not going too far to say, that Character is
the only permament possession we can have. It
is in fact our spiritual body. AJl other atental-
possessions are to the spiritu^ body oply what
clothing is to the natural body, — something put
on and taken off as circumstances vary. Char-
acter changes from year to year as we cultivate
or neglect it, and so dogs^he natural body ; but
ttiese changes of the bddy are something very
different froni the.changes of our garments.
There is a transient and a permanent side to
all . our mental attributes. Take, for instance,
manners, ^hich are the most external of them all.
So far as we habituate ourselves to courtesy
and good-breeding becsmse we shall stand better
with the world if we are polite than if we are
rude, we are cultivating a merely external habit,
which we shall be likely to throw off as often as
we think it safe to go without it, as we should
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an uncomfortably fitting dress ; and our manners
do not belong to our Characters any^more than
our coats belong to our persons. This is the
transient side of manners. If, on the contrdry,
we are polite fiom an inward conviction that
politeness is one of the forms of love to the
neighbor, and because we believe that iii being
polite we are performing a duty tiiat our neighbor
has a right to claim from us, and because polite-
ness is §. trait that we love for its own inherent
beauty, our manners belong to the substance of
our Charqxjter, — they are not its garment, but its
sMn; and this is the permanent side of manners.
Such manners "will be ours in death, and after-
wards, no less than in life.
In the same way, ev^ry personal accomplish-
ment and every mental acquisition has ita tran-
sient and its permanent side. So far as we cul-
tivate them to enrich and to ennoble our natures,
to enlarge and to elevate our understandings, to
become wiser, better, and more useful to our fel-
low-beings, we are cultivating oiir Characters, —
the spiritual essence of our being; but these very
same ac<q[uisitions, when sought from motives
wholly selfish and worldly, are not only as tran-
sient as the clothes we wear, but often as useless
as the ornaments of a fashionable costume. ' The
Character wiU be poor and famished and cold,
however great the variety of such clothing or
ornament we may put on.
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CHABACTEB. 1$
When the mind has learned to appreciate
the difference between reputation and Character^
between the seeming and the being, it must
next decide, if it would build up a worthy Char^
acteTj what it desires this should be ; for to
build a Character requires a plan, no less than to
build a houae. A deep and broad foundation of
sound opinions, believed in with the whole hearty
can alone insure safety to the superstructiue,
Where such a foundation is not laid, the Char-
acter will possess no architectural unity, — will
have no consistency. Its emotions will be swayed
by the impulses of the moment, instead of being
governed by principles of life. There is ffo thing
reliable in such a Character, for it perpetually
cojitradicts itself. Its powers, instead of acting
togetherj like well-trained soldiersj will be ever
jostling each other, like a disorderly mob.
The zeal for special reforms in morality that
so strongly characterizes the present agCj what*
ever may be its utility or its necessity, may not
be without an evil eflTect upon the training of
Character as a whole* The intense effort after
reform in certain particular direct ions causes
many to forget or to overlook altogether the fact
that one virtue is not enough to make a moral
being. It cannot be doubted that the present
surpasses all former ages in its eagerness to put
down several of the most prominent vices to
which man is subject; but it may be well to
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pause and calmly examine whether a larger
{HTomise is not sometimes uttered by the zeal so
actively at wolrk in society, than will probably be
made good by its results.
Nothing can be worthy' the name of Reform
that is not based pn the Christian religion, — that
does not acknowledge the laws of eternal truth
and justice, — that does not find its life in Chris-
tian charity, and its light in Christian truth..
The tendency of reform at the present day is too
often to separate itself firom religion ; for religion
cannot work fast enough to satisfy its haste; can-
not, at the ^nd of each year, count the steps it
has advanced in arithmetical numbers. Th^ re-
former asks not always for general growth and
advancement ^in Christian Character; but de^
mands special evidenced, startling results, tan-
gible proofs. These things all have their value,
and the persons who strive for them doubtless
have their reward; but if the kingdom of heaven
and its righteousness were first sought, the good
things «o fiercely advocfited and labored after by
special reformers would be added unto them, as
naturally as flowers and fruits, and the wealth of
harvest, are added to the light and Warmth of the
advancing year.
Persons who devote themselves to one fecial
branch of reform are apt to lose the power of ap-
preciating any virtue save that one which they
have\selected as their own, and which they seem
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to love, not so much because it ia a virtue as be-
cause it is their wtue* They soon lose all moral
perspective, and resemble^ him who holds some
one object so dosely before his eyes that he can
see nothing else, and cannot see that correctly,
while he insists that nothing else exists worthy
of being seen.
There is ever an effort going on in the mind of
man to find some substitute for that universal
obedience to the laws of faith and charity which
the Scriptures demand ; and this temptation
adapts itself specially to every different class of
believers* Thus the Jew, if the higher requisi-
tions of the Law oppress himj thinks to secure
himself from its penalties by the exactness of his '
ritual observances/ The unfaithful Romanist
hopes to atone for a life of sin by devoting his
property to the Church, or to charity, when he
dies. The Lutheran and the Calvinist, when
false to the call of duty, think to be forgiven their
neglect of the laws of charity by reason of the
liveliness of their faith* So the modern reformer
sometimes seems to suppose himself at liberty to
neglect the cure of any of the vices that he loves,
because he fancies that he may take the king-
dom of heaven by violence through his devotion
to the destruction of some special vice which he
abhors. Thus temperance is at times preached
by men so intemperate in their zeal, that they
are unwilling to make public addresses on the
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Sabbath, because on that day they are tram-
melled by the constraint of decency, which
prevents - them from' entering ' freely into the
gross and disgusting details in which they de-
light We have the emancipation of negroes
sometimes preached by men fast bound in fet-
ters of malignity and spiritual pride. We have
the destruction of the ruling influence of the
clergy inculcated by men dogmatic as Spanish
Inquisitors. We are taught that the doctrine .of
the inspiration of the Scriptures is a mere fig-
ment, by those who are firmly convinced that
their own inspiration is perfect and unfailing;
The result of all this is the development of Char-
acters as deformed as are the bodies of victims to
hydrocephalus or goitre ; while, in painful contrast
to such victims, these morally distorted patients
bear abou:t their deformities in the most conspic-
uous manner, as if they were rare beauties. So
pagan nations, when they embody their ideas of
superhuman attributes, often construct figures
having several heads or hands, or enormously
enlarge some particular member of the frame,
fancying that they thus express ideas of wisdonj
or power more perfectly than they could by
forming a figure whose parts should all present a
symmetrical development.
It is not that reformers over-estimate the evil of
any of the vices against which they contend ; for
in the abstract that is impossible ; but that they
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underHSstimate the evil of all other vices in rela-
tion to that one against which they arm them-
selves. The tree of evil has many branches, and
the trimming aw^ay one of them may only make
the rest grow more vigorously. There can be no
thorough progress in reform until the evil of the
whole tree is perceived and acknowledged, aRd
the whole strength is turned to digging it up by
the roots.
If a man devote himself actively to the reform
of some special vice, while he at the same time
^hows^ himself indifferent to other vices in hirn-
self or in his neighbors, it is evident that his
.virtue is only one of seeming- We are told that
he who is guilty of breaking one commandment
is guilty of all ; because if we disregard any one
commandment of the Lord habitually, persisting
in the pteferenee of our own will to his, it is evi-
.dent we, have no true reverence for hinij or that
we act in conformity to his coramandments in
other points only because in them our wiU hap-
pens not to run counter to his ; and this is no
obedience at aU.
K we find men leaving no stone unturned in
promoting the cause of temperajtice, who do not
hesitate to cheat and slander their neighbors,
temperance is no virtue in them ; but is the result
.of love of wealth, or of property, or of reputation,
or of the having no desire for strong drink ; be-
cause if a man abstain from inteinperance out of
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love to God^ he will abstain from cheating and
slandering out of loye to the neighbor, " He
that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen,
how can he love God whom he hath not seen ? "
So, too, 8l%very is an enormous evil, und it is
very easy for one who dwells in the free States
to cover with opprobrium those who hold slaves;
but if the Abolitionist indulges in a violence of
invective that compels one to fear that his heart
is burning with hatred towards his Southern
brothers, he stands quite as low in the moral
scale as a crwe^ slaveholder, and possibly lower
than a kind one. ^
The intemperate, and oftep malignant, vio^
lence with which men preach, and'lead on cru-
sades, against special vices, proves them ignorant
of, or indifferent to, the s%nlficance of virtue as
a whole. It does not enter into their hearts to
conceive of the beauty of that, growth in grace
which results in the cor^plete statu)re of a man,
— that is, of an angel. In their haste to pro-
duce great growth in some particular diree^
tion, they overlook the fact, that in precise pro-
portion to such growth inust be the dwarfing of
the other mettibtnrs. of the soul. Man was created
in the image and likeiless of God ; and he be-
comes truly a man only so far as, through the
grace of God, his whole being voluntarily as-
sumes that resemblance to the All-perfect lor.
-which he was designed. So long as he makes no
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effort to become regenerate, after he has arrived at
an age to be at liberty to choose between good
and evil, he tarns himself more and more away
from Grod, and becomes less and less like hhn*
While in this state, he may possess many seem-
ing virtues, may enjoy an untarnished reputation,
may win the love of many Mends ; but is none
the less the hollow image of that which should
be the substance of ia nian. He is following only
the devices of his own heart, ^ — seeking only the
good things o£ this world ; and there is no virtue
in anything that he does, though he may seem to
devote aU th^t he has, or all that he isj to pur-
poses of charity or reform. Man begins to be
truly virtuous,— to be truly a man, only when,
relying on the strength of the Lord to sustain his
endeavors, he begins to avoid sin because it is
abhorrent to God; and to fulfil the command-
ments because they are the words of God.
Then only he begins to form himself into the
symmetrical figure of a man ; and to become
perfect after the mantier in which the Heavenly
Father is perfect
The virtues all lock into each other. They
cannot stand alone. Like the stones of an
arch, no one of them can be wanting without
making alt the rest insecure. That Character
alone is trustworthy in which each virtue takes
its relative position, and all are held in place and
confirmed by the keystone of a living faith in
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the great centrfd fact, that th^re is a Ood of in-
finite goodness and truth, whose commandments
are the laws of life in this world And the world
to come.
We cannot religiously obey one command-
ment unless we desire to obey all; because in
order to obey one religiously we must obey it
from reverence to the divine authority whence it
emanates : and when ^uch reverence is aroused in
the h^art, it sends the current of spiritual life to
every member of -the spiritual frame, permeating
the whole, being, and suffering no disease to re-
main upon the soul. He, therefore, who devotes
himself to some one object of jeform, enters upon
an undertaJdng involving one of the most subtle
temptations by which man is ever assailed.
Spiritual pride will lie in wait for him every mo-
ment, telling him how clean he is compared with
those against whose vices he is cont^nding4 and
unless, he is very strong in Christian humility, he
will soon learn this oft-repeated lesson, and will
go about the wcwld with the spirit of the Phari-
see's prayer ever in his heart, — " God, I thank
the^ that I am not as other men, intemperate, a
dov^iokler, a contemner of the rights of the
weak. I am not, like many men, contented with
fulfilling the common, every-day. duties of life.
They are too small for me. I seek to do great
.things ; and to show my devotion to thee by
going armed with all the power the law allows.
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to put down vice by force, and drive it from the
face of the earth.'* '
There IS a class of men who aidsume to be, and
are received by many as, philanthropists, who
appear to delight in detecttng and publishing to
the world the vices of their fellow-beings. They
seem to love to hate:; and to find, in viKfying the
reputations 6i those to whom they are opposed^
a pleasure that can be compared t6 nothing
human ; but taiher tb the joy of a vulture as he
gloats over, and rends in pieces, his carrion prey.
While reading or listening to the raging denun-
ciations of such persons, one is painfully re-
minded of the spirit that a few generations ago
armed itself with the fagot and the axe in order
to destroy those who held opinions in opposition
to the dominant power. T?he axe and the fdgot
have disappeared; but, alas for human nature!
the spirit that delighted in their use has liot
whoUy parsed away; the flame and sword it
uses now are those of malignity and hatred; it
does not scorch nor wound the body, but only
bums and slays the reputations of those whom it
assails. Forgetting that the Lord has declared,
" Judgment is mine,*' it hesitates btft Ettlfe to pass
its condemnations upon those who differ from
itself; and if Christian commandments are urged
against it, it passes them by with a sneei, or
openly sets them aside as too narrow and imper-
fect for the present age.
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While shrinking firom the dangers that lie in
wait for those who devote themselves to on^ idea
in morality or reform, we should beware of fedl-
ing into the opposite extreme of indifference, on
these same points ; and should be sure to give
them their full shaxe of consideration. The ultra
conservatism, ths^t holds fast to existing customs
and organizations merely because they are old,^or
from the love of conservation, is quite as fatuous
as the rsUlicalism that would destroy the old
merely because it is old, or from the love of de-
struction. He whose conscience knows lio higher
sanction or restraint than the Statute-Book, is
not enough of a Christian to be a good citizen ;
while he who does not respect the Statute-Book
as the palladium of his country, is not a citizen
worthy the name of Christian. While striving
to remain unbiased' by the clamor of party, or
the violence of individuals, we should with equal
care avoid the opposite error of looking with ap-
proval, or even with indifference, upon usages or
institutions whose only claim to our forbearance
lies in laws or popular .opinions whose deformity
should be discovered, and whose power should
melt awTsiy beneath the lig^t and waripth of a
Christian sun.
True religious life consists in doing the will of
God every moment of our lives. His will must
bear upon u^ everjrwhere and at all times. Where
the mind is absorbed in some one object of re-
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form, this constant devotion to duty is almost, if
not quitCj impossible. The mind becomes so
warped in one direction, that it loses the habit^
and almost loses the power, of turning in any
other. Hence we rarely hear the word dutp from
the lips of the reformer. He constantly descants
upon rights or wrongs^ while duties seem forgot- ,
ten. Thus we hear perpetually of the rights or*
of the wrongs of man or of woman, of the citi-
zen or of the criminal, and of the slave ; but the
duties of these clas&es seem to have passed out
of sight. Now it is only when all shall fulfil
their several duties that the rights of all can be
respected ; and if peace on earth and good- will
towards men are ever to reign, it must be when
piety and charity shall go hand in hand, — when
the human race shall unite as one to fulfil its
duties towards God and towards each other.
Violence of every kind springs from a desire
to do one's own wilt Egotism is the sure ac-
companiment of wrath. TJie love of Grod never
constrained any man to vilify his brother. He
who is bent on the perfonnance of duty, ^ho
desires simply to do the will of Godj is firm as a
rock, but never violent. He prays, with the
poetj —
*^ Let not tbis weak, unknowing band
F^snme thy bolfea to throw,
Atid deal djunnation round the land.
On e&ch I jadg^ thy foe.''
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He remembers that judgment bdongs to Gro4;
and that the Lord taught us to pray, " Forgive
our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass
against us " ; and surely none can hurl denuncia-
tion upon a fellow-sinner if from his heart he
offer that prayer.
Possibly the ground may be taken, that we
should forgive our own personal enemies, but not
the enemies of the Lord, against whom the re-
former diriects his wrath. But is the arm of the
Lord shorteAed that he cannot avenge his own
wrongs ? and who among mortals is so pure or
80 Strong that he may dare to say^ the Lord has
need of him for a champion ?
It is deemed just that a soldier should suffer
severe punishment if he act without orders, talk-
ing upon himself the authority of a compianding
officer. How, much more is he worthy of con-
demnation who puts hiinself .in place of God,
and, under pretence of doing him service, pre-
sumes to transgress his explicit commands.
We are prone to fancy that, wheij we are fond
of* talking abot^t any object, we are fond of the
object itself; but this by no means follows of
course; We may delight in talking about phi-
lanthropy while our hearts are burning with
haired, or about temperance while intoxicated
with passion, or about abolitionism while we
have no respect for the liberty of those around
us, and no comprehension of that liberty where-
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with Christ makes his children free ; and all this
because we are working from the blind impulses
of an unrege Derate spirit. When the spirit be-
comes regenerate, — taught of God, — it per-
ceives the unity of virtue, and can never again
regard it as a dismembered fragment Then it
knows, that to do wrong that good may come of
it is striving to cast out Satan by Beelzebub, —
an effort that must surely faih Then it feels that
evil is really overcome only by good. How dif-
ferent will be the reformatory zeal of this state of
the spirit from ttiat which preceded it. For-
merly, no sooner was the subject of reform men-
tioned, than the neck stiffened and the head
tossed itself backward vnth the excitement ol
pride and combativenessj while the tongue poured
forth whatever phrases anger might suggest.
Now, how different is the attitude and expres-
don, as with words of gentleness and love it
strives to draw others to perceive the beauty of
purity and justiee* Formerly, the whole effort
of the mind was to compel others to come into
agreement with itself j now, it strives to win
them into harmony with God. Once, it believed
that indignation could be righteous ; nowj it
knows that anger and heavenly-mindedncBS dwell
far apart ; and, if tliey approach each other, one
must perish.
If we would train Character into genuine good-
11668, we should observe whether evil in ouiaelves
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or others offends us because it is contrary to our
own ideas, or because it is opposed to the will
of God. If the former be the case, we shall find
ourselves angry ; if the latter, we shall be sor-
rowful. No one can be angry from love to God.
Anger is in its very nature egotistic and selfish,
and Jias in it nothing of holiness. Penitence for
sin is ever meek and humble, and so is regret for
the sins of others. The moment we find our-
selves angry, either for our own sins or for
the sins of others, we may be sure there is
something wrong in our state, and we should
stop at once to analyze our feelings, and find
where the trouble lies. If we do this ^ conscien-
tiously, we shall be sure to find some selfish or
worldly passion at the root of the matter. We
shall find that something ^Ise than love to God
excited our indignation.
K we find ourselves indulging, habitually and
with satisfaction, in any one sin, we may be sure
that we have not true hatred for any sin ; for sin
is hateful because it is contrary to the infinite
wisdom and goodness of God. K we abhor it
for this reason, we shall abhor all sin ; and if we
find ourselves hating some sins and loving others,
we may be sure that we hate those which are re-
pugnant to our own tastes, and love those which
are in conformity with them. Thus our measure
of sin is in ourselves, and not in God ; and we
are putting ourselves in place of God, — wor-
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shipping the idol self, instead of our Father in
heaven.
The Lord was very explicit in his teachings
regarding the necessiiy of the denial of self; but
this is the last thing in which we are willing to
obey him. We profess to be willing and ea^r
to do a great deal oi" good ; but when conseience
tells us that wc rangt do the will of God every
moment of our lives, wc turn away vnih a fior-
Towful countenance ; for there are many things
in which we wish to follow our own wills with-
out stopping to con^^ult the wOl of God, and we
wish to believe that w^e can do tliia and yet be
quite virtuous enough to insure salvation* While
the natural man is strong within us, we arc ever
striving to serve God and mammon; but when
the spiritual man Is born, we are willing to give
up all elise and follow the Lord. Theiij we feel
that we cannot be tndy virtuousj because we are
in some points very scrupulous, wliile in others
we are very in di fibre nt ; for we perceive that
goodness is the harmonious development of the
whole Character into accordance with the will of
God.
So long as we labor for ourselves , we shall be at'
best only special reformersj and cultivators of spe-
cial virtues ; but when we are ready to deny our-
selves, and to do the will of God, all sin will be-
come abhorrent to us, and we shall grow in grace
daily nntO we become perfected in that symmet-
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rical form of man, which is the image and like-
ness of God ; and every faculty of the heart and
of the head will then be baptized into the name
of the Father, of the Son, and of the Holy
Spirit
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" It Lb this trloltj of man — for maa ta t^e image of hk (kid, In whom
U th« esseatLal t!rkiltj — UDdec whieh bh whQle chazacter mmA be stodfed-^'
Man being created in the image and Ukeneas
of Grod, we must of necessity find in him a
finite organization corresponding with the infi-
nite organisation of the Creator. In the Infinite
Divine Trinity there are the Divine Goodness
or Love, the Divine Truth or Wisdom, and the
Divine Operation or the manifestation of the
other two in and upon the universe ; in other
words J tJie Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. " In
the human J finite trinity, we have,<;orresponding
with these, AflFection, Understanding, and Use,
or external life. Divinity being the embodiment
of infinite order, Its parts act in a sequence of
absolute perfection ; that is, absolute love by
means of absolute wisdom exhibits itself in ab-
solute use* Speaking with exactness, the word
sequence is out of place in this connection, be*
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cause with the Divinity love, wisdon^ and oper-
ation are simultaneous ; but he has separated
them in his ultimate manifestations, and we are
obliged to separate thefn in our analysis, in order
that they may in any degree come within the
compass of human comprehension/
Man in his jmmeval innocence was a genuine
image and likeness of the All-perfect Divinity ;
perfect after the same manner, but on a lower
plane. There was then no antagonism between
the creature and the Creator; and the finite
naturally and joyfully obeyed the infinite; for
in obedience to the will of the Heavenly Father
it found sustenance for the soul as manifestly
as in meat and drink for the body. The prog-
ress of time saw the creature ttirn firom the love
of God to the love of self, from seeking the
truth of Sod to seeking out its own vain ima^-
nations, and from performing the orderly uses
of a life of charity to all the disorderly indulgen-
ces of selfish passion. Instead of worshipping,
the living God, man now invented idols repre-
senting his owii evil passions, and bowed before
them in adoring admiration; for the attributes
wherewith he clothed them were fitting forces to
stimulate his progress along the pathway he had
chosen, where life was made hideous by the
lowering shadows of rapine and murder.
The first Church, represented by Adam and
Eve, is the general type of every Church tiiat has
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followed ity tod of every nnregenerate individual
in those Chmches. Instead of looking to God
as the source of all wisdom, there is ever the de-
sire to eat of, or*make otlr own, the fruit of the
tree of knowledge, tliSit we may know of (ywr^
selves good ^09 evil ; and that we may do of
ourselves what seeAis to us right; jand instead of
penitence for sin and an endeavor after reforma-
tion, there is U striving to conceal our tinfaithful-
ness. The covering assumed by those who, in
Scripture, stand as the parents of mankind, is
the perpetual type of the subterfuges we all in-
vent to hide our disobedience from our God,
from our neighbors, nay, even from ourselves.
The primal image and likeness of God has be-
come so defaced, distorted, and broken, that it is
often hard to find a remnant still testifying to its
divine origin. Let us rise up from among these
shattered fragments, and contemplate for a while
the means of bringing the poor, fallen human
nature into harmony with the divine ; — let us
develop, if we can, a system that may aid us in
training our faculties, so that the Affections shall
be pure, the Understanding wise, and Life the
harmonious exponent of both.
In the attempt to restore our being to its origi-
nal symmetry, the intellectual part of the nature
must not be cultivated at the expense of the
affectional, nor should the affectional be suffered
to run riot with the intellectual. Love must be
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wise, and wisdom must be affectionate, or life
will fail of its end. Extiernal morality has no re-
liable foundation unless it be built on morality
of thought and affectiorl. Apart from these, it is
either the result of a happy organization that de-
mands no disorderly indulgence^ or 'it is the fig-
leaf gEirment of deceit, put 'on by those who
strive to seem rather than to be.
In the just training of Character, if we first
learn to understand the capacities and relations
of Affection, Thought, and Life, and look within
our own natures until we learn to comprehend
how everything pertaining to our being belongs
to one. of these departments, we shall better ap-
preciate the difficulties to be overcome before we
shall be willing to make everything that we do
the honest outbirth of everything that we are.
Pretence and hypocrisy, subterfuge and falsehood,
will then disappear, and life will become the ad-
equate expression of symmetrical Character.
Th^ intellectual part of our being may be bet-
ter understood if divided into two departments,
viz. Thought and Imagination, — the subjective
and the objective. Thought can be lifted up
into the Affections, and made manifest in Life,
only through the medium of the Imagination.
Thought is at first a pure abstraction, a subjec-
tive idea, — something entirely within the mind,
and having no relation to conduct, — a seed
sown but not germinated ; and while it remains
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thus it has no influence upon the Aifections. If,
however, it germinate, the next step in its exist-
ence is to become an objective idea ; and now it
has lost its abstract quality and become an im-
age. In its first state it is neither agreeable nor
disagreeable to the mind, but so soon as it takes
a distinctive form it becomes either pleasing or
displeasing, and is either cast away and forgot-
ten, or retained and expanded by the Affections,
whose office it is to cause Thought to become a
vital reality, ready to show itself in the externeJ
life «o soon as a fitting occasion calls for its
manifestation.
Thought is like water. Sometimes it glides
over the mind as over a bed of rock, neither
softening nor fertilizing ; but when it is made a
possible reality by the Imagination, and a vital
reality by the Afleetions, it is now like a stream,
flowing through rich farms and gardens, fertiliz-
ing wherever it comes ; and, again, like Water-
falls, furnishing power to set ideas in motion,
that shall give nutriment and warmth to the
souls of millions.
The Lord, when he would condense religion
into its narrowest <5ompass, commands us to love
the Heavenly Father with the whole heart and
soul and mind and strength. Can this signify
anything else thati that Affection, Imagination,
and Thought, in their whole strength, or brought
. down into the ultimates of life, must be conse-
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crated to the Divine Creator of them all ? So St.
Paul, xrhen he would sum up the whole Christian
system in a single phrase, exclaims : '^ Faith,
Hope, Charity. The greatest of these is Chari-
ty." Faith here expresses the religion of Thought,
Hope the religion of the Imagination, and Charr
ity the religion of the Affections, which is great-
est of all because it is the vitalization of the
other two.
Every act that we voluntarily perform, whether
good or evil, first entered the mind as an abstract
Thought ; it was then shaped by the Imagina-
tion untU it became a definite idea ; next, it was
claimed as a child by the Affections ^ and lastly,
it vv-as by the Affections made to come out into
a Ufteof love or an abuse of hate.
Many thoughts die in the mind without pass-
ing through all these stages. We sometimes
hear a sermon that fiUs our Thoughts as we
listen, and yet we forget it a;ll as we turn away
from the church door ; for it went no deeper than
our Thought^. At another time, what we hear
goes with us to our homes, haunts us through
the week, and perhaps is made a standard
whereby to measure the virtues or the vices of
our neighbors ; possibly even we try ourselves by
its rule, and our consciences are roused to^pierce
us with the shai-p pang of remorse. All this,
however, brings no change over our lives. Here
Thought has passed into Imagination, has be-
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come a reality to the mind ; but as yet the Affec-
tions do i^ot warm towards it, and so it dies in
the second stage of existence. Yet again we
listen to the voice of the preacher, and his words
abide in the soul untU they quicken our Affec-
tions, and as we muse the fire burns. Then
are our eyes 'lightened to perceive how all that
we have heard may become realized in life ; and,
warmed by the heavenly flanle that has de-
scended upon our altar, our souls kindle with
charity, and we go forth to realize the hope that
is within lis in works of angelic use.
This process of the mind is not confined to the
religious part of our being. It goes on perpetu-
ally in our intellectual, no less than our moral
nature. Our success in using whatever we learn
in every department, the wisdom or the folly of
everything we do, whether relating to intellectual,
to religious, or to practical life, depends on the
faithfulness with which we apply these three
powers to whatever is presented to them.
Look in among the assembled members of a
school, of any grade from primary to collegiate,
and you will see one set of pupils with stolid
faces conning their tasks, as if they were indeed
tasks in the hardest sense of the term, and then
reciting them word for word, in a monotonous
tone, as if their voices came from automata, and
not from living throats. These are they who
study only with their Thoughts, and whose Im-
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aginations and Affections are untouched by
all that passes through their minds. Scattered
among the preceding another class may be found,
with quickly glancing eyes, who seem all alive to
everything they study, who recite with earnest
tones, and whose faces are bright with expres-
sion. Here the Imagination is at work, and
everything the mind seizes upon stands there at
once a living picture. These are the brilliant
scholars, who carry off all the prizes, and win all
admiration. There is still a third class, of a
calmer aspect. Its members may not shine so
brightly, but there is more warmth in their rays.
They will not learn so much nor so rapidly as
those of the second class, but their whole being is
permeated by what they know. They are con-
stantly studying the relations of the things that
they learn to each other and to life ; and are en-
deavoring to form themselves in accordance with
the rationality they thus acquire ; for their Affec-
tions have fastened themselves upon it, and it is
therefore becoming a part of their being.
When these three classes of pupils become
men and women, and go forth into the various
walks of life, the first, if they attempt any handi-
craft, are the botchers and bunglers, who bring
little more than their hands to anything that they
do ; and who, therefore, do nothing well. They
are the dead weights of society, that must be
helped through life by their more active neigh-
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bors. If they are scholars, they are collectors of
facts, which they pile up in their memories as a
miser heaps his gold, for no end but the pleasure
of heaping. They make physicians without
resource, lawyers without discernment, preach-
ers who dole out divinity in its baldest and
heaviest forms.
Those of the second class are always better in
theory than in practice ; for with them zeal ever
runs before knowledge. They will delight in
telling how a thing should be done, but will find
it very difficult to do it themselves. A black-
smith of this class will tell with great exactness
how a horse should be shod, but if trusted to
perform that office, ten to one the poor anhnal
will go limping from his hands. So a carpenter
of the same class will be full of plans and fancies
that he will wish to carry out for the benefit of
his employers ; but his work, when completed,
though perhaps elegant and ornamental, will
probably be inappropriate in appearance, and not
adapted to the use for which it was intended.
From this class come inventors of machines that
are never heard of after they get into the patent-
office, schemers and speculators ¥rtiose plans end
in ruin, boon companions, brilliant talkers, spark-
ling orators, elegant and ornate poets who sing
blithely for their own day and generation, preach-
ers and statesmen who are ever led away by
Utopian and millennial dreams ; in short, men
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who may shine while they live, but are seldom
remembered when they die.
The third class are men of mark, in whatever
walk of life they are found ; — men to be relied
upon for whatever they may undertake. They
are men who can produce in Life what their
Understandings know and imagine ; or, rather,
who know how to select from their stores of
Thought and Imagination whatever may be
realized in -Life. If they are mechanics, their
work is the best of its kind, and precisely adapt-
ed to the use for which it was intended ; if they
are machinists, their inventions ar^ those that
ameliorate the condition of society ; if merchants
or speculators, they do not run after bubbles;
if devoted to intellectual pursuits, they are di-
vines whose thoughts thrill the souls of men for
centuries, founders of new schools of philosophy,
lawgivers and statesmen who are remembered
with gratitude as the fathers of nations, poets
whose words are destined to live so long as the
language in which they write is spoken, — nay,
who shall cause their language to be studied
ages after all who spoke it have passed from the
face of the earth.
The women who belong to these several classes
are characterized in like manner, though th6ir
more retired lives prevent them from displaying
their traits so conspicuously. Those of the first
class are dress-makers whose work never fits, mil-
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liners whose bonnets look as if they were not
intended for the wearers, servants who do nothing
rightly unless the eye of their mistress is npon
them, teachers whose pupils are taught as if they
were beings withqiit life or reason ; and in their
highest relations as wives and mothers, they are
those with whom nothing goes as it should,
whose daily lives are but a succession of mis-
takes and catastrophes, whose husbands never
find a comfortable home to which they may re-
turn for repose after a day of toil, whose children
are " dragged up, not brought up."
In the second class are servants who have a
quick perception of what is to be done, and who
make all that is directly apparent to the eye look
well, but a closer observation shows many an
unswept corner and neglected duty ; dress-makers
and milliners whose work is ornamental, tasteful,
and breaming, though the ornamentation is apt
to be too great for the value of the material, and
the w6rk will now and then come in pieces for
lack of being thoroughly finished ; teacherd who
infuse brightness and quickness into their schol-
ars, but whose instructions are more showy than
solid. In their housekeeping they understand
" putting the best foot foremost," and making a
great deal of. ornament where there may be but
little of anything else ; but they lack the prac-
tical skill that makes a housekeeper successful
in the essentials that constitute comfort. They
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will seek to make their children accomplished
ladies and gentlemen, who will be agreeable in
society, rather than well-trained men and women,
capable of meeting the duties and emergencies
of life.
The third class of women are the reliable ones,
wherever they may be found. They do every-
thing they attempt well, because there is a sense
of fitness and propriety in them which is dis-
turbed by things badly done, and which gives
them aii almost intuitive faith, that, if a thing is
worth doing at all, it is worth doing well. They
are not eyeservants, but faithful in all things.
Thoroughness pervades whatever they do, in all
departments of life. They are not satisfied with
making a dress or a bonnet that is becoming, un-
less it is well finished and appropriate. They
are the thorough teachers who are willing to
have their schools examined every day in the year,
who seek to know the capacities of their pupils,
and to educate them accordingly. They are the
mothers whose children are obedient and trained
for the uses of life no less than for its pleasures ;
the wives whose husbands are happy in their
homes if they are capable of being happy any-
where.
"When we contemplate these three classes of
human beings, we perceive that only one of
them can be said to lead successful lives. Two
daises, and both of them painfully numerous,
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fail. The question rises to the mind with fearful
solemnity, were they created for this end, — cre-
ated to fail ? Can we for a single moment be-
lieve that a Father of infinite justice and mercy
ever created one individiial among his children,
an accountable being, neither insane nor idiotic,
and yet so imperfect that he must fail ? Surely it
were blasphemy to hold such an act possible.
Infinitely varipus are the works of his hand in
the forms of humanity, as in every other depart-
ment of the universe, but even so manifold are
the varieties and degrees of service which he pre-
pares for every one to do. There is a place and
a use for every one, and whoever fails of finding
a place and a use fails, not because he was cre-
ated incompetent, but because he refuses to
cultivate the powers wherewith he is endowed.
Indolence and selfishness, the moth and rust of
Character, are corroding and devouring the deli-
cate organization of the internal man, which can
retain the wholeness and brightness of its powers
only by constant use. We are weak and useless,
not because we were created to be so, but be-
cause we do not listen to the voice of conscience
when it tells us to serve the Lord with all our
strength, in the very place where we now are,
and at the very time that now is. It is not be-
cause the power of growth is not in them that
our talents do not multiply, but because we fold
them in a napkin of indifference, and bury then^
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in the earth of our lower nature. Understand-
ing and Affection are within us all, and if they
do not develop into a life of use, into a Char-
acter that will fit us for heaven, — and this is
what we should always keep before our minds as
the only genuine success, — it is because we have
not striven as we might and ought..
Understanding and Affection are within us aU,
differing not in kind, but only in degree ; and they
are constantly at work, involuntarily if we do ngt
voluntarily, assume their <5ontrol. In the little
child they work as involuntarily as the heart
beats and tiie lungs respfre ; biit so soon as the
:^hild is old enougli to begin to know the differ-
snce between right and wrong, the action of
these powers should begin to be voluntary ;
should begin to be under the guidance of con-
science.
Some persons call these powers into volun-
tary action from motives of mere worldly wis-
dom. Every one does so who places some ob-
ject before himselfj and cultivates his powers
with a special view to attain perfection therein.
The pickpocket, the gambler, the housebreaker,
must do it before they can attain skill in their
depravity. The worldling does it who follows
an honorable profession with all his heart and
soul and mind and strength, seeking only such
rewards as Mammon bestows upon his vota-
ries. Whether all these are to be successful in
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attaining the rewards they seek, is a matter of
entire uncertainty; for Providence permits or
withholds worldly success in a way that we can-
not anticipate, nor but imperfectly understand.
We may bear the heavy yoke of Mammon until
it wear into the very marrow of our bones, and yet
gain nothing but poverty and disgrace. They,
however, who by a voluntary action of the powers
endeavor to become perfected in the stature of
Christian men and women, — who seek first the
kingdom of heaven and its righteousness, using
all things of this world only as rounds of that
ladder whose summit is in the heavens, even
while its base rests upon the cartli, — are sure of
the reward they seek; and the yoke that they
bear will grow more light and easy with each
revolving year.
There are many persons who seem to belong
by turns to each of the three great classes that
have been described. These exercise their powers
involuntarily. They cannot be depended upon,
for they are not balanced Characters. If they
happen to like what they are doing, or happen to
feel in the mood of doing it, they will do it Well ;
otherwise, they do not care how badly their work
is performed, if it only can be got through with.
They have ^lot waked to the consciousness that
we have . no right to do anything badly, because
whenever we do so we imjMir our own faculties,
and thereby diminish our powers of usefulness ;
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while, if the act concern any one beside our-
selves, — as almost all acts do,: — we are wrong-
ing our neighbor.
Many persons are. so fortunate, women espe-
cially almost always so, as to have enough em-
ployment placed before them by the circumstan-
ces of their position, without any effort of choice
on their part, to occupy their time, and to train
their faculties. Those who are not thus set to
work by circumstance should b^ governed in the
selection of their employment by their own in-
clination and talent^. What we love to do we
can iearn to do well, and our work will then be
agreeable to us. Many persons are governed
in the choice of employment for themselves or
for their children more by a consideration for
what is honorable in the eyes of the world than
by talent or taste. Thence it often results that
persons fail ever to fulfil the duties they have
chosen in a way to be satisfactory tp any one
beside themselves, perhaps not even to them-
selves. K they have sufficient force of Character
to do well in spite of not doing what they like,
they are still never so happy as they would have
been had inclination been consulted. Where the
heart is really in the employment, work is hot a
burden, but a natural and pleasant exercise of
the powers ; and it becomes comparatively easy
to serve the Lord with 'all the strength.
Those who are not constrained to work^ should
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remember that a life of idleness cannot be a life
of innocence ; for the idle cannot serve the Lord.
A life that does not cultivate one's own capaci-
ties, and aid either in supplying the wants or cul-
tivating, the capacities of some one beside self, is
no preparation for heaven ; for the heavenly life
is one of perpetual advance, because of untiring,
use.
There is no station in life where there is not a
constant demand for the exercise of charity. We
cannot be in company an hour with ?iny person
without some such demand presenting itself to
us. The daily intercourse of life places it con-
stantly in our power to make some person more
or less happy than he now is, and accordingly
as we may choose between these two modes
of action we are fulfilling or setting aside the
law of charity.
No class of human beings b^ara a more heavy
weight of responsibility than that which is placed
beyond the necessity of effort ; and there is none
whose position has a stronger tendency to blind
it to the calls of duty. Although every gift be-
stowed upon us by Providence, whether of mind,
body, or estate, is but another talent, for the em-
ployment of wjhich we must be one day called to
account, yet these added talents too often ex-
cite in us a feeling of superiority which induces
us to demand that others should minister to us,
and causes us to forget that he who would be
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greatesit must be so by doing more and greater
services than others, and not by receiving them.
Persons whose position places them beyond
the need of effort, would do well to select some
special study or employment to occupy and de-
velop their mental life, and save them from the
ihanity, ennui, and selfishness that are sure to
follow in the footsteps of idleness. Poverty of
mind is rendered all the more prominent and dis-
gusting if accompanied by external wealth ; and
to such a mind wealth is but a means to folly, if
to nothing worse.
Neither wealth nor poverty, neither strength
nor weakness, neither genius nor the want of
it, neither ten talents nor one, can excuse any
human being from training his faculties in a way
to develop them to the utmost, and forming
them into a symmetrical whole, the type of a
true humanity.
In the following essays it may seem to the
reader that there is contradiction in treating each
power of the mind as though its perfect training
resulted in the upbuilding of a perfect Character' ;
but the union between these capacities is so inti-
mate that one cannot be rightly trained unless all
the others are trained at the same time. We
cannot think wisely unless we imagine truly,
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and love rightly, as well as warmly. We cannot
love rightly unless we think justly, and imagine
purely ; nor can we imagine purely unless we
love that which is pure. We cannot do all this
unless we live out what we think, imagine, and
love ; for the inner life always acts narrowly and
superficially unless it be widened and deepened
by an efficient external life. What we do must
follow closely in the footsteps of what we know,
if we would arrive at breadth and depth of knowl-
edge. So fast as we put in practice what we
know, we shall be able to receive more knowl-
edge. We are told by the Lord that our knowl-
edge of truth shall be enlarged in proportion as
we are obedient to the Divine will. " K any man
will do His will, he shall know of the doctrine."
The Divine attributes act simultaneously and
equally always and everywhere, while the triune
manifestation is a merciful adaptation of these
attributes to the comprehension of fallen human-
ity. " Were humanity truly regenerate, the action
of its capacities would be simultaneous and homo-
geneous. Even in its present state these capa-
cities are so interlaced that one cannot act strong-
ly without inducing some action in the others ;
just as in the physical frame the brain, the heart,
and the lungs can no one of them act unless all
act in some degree; while in perfect health all
act in the fulness of perfect harmony, no one or-
gan rendering itself prominent by being more
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full of vitality and activity than another. Dis-
ease alone renders us conscious of the action of
any one vital organ, and our moral diseases
having destroyed the harmonious action of our
moral powers, thereby Trendering it impossible
for us to appreciate the Divinity in the full har-
mony of unity, we have been mercifully permitted
to attain to such knowledge as is possible to us
through manifestations of the Divine attributes in
trinity. In proportion as our faculties are trained
to act in harmony we shall become unconscious
of their separate functions ; and in the same pro-
portion we shall become capable of looking upon
the Divinity in the majesty of personal unity,
rather than in the separation of the trinity.
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" It is tlM grahdeor of all tealh w^cli can oocopy a^reiy hS^h place In^iiiman
intorasts, tiiat it is nerer abiolateiy rtorei to the meanest (tf miikls : it ^dsls
•temally by way of germ or latent principle in the lowest as in the highest,
needing to be dereloped, but neyer to be planted." *^I>i Qunrcxt. .
Many p6rsops. seem txi suppose that the power
of Thought, or at least the power of thinking to
any purpose^ is a- natural gift, possessed by few,
and unattainable by the many. This idea is a
very petbicious error, for one of the traits by
which the human being is distinguished from the
brute is the ppssessibji of this power; and the
progress that every, human b^ing may make in
learning to think well has no limit but the uni-
versal one of finite capacity. ^
The distinction made between thoughtful and
thoughtless persons is^ commonly one of intellect
alone ; it should be quite as much one of moral-
ity. Considered intellectually, a thoughtless per-
son cannot be successful in any but the very
Idwest walks of life. He brings nothiilg but ' is
4
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hands to what he does. If these bet sti-ong, he
may dig, perhaps, as well as another man, but he
can never jnake a good farmer ; he may use the
axe or the hammer to good purpose, but he can
never becotne a master-workman. If ha attempt
anything more or higher than what his hands
can do under the guidance of jahother's brain, his
effort is sure to be followed' by confusion and
failure. Viewing a thoughtless person in a moral
light, hetiannot be religious, he cannot be virtu?
ous, and, unless by accidpnt, he cannot even be
externally moral. He may, perhaps, perceive
that the grosser forms of wickedness are to be
avoided, but he can have no -comprehension of
the danger involved in the little vices of every-
day life; and c5annot understand how every oi^
of these vices, small as it may seem, contains
within itself the germ of some one of those great
and shocking sins forbidden i^ the cotnmand-
ments. He will, therefore, without compunction,
go on committing these small sins until-the habit
of evil becomes so fixed, that, if he does not end
by committing great ones, it is more frequently
from lack of temptation than firom any worthier
reason. ^
The thoughtless person can never be depended
upon for anything. We never know where to
find him, or what he will dp in any particular
position or relation of life. All we can antici-
pate of him is, that he will probably do some-
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thing b^d, or silly, or improper; accordingly as the
act may'ljear upon morality, sense, or manners.
Before going further, let it be understood that
a thoughtless person is not one without Thought.
A human being without Thought is an impossi-
biRty. Most, if not all^ idiots think.- It is the
lack of coherency, purpose, and effort in Thought
that induces the habit of mind commonly known
as thoughtlessness. Without Thought, Imagina-
tion, and Aflfection, one could riot be a liuman
being. .Mankind differ frojn each other, not in
kind, but in degree. It is the lov^ degree of ac-
tivity in eithet of these great divisions of the
human mind that causes one to aeem thought-
less, unimaginative, or without affection. The
end of all training should be to develop each one
of these facilities so that it shall co-operate with
the others, and all as fully as possible. A j^st
balance of power is the first requisite, and con-
stant increase of it the second; just as in the
physical frame we ask, first, for just proportion,
and, as the product of this, for strength.
It is often said that no kind of sense is so rare
as commt>n sense; and this is iiue, simply be-
cause common sense is attainable by all far more,
and is a natural gift far less, than roost other
traits of character. Common sense is the appli-
cation of Thought to common things, and it
is rare because most persons "will not exercise
Thought about common things. If some im-
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portant aflair oocurs, people lay then to think^
but to vety little purpose; because, not having
exercised their powers Qif small things, their
powers lack the development necessary for great
on^s. Hence, thoughtless people, when forced to
act in an affair of importance, blunder through it
with no more chance of doing as they should,
than one would have of hinting a small or distant
mark at a shooting-match, if previous practice
had uot given the power of hitting objects that
are large and near.
The thoughtless person perpetually acts and
speaks as if it were o£ no consequence what is
said or done. If any one venture to suggest a
different mode of speech or action, the reply is
pretty sure to be, " Q, it is of no <;onsequence ! "
As if an immortal being, to .whom a few short
years of probation had been given, the use pr
abuse of which must give character to an eter-
nity to come, could do or say what would have
no consequence ! Let any one bring distinctly
before himself the great truth that we stand ever
in the presence^ of the Almighty, stewards of his
bounty, children of his Ipve, iand could it be pos-
sible for him to believe that it is of no .conse-
quence how that love is returned, and how that
bounty is used ? Ev6ry wprd, every act of our
lives, is either a use or an abuse of his bounty, a
showing forth either of our love for or our indif-
ference to him. Therefore, every word and act
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has a cQDsequence, ended not with the hour or
day, but stretching forward into eternity. Let
this truth be admitted to the mind, and who
could dare to be thoughtless. Who wouM riot
wish to return the infinite love poured out upon
usy by consecrating all that we ha:ve and all that
we are to the service of the Infinite Father?
When this consecration takes place, all pure
aspirations fill the heart, while the mind is ever
thinking wliat is the best way in which the will
of the Lord may be done. Thoughtlessness has
no longer an abiding-place, for the mind now
perceives that it must be about its Father's busi-
ness, and Thpught becomes a delightful and in-
vigorating exercise, instead of the wearisome
effort it seemed before.
K the mind hold to its* integrity, without re-
lapsing into its former state of blind indifference
to its high vocation, the cultivation of the power
of Thought will go on steadily and surely, and
the mind will become constantly more and more
clarified from all folly and silliness.
When a person brings everything habitually to
the standard of right and wrong, he gradually
learns to judge wisely of whatever subject he
may hold under consideration, provided he does
not seek for that standard in his own mind, but
in the mind of the Lord, as he has given it to us
in the Wprd of eternal life. When this stand-
ard is sought only in the human mind, nothing
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is fixed or permanent, and discord abounds iii so-
ciety much as it would if the length and breadth
of the fingers of each individual were ta be sub-
stituted for the standard inch and foot of the
nation ; but if the Bible be honestly and humbly
received as the standard by;, which to judg^ of
right and wrongs mankind would ever abide in
brotherly love and harmonious union. The ele-
ment of discord is not in God's work, but in the
mind of man ; and m^ becomes truly wise and
capable of concord only^ so far as, forgetting the
' device^ of his own underst^,nding, he becomes a
recipient of the truth that descends to him firom
on high.
It may be objected that the Bible has b^en
the fruitful source of contention and war; and
some may suppose it cannot therefore be a stand-
ard of union to the world; but it should be re-
membered, tl?at, when it has become a cause of
dissension, it has been by the. pervasion of man,
who has separated doctrine from life, — has put
asunder that which God joined. No. contention
has ever risen^ in the world regarding religious
life, but many and terrible ones regarding re-
ligious doctrine separated firom life; and it is
perfectly apparent, that, had those who were en-
gaged in them looked to religious life with the
same earnestness they did toward doctrine, all
these dissensions must have ceased. Christian
life is, as it were, a building, of which faith is the
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foundation. The foundation is subservient to
the superstrueture, anjj should be strong and
well laid;/ but has no value excepting as it is the
support of a worthy, btdlding. The Lord is very
explicit in aU his teachings on the subject of life,
and it is* h«M(dly possible that any oUe could
faithfully study his words, and then exalt abstract
doctrine into the place that belongs of right to
Christian life, . ' >
Whoever studies the direct teachings of the
LcMrd, recorded by the Evangelists, and makes
them the rules erf his Thoughts, must necessarily
be wise. Everything connected with daily life,
if his mind be really permeated with these teach-
ings, takes its proper place beforp him. He sees
what has a transient, and what a permanent
value, — what is merely temporal, and what eter-
nal ; and so learns to appreciate the relative value
of all things. Everything that occurs becomes
a subject for his thoughts to work upon, and
while working in heavenly Ught his mind grows
in .wisdom day by day. Thi& action of Thought
will not be confined to events as they occur
around him, but whatever is read, all the events
of the past, all art and sdence, are brought under
the same analysis. The thoughtless person reads
merely for tiie amusement of the moment, re-
members little of what he reads, and that little
to no purpose^ A fact is, to such a man, a mere
fact standing by itself, and having no relation to
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anything else. Howerer much he may read, the
thoughtless man can never be instructed. He is
of those who, seeing, perceive not, and who,
hearing, do not understand. The thoughtful
person, on the contrary, reads everything with a
purpose. His mind works upon what he reads,
and he is instructed and made intelligent, even
though he may see only with the light of this
world. His intelligence will, however, be very
different and very inferior in degree to that of the
man who looks at objects iii the light of heaven.
He will measure things by an uncertaiin, varying
standard, and will appreciate things only accord-
ing to their tenpipbrgLl value. He will, therefore,
never become truly wise. With those whose
minds are nurtured by the words of the Lord,
everything is judged by the standard of eternal
truth. Whatever is learned is digested by the
thoughts, and so the powers of the mind are
strengthened and enlarged. Thus the mind be-
comes constantly more and more wise. The
merely intellectual man has the desire to become
wise, but his eye is not single, and therefore his
mind is obscured by many clouds,-^ the dark ex-
halations of worldliness. When «. man fixes his
eye upon the Lord he is filled with light, and
sees with a clearness of vision such as can be
gained from no other source.
The cultivation of Thought lies at the root of
all intellectuality, while it elevates and enlarges
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the sphere of the Affections. Affection is above
Thought, but it is sustained and invigorated by-
its influence. Thought being the foundation
upon which Affectidn is built, the strength, per- .
manence and reliability of Affection must depend
on the solidity and. justice of the underlying
Thought.
The mind may be stored with the most varied
and extensive knowledge, and yet be neither im-
proved nor adorned thereby. . Robert Hall once
remarked of an acquaintance, that he had piled
such an amount of learning upon his brain, it
could not move under the weight. It is little
matter whether the amount of learning be large
or small ; tiie brain is only encumbered by it, un-
less it has taten it into its o^^ texture, and made
it by Thought a part of itself. Some p^sons
love facts as a miser loves gold, merely because
they are possessions; but without any desire to
make use of them. A fact or thought is just as
valuaUe in itself as a piece of money. , Gold and
silver are neither food,, nor raiment, nor shelter ;
but we value them because through their means
we can obtain all these. So facts and thoughts
are neither rationality, nor wisdom, nor virtue,
and their value lies in their being mediums
whereby we may obtain them all.
Undigested learning is as useless and oppres-
sive as undigested food ; and as in the dyspeptic
patient the appetite for food often grows with the
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inability to digest it, so in the unthinking patient
an overweening desire to know often accom-
panies the inability to know to any purpose.
Thought is to the brain what gastric juice is to
the stomach,— a solvent to reduce whatever is re-
ceived to a condition in which all iJiat is whole-
some and nutritive may be appropriated, and that
alone. To learn merely for the sake of learn-
ing, is li||e eating merely for the taste of the
food. The mind will wax fat and unwieldy, like
the bofly of^ the gormand. The- stomach is to
the frame what memory is to the mind ; and it
is as unwise to cultivate the memory at the ex-
pense of the mind, as it would be to enlarge the
jcapacity of the stomach by eating more food
than the wants of the frame require, or food of a
quality that it could not appropriate. To learn
in order to become wise makes the mind active
and powerful, like the body of one who is tena-
perate and judicious in meat and drink. ' Learn-
ing is healthfully digested by the mind when it
reflects upon what is learned, classifies and
arranges facts and circumstances, considers the
relations of one to another, and places what is
taken into the mind at different times, in relation
to the same subjects under their apprx)priate
heads, so that the various stores are not hetero-
geneously- piled up, but laid away in order, and
may be referred to with ease when wanted. If a.
person's daily employments are such as demand
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a constant exercise of the thoughts, all the leisure
should not be devoted to reading, but a part re-
served for reflecting upon and arranging in the ^
mind what is relad. The manner of reading ^S
much more important than the quantity. To
hurry through maay books, retaining only a con-
fused knowledge of their contents, is but a poor
exercise of the brain ; it is far better to read with
care a few well-selected volumes.
There^is a strong tendency towards superficial
culture at the present day^ which is the Natural
resuit of the immense amount of bo6ks and peri-
odicals constantly pouring from th'e press, and
tempting readers to dip a little into almost
everything, and to study nothing. Much is said .
of the pernicious consequences arising from lec-
tures and periodicals, as though a short account
of anything must of necessity be a superficial
one ; but this is far from the truth. * A quarto
volume on one theme may be entirely super-
ficial, while a lecture or review-article on the
same theme may contain the whole gist of the
matter. Prolixity is oftener superficial than brev-
ity. Books are superficial if they relate only to
the outside of a subject, — if they describe only
its husk ; and ttie reverse, if they give its k^neL
Many an able review-article contains the kernel
of a whole volume, and if the pleased Reader of
the review goes to the book itself, expecting to
enjoy that in a degree proportionate to its sizes
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be will often find he has got nothing but a (fry
husk for his pains.
. Those who have little time for books, but who
^sh really to know many ^hings, can accomplish
a great deal by being careful to hunt for meats
rather than for shells and husks; for though the
outsides of things make, a great «how, and can
be displayed by the pedant to great advantage
before those who are superficial as^ himself, they
contain no healthful nutriment for the mind.
Take,.for instance, thfe study of botany. Let a
person master the whole vocabulary of the sci-
ence, and know the anraligement of its classifica-
tions so well that he can turn at once to the de-
scription of any plant be may find. Let him do
this until, like King Solomon, he knows every
plant by name, from the " hyssop on the wall to
the cedar of Lebanon ". ; but if at the same time he
knows nothing more about them than the name,
his knowledge of botany is entirely superficial,
though he may have spent a vast deal of time
and labor in its acquisition. "Let another person
have studied the physiology o/ plants till he has
learned all that has yet been discovered of their
curious and beautiful structure, — 'till he appre-
ciates as far as mortals may the Divine wisdom,
that even in the formation of a blade of grass
transcends not only all that man with all his
pride of science and mechanical skill can per-
form, but gofes far— we cannot even guess how
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far — beyond all that human intellect can com-
prehend ; and still more if the mind of this stu-
dent be lifted upward in adoration as he learns,
he is the true botanist, though he may have
studied far less, if we count by time, than his
superficial brother.
So it is with all the sciences. The kernel is
what nourishes the mind, — the knowledge of
what God has credited, and not the mere power
of repeating the classifications and vocabularies
that man has invented to describe these* crea-
tions: not that these also have not an eminent
use; but still it is one that should always be
esteemed secondary in all our studies.
So, too, it is with history. One may have all
the important dates, name^, and facts of the
world's history at the^ tongue's end, and yet be
Hone the wiser ; for such* knowledge is but the
surface of history. To know history well, is to
have so arranged its facts in the mind that it
may be contemplated as a continuous exhibition
of Good's providence. It is to study the succes-
sion of events, not as separate units, but as links
of one vast chain, on every one of which is in-
scfibed a phrase discoursing of the progress of
the human race, and showing the growth of man
in the complex, from infancy to adolescence.
Further than that we can hardly venture to be-
lieve the race has yet advanced. Thus studied,
history is the noblest of all sciences, since it
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treats of the highest of God's creations ; but
studied as a mere cpngeries of facts, all sciences
are alike Worthless ; and fi^om the modsings of
the mere antiquarian to the dredgings of the
student of the shelly coverings of the Mollusca,
all end in naught.
When a person's employment is one that does
not require; a constant exercise of the thoughts,
there is the greater need of a constant supply of
nutritious food for the mind, that it may be
growing all the time by reflection, and thus be
saved from falling into a morbid' state, such as
too often results from long confinement to an
occuf)ation demanding little exertion of its pow-
ers. The farmer at his jplough, the mechanic at
his bench,* the seamstress at her needle, and a
^st of others, too oftefi suffer the thoughts to
wander into realms of morbid egotism and dis-
:pontent, when, if they would turn them upon
moral or intellectual themes, they might be grow-
ing wiser and better ev^ry day.
It mwy b^ objected, that those who are obliged
to Work hard througff the whole week cannot, on
the Sabbath, take enough intellectual food to last
them for Thought during the week.* Every per-
son can, if he will, find time for a clia.pter in the
Bibles very day,t,nd therein lies wisdom, <that all
humanity combined can never exhaust, and which
ever opens richer stores the more it is wrought
upon. Then the human race are everywhere
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around us, and every individual is a volume to be
read. We are vexed, and perhaps tormented, by ^
the vices or foibles of those with whom we are
thrown in contact. Let us not stop in vexation,
but study our own hearts, and see if there is not
some kindred vice or foible in ourselves that per-
haps troubles our friends ^jiiite as much as this
disturbs us ; for it is often the case that our own
vices, when we meet them in others, are precise-
ly those which irritate us most; and we are
almost always more irritable through our vices
than through bur virtues. Again, we find per-
sons exciting our admiration through their vir-
tues. Let us not stop in cold admiration, but
reflect how' we ihay engraft similar virtues upon
our own souls. It is deep and earnest Thought
alone that can teach us to know ourselves, aiwi
without this knowledge we are-in 'constant dan-
ger of cherishing repulsive vices such as we
should abhor in others,' and of neglecting the
culture of virtues such as in others^ we esteem
indispensable. Society at large, too, is'*around
us, and domestic circlee, with all' their comple*
relations, theur jarring discords, or their heavenly
harmonies ; and all are full of food for 'Jhought. *
The true and thfe false, the right and the wrong,
are everywhere, and the highest wisdom is to be
able to distinguish one fr6m the other. He who
has spent his whole life in intellectual pursuits
may, in -this greatest wisdom, — the only wisdom
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that belongs to. eternity equally with time,—
l^e the veriest fool; while he who has patiently
and prayerfully and obediently studied no book
but the Bible may be so taught of God that he
shall possess all that 'man while on earth can
possess of this highest wisdom.
It is beautifi^lly said by Williaijci von Huna-
boldt, that " exactly those joyful truths which
are thp most needful to man — the holiest and
the- greatest — -lie open to the. simplest, plsunest
mind ; nay^ are not unfrequently better, and even
more entirely grasped by such a one, than by
him whosei greater Joiowledge more dissipate*
his thoughts. These truths, too, have this pecu-
liarity, that although they want no profound re-
search te glttain to them, but rather make their
own way in the mind, there is always something
new to bfe found ia thenr,' because they are in
themselves inexhaustible and endless."
While *the Bible is left tons, while human be-
ings surround us, while our own souls are to be
cleansed, renewed, and saved, we miserably de-
ceive ourselves if w€ think we lack, material for
Thought. We are thihkiu g perpetually ,^ whether
we wUl or no, and let lis lopk to it that we think
•to some good purpose. Hpw much Thought is
worse than wasted in planning how wealth,
which too often profiteth not, may be acquired,
while the true riches that the Lord is ever offer-
ing for our acceptance are forgotten 1 How^often
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are the Thoughts poisoned with envying the
lands of one's neighbor, while one's own soul id
lying an uncultivated waste. . How often is the
mind cankered with vexation at the intellectual
achievements of an old schoolmate, whom in
school days we never deemed wiser than our-
selves, when all that has wrought the^ present
difference between us is, that he thought and
strove while we dreamied and loitered.
In its purely religious action. Thought is the
fountain of that Faith which forms the base of
St Paul's trinity o^ the primal elements of Char-
acter, — the fouadation upon wtiich hope and
charity are to b^ elevated. How important, then,
is it that the foundation should be wisely laid!
Many^j)ers6ns tliink much in relation to religious
subjects from the love of metaphysical reasoning;
while their lives are not influenced by the doc-
trines they profess. This is an abuse jof Thought,
and one of its fruits is bigotry. The more
strongly a man confirms himself in any doctrine
that he does not apply to life, the more elevated
he becomes in his own estimation, — the more
puffed up with spiritual pride, — the more full of
contempt and hatred towards those who disagree
with him. With such persons, purity of life is as
nothing compared with faith in a certain set of
dogmas. There are some who think mu6h of
the vices of life, but always in relation to their
neighbors^ and thereby engender that form of
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bigotry called misanthropy. Both these classes
misuse the faculty^ of Thought, making it sub-
serve the purpose, of contempt and hatred and
debasing narcow-mindedness, instead of minis-
tering to Christian love, that hopeth all things of
its brother, and judges as it would be judged.
The more we study human nature out of our-
selves, and in the light of the Understanding, the
less we love it ; but the reverse takes place when
we study ouf own hearts at the same time that
we study the characters of our fellow-beings, and
both in the light of Christian truth. We cannot
hate our fellow-beings wJiile we perceive that we
, are all of one family, — while we feel our own
weakness and sinfulness ; and we cannot despair
of human nature while we believe, that Infinite
Wisdom has become its Redeemer and Saviour.
. If Thought be strongly turned towards religious
subjects the mind must necessarily form, to itself
many doctrines which will be its true creed,
whatever external foraa of church creed it may
avow, or even if it disavow all creeds. At. the
present day, it is not uncommon to hear creeds
spoken of with contempt, as the effete remains of
a past^e ; and the remark is often made, that it
is of no. consequence what a man believes if he
do but lead a good life. The religious opinions
we hold constitute the morality of our internal
life ; and it is difficult to understand how inter-
nal morality can be of no consequence, while ex-
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ternal morality is of so muclL It would seem
that e:?Lternal morality is but a mask, unless it
truly represent the internal morality. Still it is
not surprising that many superficial^ observers
should be found ready to express their aversion
to creeds, when we consider the abuses into
which Churches and Grovernments have rushed
in their efforts to lestablish and maintain their
favorite dogmas ; ojr when we observe how the
bigoted supporters of creeds become blinded to
every other <;ojasideration, and learn to look upon
life as of little importance when compared with
doctrine. , It was probably in contemplation of
such bigotry that the Apostle, exclaims, " Show
me thy faith without, works, and I will show thee
my faith by my works." This saying is often
quoted in defence of the idea that faith is of no
consequence compared with works ; but this is
no logical deduction from the text. " I will show
thee my faith by my works," expresses no dis-
regard or undervaluing of faith, but asserts the
great truth that faith becomes a living reality
only when it forms itself into works. The qual-
ity of works depends, not on the works them-
selves, but upon the faith that inspires them.
For instance, three men of equal wealth may
each give the same sum of money to some char-
ity. Externally the act is the same in each in4i-
vidual,.yet the common sense of the very same
persons who a few moments before may have
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asserted that faith is nothing, and works every-
thing, does not hesitate to estimate it in a totally
different manner. One of the donors has made
up his mind that ease is the only good. He has
taught himself to believe that it is wise to avoi(J
all trouble, and to give rather than make the
effort of resisting importunity J and he gives be-
' cause he carries this belief into effect. -Another
is an ambitious rnan, who believes that power
and the good opinion of society are the best
among good things ; and he gives to obtain the
praise of men and the influence in society which
follows praise. The third believes that the' first
good of life is making others happy, and with
systematic benevolence exatnines^ every claim
upon his bounty, and, if he finds it worthy, never
dismisses it unsatisfied. It was the faith within
the act that gave this distinctive quality to the
three donations. The first put his faith in ease,
the second in the opinion of the world, and. the
third in doing good to the neighbor; and the
common sense of the community judges the ac- .
tions accordingly. All the actions of life range
themselves under one or other of the three heads
represented by these gifts ; namely, the love of self,
or ease ; the love of the world, or ambition ; and
the love of the neighbor, or true charity. Every
man is probably governed in turn by each of
these loves ; but in every man one of them takes
the lead and dominates over the other two; and
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just in proportion as he gives himself up to the
dominion of one of these loves, and rejects the
sway of the otherst he leads a consistent life.
Society may assert that life is everything, and
faith nothing, w,hen it. talks abstractly ; biit its
common ♦sense* ever shows more wisdom by
transferring the^ quality of the motive to the act,
as often as it finds any clew to the knowledge of
motive. Of course, society makes many- blunders
in these judgments, because it reads th^ heart
of man very imperfectly.; but the nature of man
leads him constantly 'to attempt penetrating the
heart before forming his opinion of an action.
. Thare is no need of restricting the word creed to
the forms of facith adopted by particular churches.
Whatever a man believes is his creed, and every
man has a creed, however much he maybe op-
posed to forms of faith ; and this creed is the rule
of his life, however strongly he may assert, apd
however implicitly believe, that faith is of no im-
portance. Take, for instance, a man who devotes
his whole energies to the pursuit of riches from a
conviction that they are the greatest good this .
world affords. If he have large caution, he will
take care not to break the laws of the land ; but
everything short of that he will do to attain his
loved object. Perhaps he has large love of appro-
bation ; he will then be a little more cautions,
and. will do nothing that can injure his reputation
as a gentlemanj at least unless he believes that
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what he does will not be known in society. Per-
haps, however, he has neither of these restrain-
ing traits, and is of a violent disposition ; he will
then be ready to rob or murder, if such means
seem to promise to give him his desires. Shall
we say this man has- no creed, when*his faith
in the value of riches impels him to devote body
and soul to the acquisition of gain ? Does not
his creed run thus : " I believe in gold as the one
great good, and for this will I sacrifice all else
that I possess." And does not his life and death
devotion to this creed put to shame the feeble
efforts of many of us who believe that we devote
ourselves to more worthy ends ?
So it is with those who employ themselves ex-
clusively in the attainment of intellectual wealth.
Faith that this is the one great good incites them
to unwearied labor, — causes them to forget food,
sleep, friends, everything, in order that they may
acquire abundant store of learning ; and all be-
cau&e they have taken as their creed, " I believe
that learning is better than all beside, and for
this will I labor day and night.^
So it is with the ambitious man. Who labors
more devotedly than he ; ever keeping his creed
in mind, " I believe that power and reputation
are above all other possessions, and to gain tbem
I will sacrifice time, labor, truth,. and justice."
So it is with every man and every woman the
World over. The slothful even— those who seem
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impelled to nothing — refrain from effort because
they put their faith in idleness as the one thing
above all others desirable.
Mankind are possessed of Understanding no
less than Affection; and by this, their inherent
nature, they are compelled to believe no less than
to love. It is vain to talk of cultivating the
Affections that charity may be perfected in hu-
manity, and at the same time omit all care of
the faith. The mind will and must believe so
long as it continues to think ; and it is as unsafe
to leave it without cultivation as to abandon the
heart to the instruction of chance. The question
is not, Shall we or shall we not adopt a creed ?
for however strongly we may resist, we cannot
refrain from holding t)DC ; but, What creed shall
we adopt ? Accordingly as we, answer this ques-
tion so will the measure of our wisdom be both
here and hereafter.
The human race may, in this respect, be di-
vided into three classes, — iliose who adopt
good creeds, those who adopt evil creeds, and
those who, too indolent or too heedless distinctly
to adopt any rule of life, spend their days in
vacillating between the two; but the latter,
by reason of the greater tendency to sin than to
hoKness inherent with the human race, incline,
year by year, more and more decidedly towards
the evil.
It is imjpossible that any person should lead
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a consistent life unless a creed be adopted* and
steadfastly acted upon ; because unless one holds
distinct opinions in relation to life and duty, one
is drawn hither and thither by impulse and pas-
sion, as the mind's mood varies from time to
time, so that the words and actions of to-day
will be often in direct opposition to those which
were yesterday, or which will be to-morrow.
In order to lead a life worthy an immortal be-
ing, a child of God, the first step to be taken is
to come to a distinct understanding of what one
wishes to be and to do. The biographies of
those who have distinguished themselves in the
world, either for goodness or for greatness, fre-
quently show that in early life they adopted cer-
tain modes and directions of effort, and have at-
tained to eminence by steadily persevering in one
direction. Among the papers of these persons,
written rules have been found which they have
laid down for themselves as creeds, and in har-
mony with which they have built iip their Char-
acters ; stnd herein lies the secret of their success.
The living in accordance with such creeds will
not insure" greatness or distinguished reputation,
because, after all our efforts, no one can be sure
of worldly arid external success. Events which
it was impossible to provide for, or even to fore-
see, will often confound the best preparations of
humanity, because the providence of God over-
rules all the events of life, according to the eter-
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nal dictates of infinite wisdom and mercy, —a
wisdom that knows when it is best for us to suo*
ceed and when to fail in our wishes and en-
deavors, and a mercy which, looking to our eter-
nal welfare, sometimes makes us sorrowful here
that we may: the more rejoice hereafter.
Perhaps the <3ause which most frequently pre-
vents the adoption of a creed is the failing to
recognize the seriousness of life in this world*
Few persons can be found so senseless or so
reqkless as not to recognize the seriousness of
death. Probably few could look upon the solemn
still&ess of the lifeless humati countenance with-
out a feeling of awe at the thought that erelong
their day too must come when the beating of the
busy heart shall cease, atid the now quick blood
shall stay its course, — when the hand shall lose
its cunning and the brain its power. Such im-
pressions are too often transitory, passing away
with the object tha.t awoke them, because per-
sons do not stop to consider why it is that solem-
nity and awe pervade the presence of death. K
they did, they would feel that this solemnity was
reflected upon life, and life would become to
them serious as death. Both would be serious,
but neither sorrowful ; for then death would lose
its terror and would be looked forward to simply
as the beginiung of eternal life. The solenmity
of life lies in the fact tihfat it is a preparation for
eternity ; and the solenmity of death in the fact
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that the preparation is over and the eternity be^
gun. In all this there is no cause of sadness, but
infinite, cause, for thoughtful seriousness, /
When the true solemnity of life is compre-
hended, and the Character is moulded in accord-
ance with the ideas that in consequence possess
the soul, a ^owth of the whole nature is in-
duced that prevents all the repulsive character-
istics of old age. Too often old age is utterly
disagreeable through the indulgence of ill-temper,
fir^tfulness, and selfish indifierence to the wishes
and pleasures of the young.^ Such traits of Char-
acter could never possess us if the true import
of life "were comprehended, and the Character
formed in harmony with its teachings. A' Char-
acter that grows in grace daily, must become
more and niore beautiful and attractive with ad-
vancing years. Each day, as it finds it better
fitted for heaven, must find it less sullied by the
imperfections of earth.
We sometimes see persons discontented and
peevish because they are old, — because they
feel that they must soon pass away fironi th^
earth. Could this; be, if they believed that life
on earth was only a preparation for an eternal
life in heaven ? Could they shrink with aver-
sion at the thought of death, if they believed
it to be the portal of heaven? The follies and
the vices, the weariness cuid the sadness, the dis-
content and the moroseness of life, all spring
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from tne ijiant of a just conception of its rela-
tions and its vallie, such as can be attained only
by calm, deliberate reflection, out'of which wise
opinions evolve, and are gradually shaped into a
creed such as forms the bone and muscle of a
wise and noble Character.
Evil is ever the result of the abuse of some
good; for nothing was created eviL The nar^
row creeds of various <5hurches, by which men'&
soul^L have heen unworthily bound, have sprung
froni the falsification of the fact that man re-
quires faith in^feruth that he may be able to
lead a life of goodness. Had the makers of
these creeds gone directly to the Bible for their
materials, Instead of looking into their own
minds, — had they been content to accept the
Ten Commandments given to the Jewish, or the
Two given io the Christian Church, much mis-
chief might have been avoided; but, not satis-
fied with the ,simplicity and directness of God's
Word, they built up creeds from their own
minds, not as guides to a holy life, but as chains
to compel the minds of other men into harmony
with their own. Just in proportion to the energy
with which they strove to impress themselves
upon the people through these creeds was their
indifference to that life of holiness which should
be the end of all creeds.
The centuries that have passed since the Chris-
tian dispensatioii was proclaimed have many of
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them been darkened even to blackness by insane
endeavors to write/ creeds of man's devising, in
letters of fire and blood, upon the nations.' The
day f(X[ such deeds has passed away from most
lands calling themselves Christian; and now
men are inclining to rush into the opposite ex-
treme, and to mistake licentiousness in belief for
liberty of conscience. Such an extreme natu-
rally follows the opposite one that preceded it;
but out of the anarchy of faith that now pre-
vails the providence of God will siirely, in his
own good time, lift up his children into the liberty
wherewith those who obey him are made free.
Then will it be understood that the truth is not a
chain to bind the soul, but a shining light illumi-
nating all the dark places of the earth, and pour*^
ing into every soul that worthily receives it a
living warmth, that shall clothe the whole being
with the beautiful garments of heavenly charity.
Then shall it be se0n that all true creeds are con-
tained within the two commandments of the Son
of God. Thou shalt Jove the Lord with all thy
heart and soul and mind and strength; and thy
neighbor as thyself.
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** Im.i|^tifttioii nU«8 the woi^Id.*' — Napolkit.
" Imagination ia the mediatrix, the nurse, the< momer of all tlie several parts
of oar spiritual organism. Wittiout her, all our ideas stagnate, all our cou-
eeptioni irtther, all oar peroeptioos become rough and sensoal." — f iuohtbm-
Imagination is, that power of the mind by
which it forms pictiures or images within itself.
Thought is but a shapeless, lifeless entity, until
Imagination moulds it into form. We cannot
bring what we know out into life un^til Imagina-
tion presents it to the Affections as a possible
reality. Thought is an uncreative power, and
gives form to nothing. Imagination is a more
positive power, and can impart form to every-
thing in thought. Thought acts subjectively,
while Imagination is more objective in its opera-
tions. Thought is, by itself, a pure abstraction :
passing into the Imagination it becomes a pos-
sible reality, and in the Affections a vital reality.
The Affections cannot love dr hate anything
while it is a mere thought; but when it be-
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comes an image, -it is at once an object either of
attraction or repulsion. Thought, therefore, can
be lifted up into the .Affections, and then be made
manifest in life, only through the medium of the
Imagination.
It has been remarked by a celebrated writer,
that all great discoverers, inventors, and mathema-
ticians have been largely endowed with Imagina-
tion. It might with equal truth have been added,
that all successful persons ih every department
of life are endowed with an Imagination com-
mensurate in power with that of the other facul-
ties. To the mechanic in bis shop, no less than
to the student in his cell, is it requisite that he
should be able to form a distinct image in his
mind of whatever he wishes to perform. So the
teacher, the preacher, and the parent Jabor in
vain unless there is clearly imaged in their minds
the end to be attained, by education and disci-
pline. It is idle to seek for means to accomplish -^^
anything until ther^ is a distinct image in the
mind of the thing that is to be done. If there
be such a thing as an " airy nothing," it ite a
thought before Imagination has given it a ** lo-
cal habitation and a name.'^ When Shakespeare
said it was the office of the poet to carry on this
transformation, he announced one of those great
general facts which are equally true of every
other human being. It is in degree, and not in
kind, that one man differs from another. In this,
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the poet is but the type of what every human
being must be, if he would be anything better
than a dead weight in society, incapable of suc-
cess in any department of life^
Let no one fold his hands supinely, and say, I
have no Imagination ; arid therefore, if this doc-
trine be true, my life must be a fjailure. You
may possibly have but one talent while your
neighbor has ten, but you are just as responsible
for the cultivation and enlargement of your en-
dowment as your neighbor for his. Had the
parable been reversed, and had he who was en-
dowed with five talents hidden them in the earth
while he who had one doubled his lord's money,
the condemnation and the acceptance would like-
wise have been reversed. Unless a man be so
far idiotic that he is riot an accountable being,
we blaspheme the goodness of God, if w^e say
there is nothinghe is capable of doing well.
The action of the Imagination niay be best
illustrated by example. . Previous to the days of
Columbus, many sea-captains believed that there
was a Western Continent ; but their belief, was
a cold faith, existing only in Thought When
the ardent mind of Columbus received the same
belief. Imagination speedily fomied it into a re-
ality of such distinctness that faith changed to
hope, and then Affection brooded upon it until
his whole being was absorbed by the' determina-
tion that he would be. the discoverer of this un-
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known world. The image of this land was a
pillar of cloud by day and a pillar of flame by
night, leading him onward in spite of every dis-
couragement and disaf>pointment. Others might
lose their courage, or die of weariness by the
way ; but his was that deathle^ enthusiasm that
knows neither despair nor doubt. To 1;his in-
tense Lna^nation the world owes a new contL-
nent, and it is to such Imaginations that it ow^s
almost^ if not quite, all the great discoveries and
inventions that have ever been made. There aire
those who love to believe that such things are in
the main H^e result of accident ; but it is only^to
the thoughtful and the imaginative that accident
speaks. To the dull and the indifferent it is
utterly dumb. ' .
What is life but one long chain of accidents^ if
by accident we understand all that falls out witht
out pur owft intention or volition. We cannot
control these accidents. > There i» a power above
circumstance and accident that controls them,
as gravitation controls the motions of material
things. We can only turn thehi at our will, and
make use of them, As the machinist turns the
power of gravitation to serve his purposes.
Quick-witted persons are those who have the
power of rapidly seeing the relations of things
in every-day life, — whose Thoughts grasp, and
whose Imaginations shape with dexterous rapid-
ity, the little accidents of the hour, and turn tijem
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to advcuitage. Persons of resource are thoae who
have a deeper Thought, a more earnest Imagina-
tion; and who can therefore lay hold of great
principles, and unusual circumstances,, with a
power adequate to meet great emergencies, and
to make use of great opportunities. K we tram-
ple sluggishness and indifference under our feet,
if we do with a will whatever we undertake, de-
termining to do it as well as we possibly can, we
shall become quick-witted in small works, and
full of resource in large undertaking's.
The Imagination is often talked of as if it
were a useless part of our being, which should be
put down and discouraged as much as possible ;
as if the Greater had endowed us with a power
we did not need. So imaginative persons are
spoken of with contempt, and here there is more
justice ; for, in common parlance, to be imagiha-
tive means to have the Imagination developed
out of all proportion with the other powers.^
This is perhaps quite as bad as to have an in-
sufficiency* What we should desire is a balance of
powers. Imagination should not run away with
Thought and Affection, but neither shonld it lag
behind them. All must act harmoniously and
equally in a symmetrioaUy developed Character.
They are like the three legs of a tripod; and if
either is longer or shorter than the others, or,
worse still, if no two are alike in length, the tri-
pod must be an awkward and useless piece of
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lumber, instead of the graceful and useful article
for which it was intended.
Whatever is to be done, from the discovery of
a continent to the; making of a shoe or a loaf,
can be done well only by a person of Imagina*
tion. Go to a shoemaker and tell him exactly
what you wish for a shoe, and it is your Imagi-
nation that gives you the j>ower of tellirig him so
that he can understand your wishes. "]^very one
can think, i^ I want a pair of shoes," but one
must have Imagination to know _ what kind of
shoe one wants, and a clear, distinct Imagination
to be able to describe it intelligibiyio anotlier;
Suppose you . have this^ and have told the shoe-
maker what you desire, Now^ whether the man
seiids home to you a pair of misfits, <^uite differ-
ent from those you ordered, or a pdir just such as
you want, depends in no^ small degree on his
powers of Imagination. Any ifnan can think
enough to fasten materials together in the form
of a shoe, and to make them vary in size acccMrd-
ing to a regular gradation of nlimbers ; but .this
is all he can do Unless he exercises his Imagina-
tion. Unless the image of a shoe, as ybu hold it
in your Imagination, was^ transferred distinctly to
the Imagination of the other, you will look in
vain to find it translated into a material reality.
So it is with your cook. She cannot make a
nice loaf of bread, or prepare a dinner properly,
by merely thinking as she works. The idea of a
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light loaf or of a well^Jooked dinner must be
distinctly in her mind^ o^ you will eat with a
disappointed palate.
It is needless to multiply example^ here. We
have but to look around us and see them every:*
where.
Works of Imagination, of-ck)urse, come in for
th^ir share of opproteium from those who, instead
of striving to regenerate all the universal char-
aoteristics of humanity, would x;ut off and cast
from it those traits with which they; least sympa*
thize. In spite of thdr opposition,^the mountain
of fiction grows higher a^id higher every .day,
and the multitude throng its pathways to gath-
er that food for the Imagination that is rarely
given it in otiier compositions. Let the mqralist
talk and v/Ate against this as he may, it will be
of no u9e,^for the mass of human minds will
never take an interest in any book that does
not address itself to the Imagination* From the
beginning of the world until now^ no teacher and
no writer was ever popular unless he addressed
himself, in part at least, to the Imagination of
the world. x
When the Father df History read his nine
books before the Greeks, at the Olympic Games,
and the pepj^ hung hour after hour and day
after day upon his words, it was not merely be-
cause b6 glorified their victories that they listened
with delight, but because he told the story vnth
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such vividness that every hearer beheld the^n-
g<>ings of the tale pictured in his own Imagina-
tion. It was no dull recital of dry facts, th^ mere
bone and muscle of History, that he offered them,
but the living story, the warm blood pulsating
through it, all, and every nerve instinct with life.
In our own day, if the histcurian would forget the
8o-cfdled dignity of History,, which is but another
name for lifelessness, and, after having filled his
mind with a dear, bright image of what he
would i?elate, would present his «tory vividly to
the Imagination bf the reader, we should have
no more complaints of the dulness .of History*
Who evet found Irving or Prescott dull ? and yet
they are accurate and faithful as the most stately
and oracular. The carping xjritic may sneer at
them because they are. not philosophical and pro-,
found ; but to have been read with delight by
thousands who would never, have resiched a
second "chapter had they^ been other than they
are, may well satisfy tbeir^ ambition, and make
them careless of the opinion of the critic Such
writers belong to the Republic of letters, not to
the literary OU^archy which insists that books
should be vinritten according to certain conven-
tional rules which have been manufactured in
the closet, instead of looking ^t the Wants of the
human mind, and then addressing themselves to
those wants.
The class of minds that crave instruction for
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its own sake must always be very small ; and it
is this class alone that will read books in spite
of their lack of imgiginative power. Authors have
no right to complain that their wise books lie
unread by the multitude, if they persist in over-
looking the nature of the human mind, and ad-
dressing themselves to what they think it ought
to be instead of what it really is. They expatiate
admiringly upon the simplicity and vividness of
the style of Herodotus, and upon the classic taste
of the Athenian public in appreciating him ; and
then, forgetting thalt the public of our own day
are quick to admire the same traits, turn to their
desks and write their histories as unlike as pos-
sible to him ^whom they have been praising.
The same repulsive want of Imagination too
often characterizes Theology and Metaphysics,
and prevents mankind from receiving the instruc-
tion from works on these topics that they need.
In the early days of man's history. Religion and
Philosophy addressed themselves to the Imagina-
tion, and then the people listened to their teach-
ings; but gradually these heaven-born teachers
turned more and more away from Imagination
and towards Thought, — lost themselves in ab-
stractions, dried up, withered, and changed into
Theology and Metaphysics ; and then the people
turned wearily away from their words ; and were
they to blame ? They wanted bread, and only
stones were given to them.
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The multitude would not have followed the
Lord, and listened with admiring wonder to his
instructions, had they not been addressed to the
Imagination. Infinite Wisdom clothed itself in
parables, that the people might be instructed^ jand
the people thronged to hear. . The truths of Phi-
losophy and Religion are of an interest more
universal to humanity than the truths of all
other science, for the first is to know one's self,
and the second to know one's God ; and yet the
majority of teachers cover them with such a
body of technicalities and abstractions, that it is
vain for ^the mass of mankind to endeavor to
penetrate to the soul within.
K the clergy of the Protestant Church would
spend more strength in illustrating the Infinite
Wisdom contained in the parables of the Lord,
and less in amplifying the abstractions of St.
Paul, they would gather around them bands of
listeners far more nun^erous and more devout
than those that now attend their ministrations.
It was one of the grand mistakes of that Church,
at its first separation from the Romish, tliat, in its
terror of the worship of material images, it passed
into the opposite extreme of the worship of ab-
stractions. Thisis one reason why Protestantism
has made no advance in Europe since the death of
the first Reformers, and why there is so little vital
religion among the races by whom it was adopted.
Much has been done of late to render the
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natural sciences familiar and attractive to the *
popular mind, by lectures and books that bring
them within the comprehension of all : and it
is to be hoped, that, beginning thus with the
material parts of the universe, mankind may be
gradually led from matter to mind, from science
to religion. The forms of external things are
easily reproduced in the mind as images, and
this is why natural science addresses itself more
readily to the mind than any other branch of
learning. When men learn to look within, and
perceive that the things of the mind are as genu-
ine realities as the objects of the external world,
Philosophy will become attractive ; and when
the preacher warms Theology into Religion by
abandoning the technicalities of abstractions for
the living realities of piety towards Qod and
charity towards the neighbor, he will rejoice in
a listening audience.
The amount and the quality of that which we
call originality, creative power, or genius, is en-
tirely dependent upon the activity, force, and in-
tegrity of the Imagination. Talent belongs to
Thought, and works only with facts and ideas
as others have done before. It may be skilful,
sensible, and faithful, but it, can walk only in the
old, beaten tracks. It can classify and arrange,
but it can never discover or invent. Talent can
understand and admire the mechanical powers ;
Grenius puts them in harness, and makes them
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traverse land and sea to do his bidding. Talent
loves to gaze on the fair forms of nature, and
depicts-them upon canvas with skill and truth,
neither adding to nor subtracting from its model
Genius seizes upon the hints that nature gives,
and, without being false to her, makes use only
of that which helps to make up the beautiful, the
sublime, or the terrible ; showing the power that
is within nature rather than nature herself. Tal-
ent sees life as it is, and so describes it, if it
ventures into the domain of literature. Genius
sees life as it is capable of being, and hence
comes poetry and romance, depicting heroes and
heroines, monsters and fiends, types rather than
representatives of the human race. Talent per-
ceivfes only the actualities of things. Genius their
possibitities. Talent is content with things as
they are, while Genius is ever striving to bring
out latent capacities in whatever it deals with.
If true to its higher impulses. Genius is ever
striving to come nearer "-the first good, first per-
fect, and first fair " ; if false, it degrades and de-
forms everything it touches.
Mankind differ from each other in degree, but
not in kind. By his power of thinking, a man
has talent ; by his power of imagining, genius.
Quick-wittedness is genius in its lowest form, —
genius applied to material life in its daily on-
goings. The power for resource in emergencies
is genius in a higher form. Invention — the
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putting together with an adequate purpose two
things or ideas that never went together before —
is genius in another form.
Admitting that men differ from each other, not
in kind, but in degree, the question arises, Are all
men capable of an equal degree of development ?
This may best be answered by comparison. All
men are alike in the general conformation of
their bodies ; all have the same number of physi-
cal organs, designed for the same purposes. The
relative power of these organs is, however, very
different in different individuals. One has a fine
muscular frame, and delights iu exercises of phys-
ical strength, while effort of the brain is a weari-
ness to him. Another has a finely developed
brain, and delights in intellectual labor, w:hile
his strength of muscle is hardly sufficient for the
absolute needs of life. One has the digestion of
an ostrich, while another lives only by painful ab-
stinence ; and so on with indefinite variety. We
know that much may be done by well-directed
effort to Qvercome the weaknesses and imperfec-
tions of the body ; but still there is a limit to this,
and all men cannot be strong and healthy alike.
So it is with ihe powers of the mind. All men
have the same number of powers, — this consti-
tutes their humanity ; but the relative force of
their development varies in each individual. We
know that a determined will works wonders in
overcoming the defects of the body, and it can
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do more in OYercoming the defects of the mind,
because the spiritual body of man is far more
docile and flexible to the will than the natural
body; but there must be limitations here like-
wise : still, progress is eternal, and no man can
tell beforehand of how much he is capable.
In cultivating the powers of the mind, the first
step is to admit distinctly to one's self the fact of
human responsibility ; to feel that we are stew-
ards to whom the Lord has intrusted certain tal-
ents, and that we are responsible to him for the
use we make of them. Indolence will perhaps
tell us that we are of very little consequence,
and that it is not worth while for us to trouble
ourselves about developing our understandings ;
that it is vanity in us to suppose that we can
be of much use in the world ; that we have
but little leisure, and may as well arhuse our-
selves with books and society; for we need recre-
ation, wearied as we are with the ccures of life.
Let us answer each of these excuses by itself ;
and first, we are of so little consequence. If the
tempter take this form to slacken your efforts,
tell him you are one of God's children, and
therefore, by your birthright, of eternal conse-
quence; that he who is faithful in the least
things thereby proves his capacity for being faith-
ful in much, and that, by showing your willing-
ness to serve the Lord in the small things of life,
you are fitting yourself for serving him in large
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things, if aot in this world, yet in the world to
come. Moreover, is not every one of the highest
consequence to himself; and. is not the least of
human beings as much interested to save his
own soul as the greatest? Then,^ as to use in
this world, you are responsible to the fullest ex-
tent of your abilities for the influence you exert
in your sphere, as entirely as is the greatest of
human beings in his. No one is so small that he
brings no influence to bear upon the social circle ;
no one so insignificant that he does not exert, an
influence, even by the expression of his counte-
nance, though he may. speak no word. Where
can we fijid a circle that is not shadowed, as by
a cloud, if one countenance appears within it
darkened by suUenness, ill-humor, or discontent ?
Where one that is not warmed and cheered, as
by a sunbeam, if one enters it whose features
glow with good-humor, contentment, and satis-
faction? Then does not the command to love
our neighbor make us even responsible for the
expressions our faces wear? In relation to the
plea for recreation and amusement, it can readily
be shown how these may be made subservient to
a true and high cultivation of the understanding.
While few are slow to admit our accountabil-
ity in all that relates to the cultivation of the
Affections, many seem to suppose that in what
relates to the Understanding we may, without
wrong, follow our own inclinations. This opin-
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ion comes from a false estimate of the nature
and uses of the Understanding. K considered
as a mere receptacle for Latin and Greek, Mathe-
matics and Metaphysics, Science and Litera-
ture, we may, without moral turpitude or virtue,
abstractly considered, follow our own inclina-
tions ; but the Understanding will €dl the time be
growing either stronger or weaker, wiser or more
foolish, whether we study them or whether we let
them alone* This action of the Understanding
cannot go on witiiout influencing the Affections.
The one is as much the gift of God as the other,
and each alik^ demands a healthful nutriment.
An Understanding whose attributes are igno-
rance and folly can never promote a healthful
growth of the Affections.
It has been already said that the Understand-
ing of a great majority of human beings can
be reached only through its imaginative side.
Every one who is accustomed to children knows
that this V is universally true of them. Tell a
child an abstract truth, and it falls dead upon his
ear; but illustrate the same truth in a little story,
and he is quick to estimate its justice. This
continues true of most persons during their
whole lives, so that it is vain to attempt touch-
ing their minds in any other way than by pre-
senting them with some image illustrating the
truth inculcated. Those who are capable of re-
ceiving an abstract truth without such an image
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are fifequently so from the fact that, the moment
such a Iruth is presented to their Understanding,
their Imagination i& prompt to furnish the corre-
sponding image. Unless this is done either by the
speaker or the listener, the tniih is apt to be only
a useless piece of lumber stored away in the
thoughts. The whole secret of the fascinating
power of the novelist lies in his telling us of all
that is most interesting to humanity, and pre-
senting everything to the mind in images.
Most persons have so many duties to perform,
that they have little time for volthitary employ-
ment, and then they want recreation, which, if
they read, they say they can gain only through
works of Imagination. There is nothing to ob-
ject to in this, if such works be well selected and
read wisely. There are many bad ways of read-
ing novels; but there are two to be especially
avoided : firstly, vitiating the Affections by read-
ing impure novels ; and secondly, weakening the
powers of the Understanding by glcmcing through
novels merely for the sake of the story. To
read novels of doubtful or bad morality is as
likely to corrupt the Affections as to associate
with low and wicked companions* There is an
abundant supply of pure and noble compositions
of this sort en which the Imagination may feed
without fear. If it morbidly craves the licentious
pictures that cohie from the pen of such writers
as Ainsworth or George Sand, its longings should
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be resisted as steadfastly as those which incline
us to the gaming-table or other scenes of licen^
tious indulgence. On the other hand, the dan-
ger to the Understanding from skimming novels
is far too much overlooked. It is not recreation,
but dissipation, not a renewal, but a destruction,
of the powers to read in this way. K you would
be benefited by what you read, learn to read
critically. Look at the characters, and see if they
be natural and well drawn ; observe the morality,
and see if it be true or false ; examine the style,
and see if it ^Se good or bad, graceful or awk-
ward, distinct or vague. Novel-writing is one of
the fine arts, and by looking upon it as such, you
may cultivate your taste and discrimination to an
extent you little dream of.
Imagination is the marriage of Thought and
Affection, and the Fine Arts are its first-born
children, and represent humanity in all its phases
more fully and truly than any other department
of art or science. What we know as the useful
arts, which are born of man's love for physical
ease and pleasure, are of comparatively modern
date ; but history goes not back to the time when
the mind of metn first took delight in fashion-
ing and admiring the products of the fine arts.
Many suppose them God-given and coeval with
the birth of man. Music, painting, sculpture,
poetry, and romance are the five departments-*'
of the fine arts. When these are studied and
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loved merely lor amusement, they are of little or
no use; if they are made vehicles for filling the
mind with impure and evil images, they are
shocking abuses ; but if they subserve pure and
holy purposes, elevating the soul towards all that
is beautiful and good, they are true Apostles of
the Word. Their ministrations are almost, if
not quite, universal It would be hard to find, a
human being whose soill is not stirred by one or
other of them.
Comparatively few persons have it in their
power to enjoy the delight and the. refining infih-
ence that are derived from the highest exhibitions
of skill in those departments of the fine arts that
address themselves to the eye and the ear ; but
poetry and romance, the most intellectual and
the most varied of them all, are accessible to
every one. As those blessings that are far off
and difficult to be' attained are usually those
which are most highly prized, we often find per-
sons sighing for the culture to be obtained from
music, painting, and sculpture, and pverlooking
or undervaluing the higher culture to be derived
from poetry and romance. The best gifts 6f
Heaven are always those which are most uni-
versal. Let any one read the plays of Shake-
speare, the poems of Miltoiif, and the novels of
Scott carefully and critically as he would study
"•^ gallery of pictures, and he will find his taste
refined and elevated as much as it could be by a
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visit to the Vatican. The genius of these au-
thors is to the fall as high and noble and original
as that of Raphael, Angelo, or Titian. The
means of culture are not far-fetched and dear-
bought. They lie around us everywhere, and to
make use of them is a luxurious recreation of the
mind. What mother, wearied and worn by the
cares of maternity, what laborer, exhausted with
toil, what student, faint with striving for fame,
but would be refreshed and renewed for the war-
fare of life by forgetting it all for a little while in
the realms- of the ideal world?
The common, vulgar misuse of novel-reading
by the silly, the empty-headed, and the corrupt,
should not blind us to its benefits. There are
those who in music, painting, and sculpture
find only nutriment for sensuality and impurity.
Shall we, therefore, deny to all, and banish from
ihe world, the refining ministrations of beauty in
form and color and sweet sounds ? As justly
may we wage war upon the way-side flowers
because the childrenu are now and then tardy at
school for stopping to gather them. The Crea-
tor coujd never have strown beauty broadcast
upon the face of the earth if it had no use. The
very abundance of this nutriment offered to our
love of beauty is evidence of its value ; the very
fact that we can abuse this love so fearfully is
proof of its capacity for elevated usefulness.
Beading good works of Imagination in the
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thoughtful way that has been described will be
very likely to rouse an action in the mind that
will make it crave something more solid ; and all
should learn, if possible, to love instructive books.
The brain that is overtasked by muscular labor —
for the nervous energy of the brain is exhausted
by physical effort as well as by mental — is the
only one that is excusable for refreshing itself
only with images from the ideal world. There
are Sabbaths of rest to all sometimes, when
opportunity may be found to gain something of
a more nutritious quality; .when through biog-
raphy we may learn to know some good and
great character tha* will ever after stand in the
mind an image of excellence to cheer us on our
way, and make us feel with joy that there is
power in us to do likewise; or perhaps some
book of science that will enlarge our ideas of
the wisdom and goodness of the Creator of us
alL It should ever be remembered, that those
whose minds are empty of images of goodne^
and truth ate, almost of necessity, constantly be-
coming more and more full of images of evil
and falsehood. Jealousy, envy, discontent, and
love of scandal, are among the earliest prod-
ucts of an idle, empty mind. We are not,
however, dependent upon books for the means
of cultivating the Imagination. There is a
training of this power within itself, a moral-
ity of. Imagination, that daily life compels us
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to observe if we would be practical, moral be-
ings.
The first requisites in a healthy, well-developed
Imagination are truth and distinctness. To those
who deem Imagination but another name for fic-
tion and falsehood, it may seem a contradiction
in tarms to talk of a true Imagination : but it is
not soi Works of fiction charm us always in
proportion as they seem true, and it is the
morbid Imagination only that delights in false-
hood. We sometimes see persons who, without
apparent intention of falsehood, seem incapable
of speaking the truth. If they relate a circum-
stance that has passed under their own observa-
tion, or describe anything that they have seen,
they add here and diminish there, distort this and
give a new color to that, in such a manner that
the hearer receives an impression of nothing as
it really is* If there seem to be no malicious
or evil design in all this, such persons are com-
monly called very imaginative; they should be
called persons of unregulated, unprincipled Im-
aginations. They do not bring Imagination
under the sway of conscience, and their power
of appreciating the truth will grow less and less
-until Imagination be6omes a living lie.
Visionary persons form another class of those
who do not regulate Imagination by the laws
of Him who is truth itself. With these. Imagi-
nation is as false in relation to that which is to
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come, as with the last described in relation to
that which has already been. In their plans of
life they reason from fancy instead of from fact,
and their Imaginations are filled with fantastic
visions of things impossible, instead of the clear,
bright images of that which may rationally be
expected to come to pass. Such persons are per-
petaally wasting their powers by trying to do so
many things that they can do nothing well, or
by striving to do some one thing that is impos-
sible ; thus rendering themselves comparatively
useless in society, and often even mischievous.
To avoid this error, it is needful to go back per-
petually to Thought in order to obtain a solid
foundation for Imagination to build upon. As
Imagination passes to and fro between Thought
and Affection, it must remember that it is a
messenger from one^ to the other, and must not
invent tales on the way, and so deceive Affection
into acts of folly. The facts of the message
must be precisely such as Thought gave them,
while their costume may be such as Imagination
vrould have it. Thus the Affections will be
roused to action in proportion as the eloquence of
the Imagination is more or less intense. When
it speaks in " words that bum," if it speak from ,
itself, it will rouse the Affections to wild fanat-
icism ; but if it "speak from Thought it will wa-
ken enthusiasm in the heart, such as shall bear
it steadfastly onward in the path of duty, " with-
out haste and without rest.'*
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Distinctness of Imagination may be cultivated
by carefully observing things we wish to remem-
ber, and then calling up their forms before the
mind's eye, and endeavoring to describe them
just as they are, in words, by writing, or by draw-
ing ; and then re-examining- to see where we have
erred, and correcting our mistakes. If this be
done from a genuine love of truth, the Imagina-
tion will soon become accurate and trustworthy.
In reading, strive to bring what is read before
the mind's eye, and so impress it upon the mem-
ory in images. This process quickens the power
of memory, and enables it to retain much more
than it otherwise could. If the writer be imagi-
native, it is easily done ; but if not, we must strive
to make up for his deficiencies by our own ef-
forts. In reading history and travels, constant
reference to maps and pictures fixes facts upon
the memory simply by transferring them to the
Imagination. Memory is not a faculty by itself.
What we only think about, we remember feebly ;
what we image in our minds, we remember much
more strongly ; what we love, we never forget
while we continue to love it.
In cultivating the Imagination, we must be
sure to allow Thought to go with it hand in hand;
remembering that the two together make up the
Understanding. We must be careful to search
conscientiously for true thoughts before allowing
Imagination to shape them into forms. In order
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to find the truth, we must love it for its own sake,
and must seek it with straightforward earnest-
ness, because we believe it needful to the build-
ing up of Character. If we .seek it from any less
worthy motive, our sight will become morbid, we
shall lose the power of knowing it when it is
found, and shall be liable to mistake for it some
miserable falsehood. If we allow Imagination too
much liberty, zeal will run before knowledge; if
we allow it too little, knowledge will run before
zeal. In the former case we shall be liable to
fanaticism ; in the latter, to sluggishness. . In 4;he
former case we shall be ready to undertake to do
anything that attracts us, whether we know how
to do it or not; in the latter, we shall not be will-
ing to try to do what we might. The lack of
Affection prevents us from desiring to do a thing,
the lack of Imagination makes us think we can-
not do a thing, the lack of Thought of course
makes it impossible to do a thing ; for we cannot
do a thing till we know that it is to be done.
In our religion, Thought gives us faith, Im-
agination gives us hope, and Affection gives us
charity.. Religion does not become a personal
matter to us until it takes the form of hope.
While it is simply a thing of thought, it is cold,
barren faith, and we care nothing for it } but
when Imagination touches it, faith is changed to
hope, and we begin to perceive that religion is
a thing to be desired in our own persons. Re-
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ligions fear, too, is the child of Imagination.
Devils believe and tremble, because they hate
goodness. Angels believe and hope, because
they love it.
Every one has within his mind an imaginary
heaven, within and around which all cherished
images arrange themselves, according as they are
more or less dear. We should search our minds,
and learn what are the attributes of our heaven, if
we would know whether we are tending towards
1^ true heaven that is prepared for those who
order their lives aright. We shall, if we do this,
be sure to find that there are certain images rising
very often in our minds, into which our thoughts
seem to crystallize when distmrbed by no inter-
ruption from without ; and these images make up
all that we believe of heaven; they are the king-
dom of heaven within us. We may, with our
lips, acknowledge faith in a pure heaven wherein
dwelleth righteousness y but unless bur ideas fall
habitually into forms of purity, there is no genu-
ine faith in such a heavenly kingdom. We truly
believe only in what we love. We may learn
from book^ and from instructors a great deal
about the science of goodness, and may talk of
such knowledge until we fancy that we should
be happy in a heaven where goodness reigned tri-
umphant ; and *yet we may be entirely deceived,
in this fancy, and our hearts may all .the while
be fixed on things so entirely apart from the true
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heaven, that nothing could make us more miser-
able than the being forced to dwell within its
^tes. If we would test the quality of our faith,
we must watch the images and pictures that rise
habitually before our mind's eye in our hours of
reverie; for they faithfully represent the secret
affections of the heart. If these images are
forms of purity and goodness, it is Well with us ;
the kingdom of heaven is truly there ; but if they
represent only forms of things that belong to this
world, if dress and equipage and social distinct
tion haunt our longings, if visions of pride, vain-
glory, and luxury are ever prompt to rise, —
visions that belong only to the love of sdf and
of the world, — visions that do not beckon us on-
ward to the performance of duty, but only entice
us with the allurements of sensuality and self-
indulgence ; or still worse, if discontent, envy,
and malice darken the temple of Imagination
with their scowls, the kingdom of heaven is far
from us as the antipodes. This imaginary heaven
that selfishness and worldliness have built up
within us is in truth but an emanation from hell.
We may talk of heaven, and observe its outward
forms all our lives while harboring this demoni-
acal crew within ; and we shall grow ever harder
and colder with intolerance and bigotry under
their influence ; nor can we ever have that joy in
heavenly hope that belongs to those whose hearts
cleave to all that is pure and true, and whose
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Bouls are therefore filled with the imagery of
virtue.
We cannot expect, in this life, to attain to a
state pf regeneration so entire, that no images of
evil shall ever come to our souls ; but we may
hope to becpme so fiar advanced that we shall not
welcome and entertain them when they come;
but shall recognize them at once as often as they
appear, and drive them from us. This much,
however, we cannot do with our own strength,
for that is weakness; but if we strive, looking
ever to the Lord, whose strength is freely given
to all who devoutly ask his aid, we shall be
armed as with the flaming sword of cherubim,
turning every way to guard the tree of life.
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« LoTtt is the Life of Man." — Swzdkhbobo.
**Wllk the heart man beUeteth imtozi^teoaiiMM.>*^ar. ItkVL.
The Affections are the most interior of all the
attributes of n^an, — they are in fact his sjnrit-
ual life. The acquisitions of the Understanding
truly appertain to man only when the Affections
have set their seal upon them. We may store
our memories with knowledge and wisdom gath-
ered from every source, but until they are grasped
by the Affections they do not belong to us; for
till then they do not become part and parcel of
ourselves. So long as we merely know a thing,
we make no use of it. The facts of knowledge,
as they lie in the Understanding, may exhibit a
rank growth of thoughts and images ; but though
flowers may adorn them, they will all perish bar-
renly ; while, if the warmth of the Affections is
thrown upon them, the rich clusters of firuit
speedily appear ; not only affor(]ing present de-
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light, but promising to be the parents of numer-
ous offspring yet to come.
The Affections cannot be analyzed and com-
prehended with the same kind of distinctness
with which we comprehend Thought and Imagi-
nation ; because that which belongs to the Un-
derstanding can be expressed or described in
words, and in that form be passed from one to
another ; while the Affections exist only in foftns
of emotion that cannot be distinctly translated
into words. A glance of the eye or a touch of
the hand often transfers an emotion from one
mind to another with a facility and clearness of
which words are incapable. There are no things
we believe so completely as those which we feel
to be true, yet there are none about which we
reason so imperfectly.
The motive-power in man is Affection. What
he loves he wills, and what he wills he performs.
Our Character is the complex of all that we love.
We often think we love traits of Character that
we cannot possess; but we deceive ourselves.
All that we truly love we strive to attain, and all
that we strive after rightly we do attain. The
cause of self-deception on this point is, that we
think we love a certain trait of Character when
we only love its reward ; or that we hate other
traits when we only hate their punishment
The passionate man perceives that his ungov-
erned temper causes him trouble, and occasions
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him to commit acts of injustice, and to say
things for which he is afterwards ashamed ; and
he exclaims, "I wish I coold acquire self-con-
trol ; but alas ! a hasty temper is natural to me,
and I cannot overcome it." Tell such a man
that he is just what he loves to be, and he will
deny it without hesitation ; and yet the love of
combating and of overcoming by force are the "^^
darling loves of his heart; and when he fancies
that he is wishing to overcome these propensities,
he is thinking only of the worldly injury his tem-
per may occasion him, and not of the hatefulness
of anger in itself. So soon as we begin to hate -^
anger for its own sake, we begin to put it away ;
but while we only hate the bad consequences of
anger, we cleave to its indulgence. So it is with
indolence. We know, perhaps, that we are in-
dolent, and we perceive that this vice stands in
the way of our attaining to many things that
we desire, and we believe that we wish to be-
come diligent, when we are steadfastly loving a
life of indolence^ and wishing not for diligence,
but for its rewards. What we suppose to be
dislike of indolence is only dislike of the conse-
quences that indolence brings in its train. So
the drunkard sometimes goes to his grave cheat-
ing himself with the idea that the lust of the
flesh binds and enslaves him ; and that he really
loves the virtue of temperance, while in truth he
is loving sensual indulgence with all his heart.
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Possibly temperance reformers might be more
successful in reclaiming sucl^ slaves from their
sin if they would talk less of the punishments
the drunkard brings upon himself in the shape of
poverty, and disease, and shame, and enlarge
more upon the moral degradation to his own
soul which he fastens upon himself both for this
life and the life to come.
We are all of us perpetually liable to gross
self-deception by thus transferring in fancy our
love or our hate for the consequences of vices or
yirtues to the vices or virtues themselves. K we
made this transfer in fact, we should at once set
about gaining the one and putting away the
other ; but so long as we believe that sin dwells
within us without our consent and approval, we
become daily more and rtiore the servants of sin.
We not unfrequently see a very poor family
having an intense desire for educq^tion, and their
poverty, instead of putting its acquisition put of
their reach, seems only to stimulate their ardor
of pursuit. One half of their time will perhaps
be spent in the most arduous labor in order to
procure the means of obtaining the aid of books
and teachers to enrich the other half ; and no
self-denial in dress or physical indulgence seems
painful when weighed against the pleasure of in-
creasing the means of education. Here is genu-
ine love of learning, and the result of its efforts
will prove the truth of the old adage, " Where
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there is a will there is a way." This family is
acting out its life's love understandingly and
with fixed purpose.
Perhaps in the very next house to this is an-
other family of not nearly so small property.
They too profess great love of and desire for
education ; but there is no corresponding effort.
They must dress with a certain degree of gentil-
ity, and they must not make an effort to earn
money by any means that would seem to lower
their standing in society ; and, moreover, they are
indolent, and the effort ihat the denial of phys-
ical indulgences requires seems insupportable to
them. The parents of this family will often be
heard lamenting that their children cannot have
an education ; and if one should venture to indi-
cate the possibility of their obtaining one for
themselves as their neighbors are doing, they will
reply that their children have not strength to
struggle along in that way, or that they are too
proud to get an education in a way that would
seem to place them in point of social rank below
any of their fellow-students. This family are
acting out their life's love just as thoroughly,
though not so understandingly, as the other.
They do not desire education from krve for it,
but because it would give them a certain stand-
ing in society, and not having the means of in-
dulging vanity in this direction, they turn to dress
and idleness, as easier signs of what is vulgarly
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called gentility. Still these persons would Jeem
you unjust and unkind if you told them they
were living in ignorance because they had no
true love for education ; and they would hardly
deem you sane should you tell them that the
Character of every human being is the sum and
continent and expression of all that he best loves.
We cannot truly loye anything that we do not
understand, — anything that has not a distinct
existence in our thoughts and imaginations ; and
all of Character that we love and cart clearly im-
age to ourselves we can bring out into life. The
Affections are the children of the Will, and if the
Will be determined and steadfast, there is no
limit but the finiteness of humanity to the prog-
ress in whatever is undertaken. When we love
ardently, all effort seems light compared with the
good we expect to derive from the possession of
that w hich we love. If we become weary and
faint by the way, it is because we lack intensity
of love.
In reading the lives of distinguished men, we
find that, in the pursuit of whatever has raised
them above the mass of men, they knew no
discouragement, acknowledged no impossibility.
We read of travellers who, to satisfy a burning
curiosity for discovery, passed through peril and
fatigue that it is fearful for us even to think of;
and yet they, so intense was their love for what
they sought, encountered all with a determination
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that made suffering and danger indifierent, nay,
almost acceptable to them. So the inventor
labors, year after year, through poverty and priva-
tion, compensated for all by the anticipation of
the satisfaction that will be his when his darling
object is attained. So the student, the philan-
thropist, the statesman, labors in like manner,
lighted by thought, cheered by imagination,
warmed by love. Needful as may be the light
and the cheer, it is the warmth only that can
give life. We may know and imagine, and yet
perform; nothing ; but when love is wakened, per-
formance becomes a necessity of our being ; and
every sacrifice of momentary pleasure we make
in order to obtain the fruition of our desires is
not only without pain, but it is sweet as self-'
denial to a lover, if perchance he may give pleas-
ure thereby to the object of his passion. It is the
merest self-delusion for any one to sit still and
say, " I love this or I love that trait of Character ;
but it is not in my power io gain it" They who
love do not sit still and lament. Love is ever up
and doing and striving. They who sit still and
lament, love the indulgence of their own indo-
lence better than aught else, and what they love
they attain.
It is of course impossible that all should be
come distinguished by the efforts they may make
in life ; and this is not what we should aim at in
the training of Character. To be distinguished
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implies something comparative, — implies, if we
aim after Kecoming so, that we seek to be
superior to others. This is not an aim that can
be admitted in Christian training. Character
is something between us and our God, and
every thought we admit that savors of rivahry
or emulation in our efforts degrades them, and
takes from them the sanctity that can alone in-
sure success. The moment that finds us saying,
" I am glad that I am better than my neighbor,"
or even, " I desire to be better than I wish to see
him," that moment finds us destitute of a true
conception of Christian charity. We cannot
attain to a healthy growth of Character until,
smitten by the beauty of excellence, we wwship
its perfection in our Lord and Saviour, and, with
hearts fixed on him, strive, trusting in his aid, to
be perfect even as he is perfect. In this effort we
must shut out from our hearts every emotion
that cannot be admitted into our prayers to him
for light and strength. Are we sorrowful that
our neighbor is gaining upon the way faster than
ourselves, let us remember that this emotion is
virtually a prayer that his strength jnay be les-
sened for our sake ; and let us change it as quick-
ly as we can to a more earnest longing after our
own growth, without comparing ourselves with
any human being. Elation, if we think we have
passed another in the race, is a vice of the same
character as envy at another for surpassing us.
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Such envy and such elation are children of that
pride of heart that shuts the door on all brotherly
love. It is that vice by which Cain fell, and so
far as we admit it into our bosoms we volunta-
rily become the children of Cain.
The Lord tells us to seek first the kingdom of
heaven and its righteousness, and that all other
good things shall be added unto us. We cannot
suppose he meant by this that the reward of
virtue was to be found in houses and lands, or
worldly wealth of any kind, although he enu-
merated these things in the promise; for we
know that these are, perhaps, as often possessed
in abundance by the basest of men as by the most
virtuous. How, then, are we to understand this
promise ? To seek the kingdom of heaven and
its righteousness is to serve the Lord with all the
heart, and soul, and mind, and strength ; and the
rewards appropriate to such service surely can-
not be counted in silver and gold. These may
adorn the happiness that virtue gives; but they
cannot constitute it. He who labors simply for
the love of wealth is content if he obtain the re-
ward he seeks ; but he who labors to obtain the
fully developed character of a man, — the image
and likeness of God, — if he attain nothing be-
yond wealth, would feel such reward to be only a
mockery of his desires. Such labor lifts us above
the happiness external possessions can give, and
bestows upon us a wealth that the world cannot
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take away. He who wishes to serve God ac-
ceptably cultivates all his capacities to the best
of his ability, in order to increase his power of
leading a useful life, and is therefore constantly
adding to himself possessions that can never
leave him; — rational and spiritual possessions
which, in relation to our Jnternal life, correspond
to ,\^orldiy possessions in relation to our external
life, and were therefore signified in the parabolic
language of, the Lord.
When the philosopher of old lost the library
he had been all his life long collecting, he ex-
claimed, " My books have done me little service
if they have not taught me to live happily with-
out them." He had made their contents his own
by diligent study, and no power could take this
from him, and they had made him wise by their
instructions^ so that he could possess his soul in
patience under external losses of any kind. The
man who studies books, though he may not own
a volume, makes them his own far more com-
pletely than the bibliomaniac who spends a for-
tune in filling his library with choice editions
of works life is not long, enough to read. So
"it is with works of art. He who can most
truly appreciate them is he who really owns
them. One man will fill his house with pic-
tures and statues and all beautiful works of
surt, because the possession of such things gives
^ distinction in society. He collects them, not be-
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cause he loves art, but because he loves himself ;
and values them precisely in proportion to the
sums of money they have cost him. Those
among his visitors who love art for its own sake,
and have learned to appreciate such things justly,
have a pleasure incomparably more interior and
profound in gazing upon them than he who re-
joices in having paid large sums of money for
them ; and surely no one of such visitors would
exchange hia power of appreciation for the other's
external possession of them. Who, then, is the
true owner, if not he who feels most delight in
contemplating them, and who has the most deli-
cate perception of all their shades of beauty ?
In the highest of all enjoyments of the eye,
that which we derive from the contemplation of
external nature, the man whose soul is most
deeply thrilled by its beauty, whose heart rises in
worship as he gazes upon the mountains in their
calm sublimity, and remembers how the Lord
frequented such heights for prayer, and who
wanders beneath the shadows of the woods, feel-
ing that " the groves were God's first temples," —
this man surely has the kingdoms of the earth in
closer possession than he who holds thousands
of acres in fee.
Whatever possession^ we can name, whether .^
external or internal, whether of the heart, the
head, or the hand, it is love by which we iafuly
hold them. Nothing is ours that we do not lovc,^
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and through love we obtain possession of ail that
our hearts crave.
w,^ The lovcj howeverj that is so strong to obtain,
must be no superficial sentiment, but an inward
passion of the heart* So long as we live in
thought and imagination we are very apt to mis-
take mere sentimf^nt for love ; but the difference
will show itself so soon . as we begin to act.
Sentiment is soon wearied by labor and difficulty
in its pursuit of mental attainment, soon dis-
gusted by squalor or offended by ingratitude in
its attempts at benevolence, soon discouraged by
the hardness of its own heart when it endeavors
to acquire self-control, or to gain such virtues as
seem in the abstract lovely arid delightful. In
short, sentiment wants a royal road to whatever
it strives to reach. Love, on the contrary, is too
much in earnest to be dismayed by any impedi-
ment. It will not stop half-way and make ex-
cuses for its short-comings. It rests not in its
course until it has gained what it seeks; and
then it rests not lojig, for all true love " grows by
what it feeds on/' and every height of excellence
we reach does but enlarge the field of vision
and show us new countries to be won.
Admitting love to be, indeed, this intense and
all-pcr\^adijig power, and the very life of our
souls, the importance of training ourselves to
love only that which is pure and true at once be-
comes manifest. The heights of heaven are not
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fieurther from the depths of hell than are the re-
sults that come to us if we seek the pure and the
true from those which inevitably occur when the
choice falls upon the impure and the false. Let
no one think to dwell in safety because he haa
not deliberately said to hirilself, " I choose the
impure and the false " ; for if the pure and the
true be not deliberately and voluntarily choseuj
the heart out of its own inherent selfishness and
worldliness will unconsciously sink graduallyj
but surely, into the imjjure and the false. There
is no half-way resting-place for humanity be-
tween good and evil. We are always sinking,
unless we are rising ; going backward, unless
we are pressing forward.
Much is said of the truth and purity of child-
hood, and they are very beautiful, for the angels
that care for children do continually behold the
fcice of the Heavenly Father, — do stand perpetu-
aUy within the sphere of absolute truth and pu-
rity. But soon the child slips the leading-strings
of its guardian spirit, and comes into his own
liberty ; and now, unless it freely chooses to fol-
low with willing and constant step in the same
path wherein it has thus fax been led, it will
wander from side to side, increasing at each
turning the distance that separates it from the
way of life, until at last it may wander so far
that it loses the desire, and even the memory,
which might lead it to return. Vicious propen-
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sities will perhaps begin to show themselves;
and in the hardened and shameless youth it will
be hard to recognize any trace of the innocence
of infancy. But perhaps, instead of viciousness,
carelessness is developed, and youth is bright-
ened by gayety, amiability, and ready generosity.
Occasional derelictions from truth and honor
find ready apologists among friends, because the
boy or the girl is so "good-hearted"; but a
closer inspection readily shows that the goodness
of heart is very superficial, that the left hand is
often unjust while the right is generous, that a
lie is no offence to the conscience, if it be a
good-natured one, and, in short, that very littiie
dependence can be placed on the uprightness
that has no firmer base than good-heartedness.
Young persons of this sort are sometimes led
away to commit some act so base that their
eyes are opened to the dangers that beset the
path in which they are travelling, and in sorrow
and dismay they turn to seek the way of inno-
cence whence they had wandered. Too often,
howev^, the carelessness of youth passes into
the indifference of adult life and the callousness
of old age. What can be more revolting than
an old age cold, hard, and selfish ? Yet this is
the natural and almost unavoidable result of a
youth that does not fix its heart in unwavering
love upon truth and purity, — whose aspirations
are not for those things which cannot grow old,
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and which the world can neither give nor take
away. A heart filled with love for excellence
can never grow old ; for it will go on increasing
in all that is lovely and gracious so long as it
lives ; and where there is perpetual growth of the
faculties there can be no decay. We grow rfd,
not by wear, but by rust ; and we can never be-
come the prey of rust while our faculties are
kept bright by the power and the exercise of
earnest love. The fleshly body must grow old
and die, for it is of the earth, earthy ; but it is
by our own weakness and indolence if our spir-
itual body ever gathers a wrinkle on its brow.
When the fleshly body drops from us, what must
be our shame and our despair if we rise in a
spiritual body deformed with evil passions, or
corrupt with the leprosy of sin. Too many,
alas! spend all their energies in feeding and
clothing and sheltering the natural body, leav-
ing the spiritual body hungry and naked and
cold. We sometimes hear wonder expressed
that a mind thus starved has become super-
annuated and doating, while the body still carries
on its functions with vigor; but had the body
been treated with a similar neglect, it would have
long before returned to the dust. The growth
of the spiritual body should be continuous from
the cradle through eternity^ and seldom can
any other reason than our own neglect be as-
signed for its disease or decay. The bread of
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life is perpetually offered for its support, and if it
refuses to eat, its death is on its own head.
Infants who pass into the spiritual world be-
fore they are touched by a taint of earth are,
probably, through the absence of all evil in those
who are suffered to approach them, trained into
a purity of Affection that jSUs their whole being
with its genial warmth, descending, or raying
out, into all the imaginations of the soul and all
the thoughts of the mind. Thus they serve Grod
in the order which the Saviour commanded, with
6,11 the heart, and soul, and mind. They, how-
ever, who remain long on earth, almost without
exception, have the order of their nature so re-
versed, that their powers must be converted to
the right, in the order of St. Paul, ascending from
the lowest to the highest ; or, which is the same
thing, passing from the outmost to the inmost.
The lowest and most external part of the being
must be made obedient to the laws of Divine
Order, and on this as a foundation must the
higher and internal nature be built up, until it
forms a sanctuary ; and upon its altar shall fire
from heaven descend so often as a gift is offered.
The practice of external vice, just in propor-
tion to its grossness, incapacitates us for per-
ceiving what is true or loving what is good.
By vice is not meant crime such as exposes us
to punishment by the law of the land, but sins
against the laws of God, that bring their own
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punishment with them, by defacing the image
of God in the soul. There is always need of
searching the heart to find if we have committed
crimes against-the soul ; for ihe laws of the land
deal only with the excessive derelictions frpm
right which we cannot ignorantly commit We
may, however, go on unconsciously in the com-
mission 6f great sins until our hearts became
hardened against all emotions of heavenly affec-
tion, and ova eyes blinded so that we cannot
distinguish the difference between, darkness and
light. If we. would avoid this fearful condition,
we must often go to the Gospels, and place the
words of the Lord, in their various teachings,
especially as they come to us frona the Mount, as
it were in judgment over against us, and, reading
veyse by verse, fathom the depths of our hearts,
and confess whether we are guilty or no. Would
we escape such guilt, we must . study these in*
struptions again and agahr, until, as Moses com-
manded of the laws of the elder Scripture, " they
bhall be with us when we sit in our homes, or
walk by the way, or lie dowh,- or rise up. And
we shall bind them for a sign upon our hands,
and they shall be as firpntlets betwefen our eyes..
And we shs^l write them upon the posts of our
houses, and upon our gates*" ,
When we place the words of the Lord in
judgment over against us^ and feel compelled to
acknowledge our unfaithfulness to their require?
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ments, there is danger of onf falling into despair
through the conscionsness that is thus forced
upon us of our want of love for JJie law of the
Lord. The indulgence 'of. our own wills is so
sweet to us, that we cannot see how it is possible
that the yoke of the Lord can ever become easy
to our stiffened necks. We feel as though an
obedience that did not spring from true love
could not be^ called obedience, n^y, was almost a
sin ; for it seems to savor of hypocrisy. In this
state of mind, our only refuge is in that faith
which St. Paul tells us "is the substance -of
things hoped f6r, the evidence of things unseen^' ;
and then, unless this faith be s^ong enough to
make us obey, though not from love, yet from a
simple belief that at any rate obedience is better
than disobedience, our state is wretched indeed.
Our rationality tells ui that obedience is naught
unless we love to obey, but an inward conviction
of the soul — may we not call it the voice of God ?
— entireats us, raying, " This do, and thou sbalt
live." If, in the ardor of our faith, we can forget
our rationality, and cry, ''^ Lord, I believe; help
thou mine unbelief" ; a ml If we force ourselves to
do that which we are Commanded, though at first
it may appear to us an act purely external and
dead, we shall soon find, that, if planted in dark-
ness, it is still a living seed, and the Lord will
water it till it shall spring into a ^owth of beau-
ty that our hearts will cleave to with delight.
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. The firat obedience of the aoul that has entered
upon the way of regeneration is hardly less ig-
norant than that of the 4ittle child who obeys his
parent without comprehending the use or propri-
ety of his commands ; and, like that of the little
child, it consists in abstaining from doing that
which is wrong, rather . than in doing" that
which is right. As the child grows older, he pan
look back upon those commands and uqderstand
l^em ; and then he is ^ed with gratitude and
love towards his parent for putting them upon
him, So he who seeks to love the Lord must
obey first, and understand afterward,— must
keep the commandments ere he can kpow the
doctrincd, — ^^must abstain from doing wrong be-
fore the Lord can implant in his heart the love
of doing right.
In the first stages of regenerating life we think
we love the Lor^ although we know that we do
not love our felfow-beings a^ Iwe ought ; and we
cannot comprehend the truth, that he who does
liot love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot
love the Lord, whom he has not seen ; and we
think it is mtuch easier to be pious tpwards God
than to be charitable towards men. If oursfaith
is strong enough to inducfe;-us to obey the ex-
ternal commandment of doing, as we would be
done by, the affection of true brotheriy love by
degrees grows up within us, we know not how,
for the ft|Hrit of God has breathed upon us when
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we were not aware ; and then we perceive how
imperfect was the love we bore to the Lord,
when we had not learned to feel that the attri-
bute which awakens true love for him is the per*
feet love he bears towards each one of us, ieuid
that we can appreciate this love only so far as
we imitate it by feeling willing to" do all the good
we can to pvery neighbor, without distinction of
person, after the manner in which he causes the
sun to shine and the rain to fall alike upoii the
evil and upon the good.
To live thus in charity with all men id not to
do external actsrof benevolence indiscriminately
to all, without respect of person. There is a
conmion, but erroneous, idea in the world, that
simply to give is charity. To live what many
esteem a life of. charity, that is, a life of indis-
criminate giving, is often to pay a bounty upon
idleness and improvidence, and io furnish the
means of vicious indu%ence. While remember-
ing the command to give to those who ask. We
must not forget the fwrohibition against casting
pearls before swine. To give good things to
those we liave reason to suppose will abuse
them is as wrong as to withhold our gifts from
those who would use Ihem. To give ignorantly,
when \^e know not th^ value of the claim upon
• our benevolence, is at best but a negative virtue,
and we should bear in mind that everything we
bestow upon the unworthy is so much abridged
from our means oT aiding the worthy.
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, Many persons seem to suppose that charity
consists entirely in alms-giving, while this is only
its lowest form. Kind deeds and kind words
are as truly works of charity as pecuniary gifts,
and we do not le^d lives of parity unless we are
as ready with those in the home circle and in our
social relations as with these among the poor.
God shows his love to his children by providing
them with sustenance for the body, for the intel-
lect, and for the affections, and if we would re-
semble him, we must show pur love to the neigh-
bor by being always ready to minister to the
wants of thosc^ around us, in whatever form they
mayari9e. o
We are told to give even as we receive, smd
we are also told that we are sjbewards of the
Lord ; that is, that .all our gifts are held in trust
from him ; and we must use them in such a way
that at his coming he may find his own with
Usury. True charity never impoverishes. In
j>utward possessions it would be hard to find a
man who has made himself pwr by acts of
benevolence, for a just and wise benevolence is
almost sure to be accompanied by an orderly de-
velopment of .the factdties such as in our country
makes prosperity almost certain. In intellectual
attainments most persons are familiar with the
IJeiet, that there is no way by which we can so
tiiorooghly confirm and make clear in om^ own
minds anything ^fit we know, as by imparting
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it to another. In all that relates to the affectional
part of onr being, none can donbt that we grow
by giving. The more we love, the more we find
that is lovely ; and it is only in ^propo^tioli as w;e
love, that we can learn to comprehend that God
is infinitely powerful by reason of his infinite
love. If we -would make our one^ talent two, ot
our five talents ten, the best way to da it is by
giving 0>f all that we have to those who are
poorer than ourselves.
Every person has within him three planes of
life, which constitute his being, and which, dur-
ing the progress of regeneration, are "successively
developed ; viz. the natural, tlie spiritual, and the
heavenly- With those who lead an externally
good life on the natural plane, that is, who act
more from the impulses of a kind disposition or
a blind obedience than firom the light of Chris- .
tian truth, charity consists merely in' supplying
the natural wants of the neighbor by making
him more comfortable in his external condition?;
and this is well, for there is little, if any, use in
trying to improve the^ inner man while the outer
is bowed down with waiit or squalid with im-
purity! This is the basis of th^ higher planes of
charity, the first in time, though lowest in degree.
There ^re those who think lightly of this form
of charity, befause it is lowest in degree, forget-
ting that it is Absolutely essential as . a basis for
everything that is higher. ^This truth may be
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illustrated by theduties of the parents of a family.
It is .easy to perceive that the highest duty of par-
ents is the spiritual training of their children, that
the second is to give them an intellectual educa-
tion, while the third and lowest is to feed and
clothe and shelter their bodies. This duty to-
wards the^ body, although lowest in\ degree, is
first in time ; and ministering to the wants of the
natural bodies of their children, that th^y may
grow np strong and heahhy, is the first duty to be
performed in order to insure, so far as possible,
a trustworthy basis on which to build up their
spiritual bodies. It should, however, be^ disf
tinctly kept in mind, that this is only the low
est plane of parental 4utyj and that to rise no
higher is, as it were, to lay a solid foundation
with labor and expense, and then leave it with
no superstructure, a monument of folly.
From this ^lass of charitable persons come
those who found .institutions and lead reforms
having in view the amelioration of the physical
condition of the human race. In regarding this
as the lowest class, no disreg^pect towards it is in-
tended, for it is absolutely essential as a basis to
the higher ; but this foundation should be recog-
nized as such by the founder in order that he
may adapt ifc to the superstructure, and not elab-
orate the former at the expense of the latter.
The parent may squander his means upon fine
clothes aiid sumptuous fare until he has nothing
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left for the inteUectual education of hb children;
the state m^y build palaces for the physics^
comfort of its paupers and criminal^, until there
is nothiog left in the treasury t6 construct school-
houses and colleges for the mental training of ita^
virtuous children y the philanthropist may so be-
stow his charities that the recipient will learn to
iFeel that it is the duty of the rich to supped the
poor, and so become a pauper when he might
have been a useful citizen.
With those whose brotherly love is of the sec-
ond, or spiritual degree, charity is founded on
the love, of right, theiove of giving to all their
just due. Those of the first class will,- perhaps,
deem those of the second cold, yet ja close obser-.
vation will show that in the end more good is
done to society through the effort^ of the latter
than of the former^ Where the generosity i)f the
first would reforjtn the condition of a miserable
neighborhood, by giving the sufferers food and
raiment and shelter^ the justice of the second
would say all men should have the means of
acquiring a support for themselves, and his efforts
would be turned to providing employment, and
encouraging a spirit of industry among the poor.
Where the first would build almshouses and
hospitals, the second. would build factories and
workshops. The 4rst would lavish all that he
had in direct gifts to the poor, and then have
nothing more in his power to dio fo* them, while
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the second, by busbanding his resources at first,
would be able presently to place them beydnd
the lieed of aid. The first will be so generous
to-day that it will be hard for him to be just to-
monfotv, while the second, by doing only justice
now, gains power to bring about the most gen-
erous restdts hereafter.
This second degree of charity or brbtherly love
should not ignbte nor contemn the first, but build
itself upon it. Justice must not fprget mercy.
The poor must not be suffered to starve before
work can be provided for them, or they be taught
to do it. One Christian virtue does not destroy
that which lies beneath it, but rises to its true
height by standing upon it. We do not puU
away the base of a structure because ^e wish ita
top to be more elevated. ^
The third, ax heavenly degree of charity re-
sults from love to the Lord. This is the highest
possible form of charity, and -through its develop-
ment man is brought into connectioii with the
highest heavens. The first form of charity comes
in great measure from a love of self. We obey
its impulses becatuse of our own personal distress
at witnessing the distress Of others; and where
unrestrained by higher principle, these impulses
often compel us to be unjust. toVday because we
were over-generous yesterday. The second form
of charity results from true brotherly love, that
leads us to restrain impulse because principle
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pute it in oar power to cjo so much more for
those who need our aid. The third form is tiie
fruit of love to the Lord. It is warmer than the
first and wiser than the o^cond. It develops the
whole power of man, both rational and affec-
tional, by leading, him to the eternal soujrce of all
power, whence cometh down to us all capacity
to think and to love* Quickened by love to the
Lord, we shall perpetually feel that we are his
stewards, and while we are filled with g^titude
towards him, as the giver of every good thing we
possess, we shall equally be ^ed with desire to
give even as we have received, good measure^
running over, and shaken together. Then we
shall fed, that, if we would lead lives of true
charity, it tnust be by imitating the Lord, who
showed forth his love towards his children, first
by giving them the earth and all that it con-
tained as an inheritance J secondly, by giving
them the Word of his divine truth to teach them
the way in which they should walk; and thirdly,
by coming in person to show them the ife^lity of
a divine life. Finitely imitating this infinite ex-
ample, as we advance in the regeneration x>f our
Affections, we shall first give of our external pos^
sessions from the love of giving, and firom a de^
sire to make ourselves )iappy by seeing others so.
Next, we shall give from the knowledge of trutib
that is in us, working with such wisdom, as we
possess,, to help others to make themselves happy.
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Finally, love to God will lead us to perceive that
charity in the highest degree is the leading a
good life ; and that he who is pure and holy and
faithful is a living fcMrm of charity. Whil6 this
state does not destroy, but fills ftdl the two pre-
ceding ones, it will perhaps diminish rather than
increase the general action of the life upon so-
ciety, because its tendency is to increase our
earnestness in the perfoirmance of the immediate
dtities of life that are included in the family cir-
cle, and in all that relates to the particular occu-
pation of the individual. This is tlie natural re-
sult of an interior love to the Lord : for this makes
us feel his immediate presence in all the circum-
stances of daily life, and so causes Us to look
upon the duty that lies nearest as that one which
the Lord wishes us to perform first ; and, till iiidt
is done, prevents our seeking out duties more re-
mote and less apparent
In studying the material manifestations of the
Divine Love and Wisdom, we find that the per-
fection of each mihutest part is a type of the per- -
fection of the great whole. So in the material
works of man, every w^hole thing approaches per-
fection just in the degree that its several parts
are perfect; and it is vain to labor for great re-
sults while we overlook minute details. So in
life, society can never be a virtuous and happy
whole, until each individual, in his special voca-
tion, fulfils every duty pertaining to his station.
If we would perform our quota of the great
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whole, we must, e^ch in his place, fulfil the
-V; duties that lie around us ; and we must bewaie
\ how we go out of our way in pursuit o( duty,
unless we are confident that we are not neglect-
ing, or perhaps trampling upon, a duty that lies
directly in our. path.
There is especial danger, at the present day,
that many of us may need to be warned, like the
scribe of old, wearied with his task-work, not to
seek great things for ourselves. As Baruch mur-
mured because he must again aiid again write
out the words of Jeremiah, so we cry out wearily
at the daily recurring duties of life, and would
fain seek some great thing whereby to show
forth our devotion to the truth* This is because
our love to the Lord is not yet strong enough to
regenerate our Affections. In proportion as this
is accomplished, duty will become lovely to us,
because it is what the Lord sets before us to do.
We all know how pleasant it is to do the will of
those whom we most love on earth, and^o would
it be supremely delightful to us to do our duty if
we had a similar love for our Father in Heaven.
As the little coral insect, obeying ^the blind
instinct of its nature, adds particle to particle,
and builds a house for itself 'at the same time
that it helps to construct a continent ; so we,
obeying the voice of God, in every little duty,
performed not grudgingly, but with the heart,
are adding something to our eternal mansions,
and helping to enlarge the bounds of heaven.
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*<Thoa Bhalt notxesp^ the penon of the poimr, nor honor the posda of the
migfaly: bat in zightBoanuM ihalt thou judge thy neii^bor.'* — Liyinoui
xlx.l6.
<* There is bat one thfaig of which I am efiraid, and that if ftar.^ ■^'ilov-
TAIttHl.
" Work ! and thou Shalt blett the day, ,
Bre thy task be done ;
^ They that work not cannot pray, *
Cannot feel the sun.
** Worlds thou mayst possess with health -
And nnslombering i>owers ;
Indosti^ alone is wealth, --.
What we do is ours."
Thought, Imagination, and Aifecfion, com-
bined harmoniously, constitute a symmetrical
Character, and they should manifest themselves
in an extei-nal Life of corresponding symmetry.
The External Life will always fall short of the
internal^ because we can always imagine a de-
gree of excellence beyond that which we have
reached, let our efforts be earnest and active as
they may ; and the" more we advance in Christian
progress, the wider will t^e vista open before 'us
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of that which we may yet attain. As we ascend
the heights of worldly knowledge, in whatever
department, the horizon widens at every step;
and we always' know that the horizon, distant as
it may seem, is oidy aa imaginary limit to that
which may be known. The shallow student, in
the inflation of self-conceit, may fanpy that tis
own narrow valley is the limit of the universe ;
but the wise man knows that limitation belongs
only to his own oi^anrzation, and not to the uni-
verse of God. So in the training of Character,
we may go on in our progress, not only through
time, but through the jfneasureless periods of
eternity, arid yet we know that we can never
reach that perfection of development which be-
longs to the All-perfect.
Among the insane dreamers of ihe earth, those
are found who. deem themselves enjoying light
sufficient to live, lives of perfection, even in this
dim morning twilight that lies around us on
earth; but. it is their bat-kke vision which takes
for noonday that which, were their eyes couched,
would seem to them but darkness visible. He
who fancies that he leads a perfect life, is but a
dreamer concerning things of which he has no
true knowledge*
Perfection is, nevertheless, the object at which
we should patieniiy and steadfastly aim, and the
loftiness of the mark, unattainable though it be,
will shed an ennobling influence oir those who
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strive. The mass of hnman beings aim at noth-
ing higher than to be as virtuous as, or a yesry lit-
tle more so than, their neighbors ; and are often
more than contented when they think they have
reached the low mark at which they aim. To
compare ourselves with our fellow-beings is
always dangerous, and leads to envyings, rival-
ries, pride, and vainglory. In aU our aims, the
absolute should be our only mapk. If in intel-
lectual pursuits we strive only to know as much
as our neighbors for the sake of decency, or to
know more than they for the gratification of
pride^ or for the pursuit of wealth or honor, we
shall never reach sojiigh a point as if we studied
without ever stopping to compare ourselves with
any one; bift worked right on, incited simply by
the desire of knowing all that bur capacities iind
opportunities would enable us to acquire. Work-
ing thus, w^e shouM go on our way rejoicing, our
hearts embittered by no envyingSy inflated by no
conceit. Comparing what we know with that
whidh we do not know, wer could never become
vain of our acquirements, for we must always
feel that what we know i^ but the beginning of
that which remains to be learned.
So in Life, if we compare bur own lives with
the lives of our neighbors, we shall be envious
and jealous, or else self-conceited and proud ; and
our efforts will probably soon slacken, and then
cease; and then we shall begin to go down hill,
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al the very moment, p^h&ps, when we are tak
ing credit to ourselves for our rapid, or our finr
ished ascent If, on the, other hand, we compare
our lives with that absolute perfection which the
Lord sets before us as our model, we shall incur
the danger of none of these vices ; and though
the greatness of our task may well cause us to
"work in fear and trembling," we shall ever be
cheered by the consciousness that "the Lord
worketh within us both to -will and to do."
When our characters take form in external
Life, thought must give us discrimination. Im-
agination must give us courage^ and Affection
must give us earnestness; then our external
nature will be the transparent medium through
which the internal nature will shine, with a lustre
undiminished by the opacity which is sure to
dim its radiance when dulness, fearfulness, or in-
dolence inheres wititthe external nature; for then
it forms a husk to hide, instead of a mediuHi to
display, the workings of ihe inner being.
The powers that have been treated of in the
preceding essays are sometimes found to work
well so long as they work upon abstractions ; but
so soon as they are required to work upon the
daily Life, they fail of reaching so high a point
of excellence as we think we had reason to an-
ticipate. This results from the want of either
discrimination, courage, or earnestness ; and the
inker nature cannot be thoroughly trained until
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these faculties are so developed by its life-giving
power, that their weakness ceases to interfere
with its movements when it seeks to manifest
itself ia external Life* "
Thought can discriminate abstractions long
before it can discriminate facts in their relations
with .Life. It can reason lo^cally of the true
and Hie false in the realms of the mind long be-
fore it can tell the right from the wrong with cor-
rectness and readiness in the daily ongoings of
eveiits. To disoriminatte justly here, we must be
able to dissipate the mists with which the love of
self and the love of the world obscure the way
in which we tread ; hiding that which we ouffht
io love, and displaying in enlarged proportions
the things that we do love, until reason loses all
jusrt data, and accepts whatever passion offers as
foundation for its judgtQcn^. Persons thus mis-
led x)ften think they really meant to walk stead-
fastly in the right pati>, and that they are not re-
sponsible for having wandered into the wrong.
They call what they have done an error of judg-
ment, and rest content in ihe belief that their in-
tentions wete good, and therefore they are not to
blame. This maybe true, for ^' to err is human,"
and none but the All-wise can be sure of always
judging rightly. StiU, when we know that we
have done wrong through an error of judgment,
we should carefully examine and see if we might
not have avoided this mistake had we been more
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careful in our ihve^tigatiqn of facts, — more con-
dcientious ia our process of adopting our \ opin-
ions. If we thus catechized our past errors, we
should probably find, that, in a large proportion
of cases, our error sprang from some cause we
might have prevented, — from carelessness, from
blindness caused by the desire to gratify our own
wishes, or from indolence; in fact,^at what we
fancied Sprang from an error of judgment only
had a much deeper root, and drew its nourish-
ment from undisciplined Affections.
In training the faculty of discrimination, the
work we nmst set before ourselves is to learn the
relative value of principles, of persons, and of
things ; and in order to do this^ we must look
upon them in their relations with tinie and with
eternity. We must learn to value and to judge
from laws of absolute right, and not from the ex-
pediencies of the hour.
Protestants quote with horror the Romish nbiax-
im, that,." for a just cause, it is lawfiil to confirm
equivocation with an oath," yet the same prin-
ciple lurks within their pwa bosoms, inciting
many a well-intentioned soul to "do evil that
good may come of it." The two maxims are
twin sisters, and children of the father of lies.
Perspns who think they have delicate conscien-
ces not unfrequently tell what they call small
lies, or, lies of expediency, in order that some
good may come of it, which they esteem so great
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that it overbalan<?e8 the evil of ihe fip^sehood.
This class of persons is veyy numerous, and of aU
degrees, runniug from the mother who deludes
her child into being a " good boy " by the prom-
ise of punishment or of favor that she has no in-
tention of bestowing, to the juror who swears to
speak the truth, and then affirms that a guilty
man is innocent, fancying that it is less a sin for
him to commit perjury than for the poweis that
be to commit what he calls oppression, injustice,
or legal murder. This willingness to commit
one sin, in order to prevent our neighbor &om
committing aqother, is a form of brotherly love
we are nowhere enjoined to practise ; it springs
from an overweening seLWove, that believes itself
too pure to-be contaminated by a small sin,
while it forgets that a wilful disobedience of one
commandment is in its essence disobedience to-
wards the whole law. All who do evil that good
may come of it, in any department of life, belong
to this same class of persons. They ever look
upon the sins of their neighbors with a sharper
eye than they turn upon their own ; and ever
hold themselves in readiness, bj^/* righteous in-
dignation," intemperate zeal, and wisdom be-
yond that which is written, to do battle for the
Lord with weapons he has foijpbidden us to use,
and to set. the world in order by means and
principles in direct opposition to his laws.
No one couCd be guilty of such sins who pos-
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sessed a discriminating sense of right and wrong ;
such a sense as is derived from receiving the
teachings of the Lord in simplicity of heart, and
never presuming to set aside iiis commandments
in ordier to place oiir own in their stead. His
commands to refrain from doing evil are explicit,
and without reserve, and he who ventures to call
in question their universal application is sharp-
ening a wieapon for the destruction of his own
soul.
The commands of the Lord are infinite prin-
ciples, and in their natural and simple deduc-
tions cover all the acts of Life having any moral
bearing, from the greatest to the least; and it
is not the wisdom, but the foolishness, of man,
not his depth, but his shallpwness, that endeavors
to limit their significance and their application.
We shall find that our vain attempts to do this
occasion almost all our eiprors of judgment. " The
testimony of the L5rd is sure, making wise the
simple," and he who is implicitly guided by it
can alone walk surely; for he only has an unfail-
ing guide in his endeavors to distinguish accu-
rately betW^een right and wrong.
If we learn to discriminate principles wisely,
our nextstep is to apply a similar action of the
thoughts to persons ; and here again it is tp the
laws of absolute good and' evil we must look for
light. We must learn to respect persons for
what they are, and not for their position, their
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reputation, or their worldly possessions. If we
are really aiming to train our own characters in
accordance with the laws^ of absolute right, we
shall be likely to respect in others the attributes
we seek in our own persons. In all other efforts, '
there is too often envy and jealousy ^mong those
who strive; but with those who seek true excel-
lence, whether intellectual or moral, /or Us Bwn
Sake, and not from love of the world, there, is
always pure brotherly love ; and a perpetual der
light is experienced in the contemplation of ex-
cellence wherever it id found.
In our estimate of the relative value of things,
the same laws are called into action. If we
would value them curight, we shall seek first: those
which aid us in improving and educating oui
characters, or which enlai^e our powers of use-
falness, and be comparatiyely indifferent to things
which are external, and contribute only to the
pleasure of the hour.
True discriminatioh may be defined as the
faculty by which we justly estimate the value
and the relations of principles, of persons, and of
things ; and so far as we attain to it, the power
of wise Thought is ultimated in Life.
Courage, the buoyant child of Imagination, is
the next faculty which we must duly cultivate, if.
we would use the talents^ God has bestowed
upon us to the best advantage. It is common
to look upon courage as a natural endowment,
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and few persons seem to be aware that it is a
moral trait we are bound to cultivate. Yet
when we consider how the want of courage
. interferes with our powers of usefulness, we can-
not doubt that conscience should have force to
make brave men and women of us all. In the
vaOious relations of life there is nothing that so
paralyzes the powers asfear. They who are the
subjects of fear are slaves, let their position of
their endowments be what they may. The want
of c6ui*age in practical life bringsr failure, casu-
alty, and even death, in its train : intellectually,
it robs us of half our power ; morally, it puts us
in bondage to> our fellow-beings; and reUgiously,
it leaves us without hope.
Hope and fear are alike children of -the Imagi-
nation ; but how different is their aspect ! Fear
walks through the world with abject gait, search-
ing constantly after something of which it may
be afraid ; for, like all the other faculties, it per-
petually demands food, and, if it finds it not in
the world around, imagines it in the world within.
Few persons, perhaps none, are fearful in every
department of life ; but almost every one is so in
some particular relations. Just so far as we suc-
cumb to fear, we lose the control of our powers, '
and lie at the feet of circumstance instead of co-
operating with it, and making it subserve our
benefit. Hope, on the contrary, finds cause for
joy everywhere, and when surrounded by gloom
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lees, in imagination, the dawn that niust.come -
even after the blackest night^^and is buoytd up
by the remembrance, that, though " sorrow may
endure for a nighty joy cometh in the morning;^
Wh«re fear sees nothing but the black clouds that
threaten coming storms, hope looks through them
to the bow of promise. Hope is the internal
principle of true courage. St Paul, in his beau-
tiful description of charity, tells us that it " hopeth
all things " ; and we may easily perceive how it
must be so, for the external form of charity ia
love to the neighbor, which leads us to hope all
things for our fellow-beings; while its internal
form, which is love to God, must lead us-^to hope
all things for ourselves. The devils believe and
tremble because they hate God ; the devout be*
Heve and hope because they love him.
Let us consider courage specially in its four
principal relations,— physical^ intellectual, moral,
and reUgious.
Physical courage, — the courage of practical
life, — though it seems the lowest form of this
virtue, is perhaps quite as rare as .either of the
others. Thei^e is abundance of fool-hardiness, of
brutal rashness, indifferent to aU comseqaences,
in the world ; but very littie of that cabxLj self-
possessed courage that leaves to one the full u^e of ,
his faculties in the midst of danger, and allows
bim to act wisely even when meeting deadfa face <
to face. The only «ure foundation tSt this form
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of courage is unshrinking trust in the overruling
power of God, — a trust that shall make us feel
his providence ever clasping its arms about us in
all the circumstances of life, causing us everio
bear in mind, that he who watches the fall of the
sparrow cannot permit us to perish or to suffer
by chance. This trust will give u& power to
meet the prospect of death with calmness, let it
threaten in what form it may, whether the sum-
mons come in the crash of the shattered car, the
bowlings of the ocean-storm, the ^ash of the
lightning, or the quiet of our own chamber. We
shall feel that the hand of God is in, or over,
them all ; and when danger threatens, our facul-
ties willrather be quickened than diminished by
the consciousness, that, in times of emergency, if
we look to him, he will be the more abounding
in pouring his grace upon us to supply our need.
Calm, self-possessed courage comes to us the
moment we lean upon God for strength ; while
we are rendered helpless by fear, or rash by arro-
gance, if we look only to ourselves.
There are those* who would feel that they
were passing away by the will of God, if disease
came to them with slowly .wasting hand, and
would meet his^ wiH, coming in that form, with
meekness and patience, perhaps with willing-
ness; and yet, were they caUed to die by -sud-
den casualty, would pass into eternity shrieking
with terror. Much of this fear of sudden death
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is a mere physical passion, arising from a mis-
taken idea that there must be great pain ixi a
death by violence ; and some even, in spite of
the direct teaching' of the Lord to the contrary,
look upon such a death as a manifestation of the
wrath of Grod against the individual. Yet there
is, in fact, much less suffering in most deaths by
casualty than by prolonged disease; while in
many such there is probably entire freedom from
suffering. The mercy of God, no less than hia
power, is everywhere, and in all forms of death,
no less than in life ; and were our love for him
as universal as his for us, we could no more fear
while remembering that we 8a:e in his hands,
than the infant fears while clasped to its mother's
breast.
The possession of this trust in God, because
it makes one calm in all positions and under all
emergencies, is the surest of all safeguards against
danger. How often,. in the shocking records of
disaster by land and water, is the loss of life
directly traceable to the want of that true cour-
age that retains self-possession everywhere, and
under all circumstances, ^ving the power to
ward oflF threatening danger, even when it seems
most imminent and irresistible. In pestilence^
the terrified are the first to fall victims to the
scourge, while none walk so securely as those
who posaess their souls in quietness.
Iiitelle6tual courage, — the courage of thought,
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—comes second in the ascending, scale. As
physical courage gives us the ability to use our
faculties with the same freedom in the most im-
minent danger as we should with no alarming
circumstance to excite us, making us as it were
to rise above circumstance, so intellectual cour-
age gives us the power to think with independ-
ence, jufit as we should if we did not know the
opinion of another human being upon the sub-
ject which engages our thoughts.
Persons having an humble estimate of their
own abilities are apt to take their opinions, with-
out reserve, from -those whom they most respect,
without making any effort on their own part to
judge for themselves between truth and falsehood.
If this were right, it would take all responsibility
in relation to matters of thought from this class
of persons ; yet every human being must be re-
sponsible for the opinions he holds. We cannot
excuse ourselves by saying we took our ^opinion
from another, and it is his fault if it be false.
Each one must be prepared to answer for his
own opinions, just as he must be responsible for
his own actions.
Persons of a combative disposition take just
the opposite course £rom this, and adopt opin-
ions merely because they are opposed to some
particular person or to some class of persons.
Such persons fancy themselves very indepAident,
and announce their opinions witii a movement of
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the head, -that seems to say, "You see I am
afraid of nobody, and dare to think for myself."
There is, however, quite as little independence in
adopting an opinion because somebody else does
not think so, as in accepting it because he does.
Incjependence of thought is thinking without any
undue regard to the opinion of any one else, one
way or the other,
A third class of persons, having large love of
approbation, is very numerous. These are un-
willing to express any opinion in conversation
until they have ascertained the views of the per-
son they address ; cannot tell wha^t tl»ey think of
a book until they know what the critics say;
and seem to h^ve no idea of truth in itself, but
look merely to please others by changing their
opinions as often as they change their compan-
ions. There are many authors of this class who,
in writing, strive only to please the vanity of the
reader by presenting him with a reflection of his
own ideas ; and whose constant aim is to follow
public opinion, instead of leading it. They do
not care whether the ideas they promulgate are
true or false, if they are but popular ; and if they
fail to please, are filled with chagrin, and some-
times have even died of despair,
. A fourth class of persons, possessed of strong
self-esteem, arrive at independence of thought
through pride of intellect, and this is even rnore
dangerous than to depend upon others for our
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opinions ; for of all idolatry, there i^ none so in-
terior and bard to overcome as the worship of
self. K we would arrive at troth of opinion, we
must be independent of our own passions and
prejudices no less than of our neighbor's. There
is but one source of truth, and whoever believes
that he finds it elsewhere is an idolater. The
Lord lias declared, " I am the way and the truth
and the life " ; and it is only through him as the
way that we can-find the truth, and we seek it
through him when we love it because he is the
truth, and so seek it for its own absolute beauty
and excellence, desiring to bring it out into life.
Look where we may along the pages of his-
toid and the records of science, it is the devout
men who have been the successful promulgators
of new ideas and searchers after truth. The
scoffer and the infidel make great boasts of their
progress through their independence of Scrip-
ture ; but in a little while a devput man follows
in their footsteps ^nd proves that their deduc-
tions are false, and that even their observations
of facts were not to be trusted. Scoffers and
infidels come, promising to set the world in
order by subverting governments; but though
they are quick to pull down,- they have no power
to build up ; and it is only when the devout man
comes, that the reign of anarchy and misrule
ceases. ■
Common, daily life is the epitome of history.
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The devout man is the only one whose opinions
are trustworthy ; and just so far as we become
truly devout will the scales that hinder us from
seeing the truth fall from our eyes. " If the eye
be single," looking to the Lord alone, unbiassed
in its gaze by^the thousand-fold passions of earth,
"the whole body shall be full of light."
Moral courage, the third phase of this virtue,
is that faculty of the soul by which we "are en-
abled to act, in all the social relations of life,
with perfect independence of the opinions of the
world, and governed only by the laws 6f abstract
propriety, uprightness, and charity. It gives us
power to say and to do whatever we conscien-
tiously believe to be right and t;rue, without
being influenced by the fear of man's frown or
the hope of his favpr. This is veiy difficult, be»
cause the customs and conventionalisms of soci-
ety hedge us about so closely from our very
infancy, that they constraiil us when we are un-
conscious of it, and lead us to act and to refrain
in a way whiph our better judgment would for-
bid, did we consult its indications without being
influenced by the world.
It was a saying of a wise man, that " he who
fears Qod can fear nothing else"; and there is
certainly no healthy way in which we can be de-
livered from that fear of the world which destroys
moral courage, but the learning to fear, above all
tilings, failing to fulfil our duty before God. If
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we would have moral courage, we must accus-
tom ourselves to feel that we cyre accountable to
God, and to him only, for what we da There
is a spurious moral as well as intellectual cour-
age, the offspring of pride and arrogance, that
pretends to independence in a spirit of defiance
of the opinion of the wcMrld ; but this wiH never
give us the power to act wisely, for wisdom is
ever the twin sister of charity that loves the
neighbor even while differing from him in opin-
ion. True courage of every kind is perfectly
self-possessed, but never defiant. A spirit of de-
fiance springs. from envy or hate if it be honest,
and from a consciousnes^ of inferiority if ias-
sumed ; and is sometimes only a disguise. self-
assumed by fear, when it seeks to be unconscious
of itself. True moral courage restdts from the
hope that we are acting in harmony with the
laws of eternal wisdom. Fear of every kind is
annihilated by a living hope that the Lord is on
our side.
If we would test the quality. of our moral
courage, we must ask ourselves, is it defiant ? is
it disdainful ? is it envious ? does it hate its
neighbor ? or are its emotions affected in any
way by the opinion pf the world? If we can
answer all these questions in the negative, we
must go a step farther, and ask if we have gained
a state of independence of our own selfish pas-
sions, as well as of the world ; for our most in-
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veterate foes, and those before whom we. cower .
most abjectly:, are often those that dwell within
the household of our own hearts. If the love of
ease or of sensual indulgence rules <there, we
need to summon our moral courage to a stern
strife, for there is no conquest more difficult than
over the evil a;ffections that are yooted in our
sensual nature. Wise and good men have gone
so far as to believe that this conquest is never
entire in this world ; that the allurements of indo-
lence and the gnawing of sensual cravings are
never quieted save when the body perishes. It is,
however, difficult to beUeve that passions exist
in the body apart from the soul, and if not, there
can be no absolute impossibility of conquest,
even in thig world. If this maybe attained, it
must be through the building up of a iarue
moral courage, that shaU fight believing that the
sword of the Lord is in the hand of him who
strives, trusting in that eternal strength which is
mighty even as we, are weak, .
Religious courage , develops naturally in pro-
portion as the grbvfth of moral courage becomes
complete. Fear is nowhere so distressing as in
our relations with our Creator. That which is
by uaturie best becomes worst when it is per-
verted ; and as the blessed hope to which, as
children of God, we are all born heirs, is in its
fulness an infinite source of joy and blessing to
the soul, so when it is reversed and perverted into
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fear, it becomes the soulrce of unspeakable mis-
ery, sometimes resulting in one pf the most
wretdied forms of insanity.
The morbid state of the mind which induces
this distressing passion is the result of a peculiar
form of egotism, which leads the thoughts to
fasten upon one's own evils so entirely that the
xnind oeases <t6 recognize, or even to remember,
the long-suffering patience and mercy of the
Heavenly Father. A more common, but less
painful form of this fear is the result of vague-
ness in one's ideas of the Divine character and
attributes. The clear and rational views which
Swedenborg has given of the Divine Providence
is undoubtedly the reason why religious melan-
choly is aln^ost never found among the members
of the New Church. The peace in believing,
which is almost universal among this class of
Christians, is a subject of remark among those
who observe them, wherever they are found; and
this arises, not iinerely from their not looking
upon God as an enemy and avenger who de-
mands a perfect fulfilment of the letter of the
law, or infinite punishment for sin, either person-
ally or by an atoning Saviour ; but from the pos-
session of a distinct idea, imaged in their minds,
of the nature and the quality of the Divine Prov-
idence. Where there is a tendency to any kind
of fear, nothing increases it more than the want
of a distinct idea of the thing or person feared ;
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becari^e the Imagination, which is always quick
with the timid, is ahnost, sure to create some-
thing within the mind far more fearful than any-
tjiing that really exists. The greatest boon man-?
kind ever received through a brother man was
the doctrine first pronaulgated by Swedenborg,
that God has respect even to <5ur good inten-
tions ; and that he casts out none who sincerely
desire to be of his kingdom. If one distinctly be-
lieves this doctrine there i» no rational groimd
in the mind for fear ; because the very fact of our
desire for salvation — provided we understand
salvation to be a state of the mind,- and hot a
mere position in a certaiii place, — or something
pertaining to our iiltemal, and not to our ex-
ternal, nature — makes it impossible that we
should fail of attaining it. -
If one is oppressed with religious fear, the
way to escape from it is to use every endeavor
to attain a clear and distinct idea of the Divine
character, and to ^strive to bring one's self into
harmony with it ; — to, think as little as possible
about one's own sins, and to train the thoughts
to dwell upon the NPivine perfections, and culti-
vate an ardent desire to imitate them. It is
necessary to think of one's self enough to refrain
from the commission of external sins, and just so
far and so fast as ^ye put away sin, the Lord
wilLlmplentihe opposite virtue in its place, pro-
vided we put the sin ^wsly from love to him.
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and not from any selfish or worldly motive.
This state of active cooperation with the Lord
is something very different from that into which
one falls who is the subject of religious fear," and
cannot exist in company with it The religious
coward can only overcome his fear by remember-
ing that God is not a tyrant who demands im-
possibilities of his slaves, but a Father of infinite
lov^, who would make his children eternally
happy; and who, in order that they may become
«o, gives tiiem every means and eveiy' aid that
they wiU receive. He must not suffer his heart
to sink within him by thinking of his own weak-
ness, but must elevate it by thinking of the in^
finite power of hiip. who has called us to sal-
vlition. Above all things, he must not fall into
reveries about himself, but seek to forget self in
the ^ctivp performance of duty.
The performance of duty, thfe fulfilling of use,
which, rightly understood, is the universal pana-
cea against all the troubles and sorrows of this
life,* is too often ^ fearful bugbear in the eyes
of those who understand it not. This subject,
however, brings us to the third and last topic to
be discusse-d under the head of Life. The love
of duty, to be effectual or real must be earnest;
for earnestness is the certain result of living
Affection. Through this, all our other powers
and facidties ultimate themselves in external
Life. , Earnestness is the exact opposite of indo-
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lence» It is the external motive pow«r, just as
Affection is the internal motive power,— r-th^
body, of which Affection is the spuL With-
out esurnestness, all our other powers come to
naught, and we live in vain ; with it) our other
endowmeats become alive, and ready to impress
themselves upon the external world. Indolence
is a rust, corroding and dulling all our facul-
ties ; earnestness, a vitalizing^ force, quickening
aiid brightening them. By earpestness, alone,
can we climb upward in that prc^ess which, be
gun in time, pauses not at the grave, but passing
through the' portal of death, goes eternally on in
the same direction which we chose for ourselves
here, ever approaching more nearly to the Divine
perfection, whose lifd is the unresting activity '
of infinite love. By indolence, we sink ever
lower and lower, and through a continuous pro-
cess of deterioration, grow each day more unfit
for the heavenly life, which all but the aban-
doned, and perhaps even they, fangy they desire,
even when- refusing to use any of th6-mekns
whereby it may be gained.
In the circle of man's evil propensities, no one,
perhaps, is a more fruitful mother of wretched-
ness and crime than the propensity to indolence.
It is a common saying, that the love of money is
the root of all evil ; but ihat TOot often runs deep-
er, and finds its life in indolence, which incite^
those under its dominion to seek money through
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unlawfnl means. The desire for money impels
most men to constant effort, and there is no rea-
son^for attributing a stronger desire to him who
steals or defrauds than to him who labors stead-
falstly, every day of his life, from early dawn to
eve; yet we praise the latter, and condemn the
former. It is not, then, the love of money that
we condemn, but the desire to attain it by vicious
means; and such desire results from a hatred
for labor, which is the only legitimate means by
which it may be gained. Money in itself is but
dead matter, serving only as a minister to some
end beyond; and the simple desire for it is
neither good nor bad : the end for which it is
desired elevates the desire itself to a virtue, or
d^^ades it to a vice; and the means which we
adopt for obtaining it, and the purposes ta which
we apply it, make it either a blessing or a curse.
Every possession, whether mc»ral, intellectual,
or physical, is the legitimate reward of labor
wisely and earnestly applied ; and for these re-
wards the virtuous are content io labor without
repining, and to them, not only the rewards, but
the labor itself is blessed. The vicious, on the
contrary, desire the rewards, but hate the labor
by which they should be gained. They, there-
fore, accordingly as they belong to different
classes of society, simulate virtues which they do
not possess, pretend to acquirements they have
been too idle to gain, or strive after wealth, by
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any means, rather than patient industry and hon-
est eflFort.
It is not the vicious alone who fail to perceive
that labor is a blessing from which a wise man
can never fly. The curse applied to Adam, " In
the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread," has
led many to suppose that originally the wants
of the human race were supplied without any
exertion of its own, — -that in the garden of Eden
there was enjoyment without effort, possession
without labor. Even in the pulpit, labor is sdme-
times spojLen of as a curse pertaining only to
life in this world, from which we shall be deliv-
ered in the life, to come. Nothing can be farther
from the truth. Employment is the life^ of every
soul, from the Most High down to the least of
his children. They only who are spiritually
dead, or sleeping, ask for idleness. It is man
fallen who looks on labor as a curse, not man
walking with God in the garden of Eden; and
to man, when he has fallen, labor is indeed a
curse, for his soul is so perverted that he knows
not the true nature and qualities of a blessing.
Man, resting in thought or feeling, is at best
a useless abstraction ; he becomes truly a man
only when his thoughts and feelings come forth
into life, and impress themselves on outward
tilings. If he fail to do this, the rust of idleness
eats into all his powers, till he becomes a useless
cumberer of the ground; the world loses, and
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heaven gaind nothing when this mortal puts on
immortality. Such a being is dead while he
lives, — a moral paralytic. His capacities are as
seed cast upon a rock where there is no earth.
God works incessantly. His eye knows no
closing, his hand no weariness. The universe
was not only built by his power, but is sustained
evei^ moment by his inflowing life. If he "were
to turn from it for a single instant, all things
would return to chaos. Man, created in the
image and likeness of God, resembles him most
nearly when the life influent from God which fills
his soul flows forth fredy as it is given, quicken-
ing with its powers all that comes within the in-
fluence of his sphere.
There is an old proverb that tells us, " Idleness
is the devil's pillow " ; and well may it be so
esteemed, for no head ever rested long upon it,
but the lips of the evil spirit were at its ear,
breathing falsehood and temptation. The in-
dustrious man is seldom found guilty of a crime ;
for he has no tinie to listen to the enticings of
the wicked one, and he is content with the en-
joyments honest efibrt affords. It is the vicious
idler, vexed to see the fortunes of his industrious
neighbor growing whil^ he is lounging and mur-
muring, who robs and murders that he may get
unlawful gain. It is the merry^ thoughtless idler
who, to relieve the nothingness of his days, seeks
the excitement of the wine-cup and the gaming-
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table. It ia the sensual idler, whose licentious
ear is. open to the voice of the tempter as often
as his track crosses the pathway of youth and
innocence.
Not only by reason of the external, palpable
rewards which labor brings is it to be considered
a blessing;^ but every hour of patient labor,*
whether with the hands, or, in study, or thought,
brings ivith it its own priceless reward, in its di-
rect effects upon the 'Character. By it the facul-
ties are developed, the powers strengthened, and
the whole being brought into tt state of order ;
provided we do all things for the glory of God.
" But," exclaims the impatient heart, wearied
with the cares pf daily life, " how can all this
labor for the preservation and comfort of the
merely mortal body, this study of things which
belong merely to the_ material world, subserve in
any way the glory of God ? " It is by these very
toils, worthless and transitory as they may seem,
that the Character is built up for eternity; and so
to build up Character is the whole end for which
the things of time were created. No matter how
small the duty intrusted to our performance, by
performing it to the best of our abilities we are
fitting ourselves to be rulers over many things, —
to hear the blessed proclamation, " Well done,
good and faithful servant; enter thou into the
joy of thy Lord."
We are prone^ at times, to feel as though we
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were aot placed in the right niche ; and that, if we
were differently situated, and occupied with em-
ployments more worthy our capacities, we should
work with pleasure and assiduity ; but our pres-
ent duties are so much beneath us, it seems de-
grading to spend our time and thoughts upon
them. Here is a radical error of judgment, for it
is not a high or low duty that degrades or ele-
vates man, but the performing any duty well or
ill. It is as true as it is trite, that the honor or
&bame lies in the mode of perfolrmance, not in the
quality of the duty. We all, perhaps, know and
say, and yet need to be reminded, that a bad
president stands lower in the scale of being than
d good town officer ;^ a wicked statesman, let
him occupy w^hat social position he may, fills a
lower place than a cpnscientious slave who faith-
fully fulfils the duties of his station.
The first Church, represented by Adam, fell be-
cause it ceased to look to the Lord as the source
> of all life and light, and looked only to itself for
all things. It thus lost all conception of the
legitimate aim of life. Seeking only the enjoy-
ment of the present jnoment^ labor seemed a dire
calamity ; for the eternal end of labor, that is,
the development of the powers of the soul, so as
best to fit it for the performance of heavenly
uses, passed out of the knowledge of man, and
he learned to look forward to heaven as a place
of idle enjoyment; toiling sorrowfully through
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this world, in the sweat of his face, for bread that,
when attained, gave him no true life. To eat
bread in the sweat of the face signifies by cor-
respondences, to receive and appropriate as good
only that which self may call self-produced and
self-owned ; and to turn away witl;i aversion from
that which is heavenly. This is precisely what
we all do when we shrink from, or despise, any
labor which duty demands at our hands. The
Lord places us in that posdtion in life which is
best adapted to overcome the evil dispositions of
our nature, and to cultivate our souls for heaven.
Perhaps we haye capacities that would enable
us to perform duties that would be considered
by the world of a higher character ; but perhaps,
on the other hand, we have vices that the Lord is
striving to overcome by placing us in this very
position which so frets and disgusts us. If we
will but remember that the mercy and love of
th6 Lord strive to bless us by fitting us for
heaven, and not by making us eminent in the
eyes of men, we shall probably find it much
easier to comprehend why we are placed a^ we
are in this world. When we torment ourselves
by thinking of the inappropriateness of our posi-
tion in thisi world, we are always viewing our
position with regard to this woirld only, and
therefore-^ all things are dark to us. When we
look humbly to the Lord, and seek to find out
liie eternal ends of his providence in the circum-
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stances of otir lives, gradually the scales pass
from our eyes, and at last we go in peace, seeing.
Beside the education of our powers and facul-
ties, employment is a blessing in helping us to
bear the severest trials of this life. When be-
reavement or disappointment overwhelms the
soul with anguish, so that this worid seems only
the dark habitation of despair ; when we cannot
see the bow of promise in the black cloud that
darkens otir horizon ; when We feel that we are
without God in the world, — and there are few if
any human beings who have, not found them-
selves at some time in such a state, — then, as
we hope by the grace of God ever to escape from
this despair, we should fly idleness as we would
fly the dagger or the poisoned cup ; and though
grief be tugging at the heart-strings, though our
eyes are blinded with tears, we should set our-
selves diligently about doing something that may
help to .make others happy, and let no duty go
unperformed; and it will not be long ere the
dimmed eyes shall begin to see the glow of the
sunshine above, and the earth radiant with beau-
ty b^ow; while, so far from being deserted of
God, we shall feel that sorrow has brought us
more distinctly than ever before into his pres-
ence.
*^ The path offsorrow, and that path alone,
^ Leads to thi land T(4iere sorrow is unknown.**
What are the employments of heaven we
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cannot know with any particularity. Sweden-
borg tells us that the angels are constantly per-
forming uses ; but what these uses are we are
ndt distinctly told. We know that they corre-
spond in some way to the employments of earth ;
but really to understand them probably tran-
scends our capacities while we remain in the
flesh. -The conscientious performance of the
material and finite uses of this life is the only
means by which we can prepare ourselves for the
spiritual and et»nal uses pertaining to the heav-
enly kingdom; uses which probably serve to
comfort; nourish, and strengthen the soul in eter-
nity, as on earth the corresponding uses serve the
wants of the body.
In the spiritual World the spiritual body is fed,
clothed, and sheltered ih much the same way,
to appearance, as is^ the material body in the
natural world; but all the surroundings of the
spirit correspond to the state 6f each individual
being, and are the direct gift of the Lord. All
the arts and trades of this life do not exist
in the other, but as these arts and trades, as
well as everything else in ttiis world, exist only
through their correspondence with somethi4g in
the other world, it follows that all the occupa-
tions of this life have not sunilar, but correspond-
ing, occupations in the other. The end of life in
this world is to fit the soul for entering upon the
heavenly life, and the end of life in heaven is
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perpetual advancement in spiritual graces and
perfections; for no angel, even in the highest
heavens, has reached a degree of perfection so *
high that he can go no further. The end of .
heavenly life thus being infinite, the effort and
employment of that life must be ceaseless. In
speaking of ceaseless effort, it must not be under-
stood that this resembles at all the wearying
labor of a slave, or that there is anything oppres-
sive or forced about its performance; for this
could only be anticipjated with dread. Heavenly
employment must be full of life and joy, bearing
us upward like the wings of a skylark, a3 he
/bathes in the sunlight of the upper ether, and
carols forth his joy. There will undoubtedly be
a variety, too, in heavenly employment, corre-
sponding with pur varying ^states, and making
tedium impossible. This may be illustrated by
imagining what would be a perfect mode' of
spending a day in this world. We wake in the
morning refreshed by repose, and as -we look
forth at the sun our spirits rejoice in the beauty
of the wakening day, and rise toward the heav-
enly throne in prayer and praise. We set about
the performance of our daily duties, and Chris-
tian charity toward those for whose happiness
or benefit, whether physical or intellectual, we
exert our powers, makes us faithful in whatever
we do, that it may be done to the best of our
ability; and our effort is lightened by the con-
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sciousness of duty done from pure and uptight
motives. If we go forth for refreshment, com-
• muniorl with nature and the God of nature fills
our souls with peace, while the fresh air gives
new life to the frame. When the duties of the
day are over, and the family circle collects around
the evening lamp, reaCding or conversation awakes
the powers of the heart and the intellect, and
draws more closely the bonds of the domestic
affections. We retire for the night, and ere com-
posing ourselves to sleep, we collect our thoughts,
reflect upon the events, of the ^day, examining
what we have done well or ill, and prepsire by
wiser resolutions for future effort. We slumber,
and the repose of all our powers renews our
strength for the coming morrow. Through the
whok of this twenty-four hours, employment has
been constant. There has been labor of the
hands, l^bor of the head, conversation, thought,
prayer, sleep. Every part of tUe being has been
called into exercise ; there has been no weariness
from labor, and no idleness ; but every moment
of this whole day has added its quota towards
promoting the growth of the whole being ; and
this is a heavenly day. The more perfectly we
can make the occupations of our days thus com-
bine for the growth of our being, the better we
are preparing ourselves for the days of heaven.
As the progress of the heavenly life will be in-
finite the wwits of our spiritual natures must
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likewise be infinite. The heavenly life must be
a life of charity, — ■ a life in which every soul will
strive to aid every other to the utmost ; and the
charities of heaven must strengthen and comfort
the soul in a manner corresponding. to the aid
material charities effect in this worid. Let it
constantly be borne in mind, that charities are
duties well . performed, of whatever kind they
may be, — as well the faithful fulfilment of an
avocation as the aiding of a suffering fellow-
being. Charity is but another name for duty, or
rather duty becomes charity when we perform it
from genuine love to the Lord and to ihe neigh-
boi: ; and whoever leads a life of charity in this
world is fitting himself to perform the higher
charities that will be required of him in heaven*
The true end and highest reward of labor is
spiritual growth ; and such growth brings with it
the most exalted happiness we are capable at
attaining. This happiness is the kingdom of
heaven within us ; and it is the certain and un-
failing reward, or rather consequence, of a life of
true charity. It is not difficulty by intellectual
thought, to perceive the truth of this doctrine;
but this is not enough.. We must elevate our
hearts into a wisdom that\shall make us not only
perceive, but feel and love this truth. Until we
can do this, we do not truly believe, though we
may think we do. If we fret and murmur ; if wa
are impartent and unfaithful ; if, when we plainly
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see that our duty lies in one path, we yet long to
follow another ; if we know that we canhot leave
our present position without dereUctioh from
right, and yet hate or despise the place in which
we are ; if we repine because God does hot give
lis the earthly rewards we fancy we deserve, .
though we well know he promises only heavenly
ones ; if we do habitually any or €dl of these
things, we may know that our faith is of the lip,
and not of the heart,— that the life of charity is
not yet begun within us. Such repinings, such
cravings as these do not belong nor lead to the
heavenly kingdom.
He wha thinks wisely can never live a life of
idleness^ and where there is excessive indolence
of the body ihete is never healthy action of the
mind. A life of use is a life of holiness ; and a
life of idleness is a. life of sin. He who performs
no social use, who makes no human b^ing hap-
pier or better, is leading a life of utter selfishness ;
is walking in a way that ends in spiritual death.
In the parable of the sheep and the goats, the
King condemns those on the left hand, not be-
cause they have done that which was wrong,
but beciause they have omitted doing tiiat which
was right.
No human being in possession of his mental
faculties is so incompetent that he can do noth-
ing for the benefit of those around him. One
prostrate on a bed of sickness might seem, at -
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first glance, incapable of performing any use ;
and yet, not unfrequently, what high and holy
lessons of patient faith^ of unwav^ing piety, are
taught by 5uch a being, — lessons that can never
die out from the memory of those who minister
at the couch of suffering. When the body lied
powerless, and the hand has lost its cunning,
when even the tongue is palsied in death, how
often has the eye, still faithful to the heavenly
Master, by a glance of holy peace performed the
last act of charity to the bereaved ones whom it
looks upon with the eye of flesh for the last time.
So long as life remains to us our duties are un-
finished: God yet desires our service on earth,
and while he desires let us not doubt our capa-
city to serve. Even for one in the solitude of a
prison-cell, when acts of charity become impos-
sible, the duty of labor is not taken away. One-
may still work for the Father in Heaven, thou^
sitting in darkness, ,and with manacled limbs.
To possess the ^oulin patience, to be meek, for-
giving, and pious, are duties amply sufl^ient to"
tax the powers of the strongest. There is no
room for idleness even here.
To work is not only a duty, but e necessity of
our nature, and when we^ fancy ourselves idle,
we are in fact working for one whose wages is
death. The question is never, Shall we work?
but. For whcHu shall we work ? "Whom shall we
choose for our master ? and our happiness here
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•
and hereafter must depend on the answer We
give to this question. We may not deliberately
put and deliberately reply to this question in
stated words ; but our whole lives answer it in
one long-continued period. Those who labor
steadfastly, with no end in view but the acquisi-
tion of worldly, perishable advantages, answer it
fearfully; but theirs is not a more desperate re-
ply than comes from the idler and the slothful.
Wherever there is activity and force there is
hope ; for though now flowing in a wrong direc-
tion, the stream may yet be diverted into chan-
nels that shall lead to eternal life. Where there is
no activity, where alLthe faculties of the soul are
sunk in the lethargy of indifference, as well may
one hope to find living fountains gushing forth
into fertilising streams amid the sands of the
African desert. The man of science tells us that
living springs exist beneath these sands, andihat
artesian wells might bring them to the surface ;
anil so in the inmost nature of man, however
degraded he may be, Swedenborg tells us there
is a shrine that cannot be defiled, through which
heavenly influences may come down into his life,
and yet save him, if he will receive them ere he
passes from this world ; but when sloth has be-
come habitual and confirmed, there is almost as
little room for hope that this wiU ever take place
as that artesian tubes will ever make the Saha-
ran desert a region of fertility.
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The kingdom of evil is readily attained. We
have but to follow the allurements of the pas-
sions, and we shall surely find it ; we have but to
fold our hands, and it will come to us. -With the
kingdom of eternal life it 4s tiot so. That, is a
prize not easily won. Faithful, untiring effort,
looking ever toward eternal ends ; a constant
scrutiny of motives, that they ifiay be pure and
true ; an earnest, heartfelt, <ieterinined devotion
to the heavenly Master, to whose . seirvice^ we
have bound ourselves by deliberate choice, can
alone make sure for us what we seek. For a
long time this may require labor almost painful,
but if We persevere, our affections will gradually
become^ at one with our faith, the heavenly life
will became fiabitual, so as to be alniost instinc-
tive; ^nd when the celestial kingdom is thus
established within us, no place will be left for
weariness, or doubt, or paiii, or fear.
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«He who sedulously attends, pointedly asks, calmly speaks, coolly answers,
and ceases when be has no more to say, is in possession pf some of the best
requisites of man." — Latatxk.
' ** The <»mmon fluency of speech, in many-men. an4 m^t women, is owing
to a scarcity of matter and a scarcity of words ; for whoeyer is master of a Ian •
goage, and has a mind full of ideas, will be apt, In speaking, to hesitate upon
the choice of both ; whereas, commoni^eakers haTe ^y One set of ideas, and
one set of words to dotbe them in ; and these ^re always ready at the mouth ;
80 people can come fiuiter out of a diurch when it is almost empty, than whien
a crowd is at the do(t»." — Swut.
Op all the physical powers possessed by man,
there is none so noble as that of speech ; none
that distinguishes him so entirely from the brute ;
yet how few. there are who seem in any adequate
degree to comt)rehend its power and value, or
^y^ho ev^r pause to reflect upon the sacrilegious
abuse to which it is often degraded.
Language is Thought and Affection in form,
as worka are Thought and Affection ill life. By
language we receive the word of Divine Revela-
tion, and by language we approach the Divioe Au-
thor of all things in prayer. By language w^ are
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made happy in social life, through interchange of
thought and feeling with our fellow-beings. By-
language, man is mad^ lord of the terrestrial
workL By language, the wisdom of past ages
becomes an inheritance for the whole earthy in-
stead of perishing with each possessor ; and thus
man advances from age to age, through the ex-
perience of the past, instead of being obliged to
work out all the wisdom he gains by his own in-
dividual effort.
This is the bright and beautiful side of lan-
guage; but on the other hand is a dark and hide-
ous side, when language becomes the foul and
poisonous medium through which the folly, the
vice, and all the moral deformities of humanity,
are spread abroad through the world, and handed,
down through the ages. The same medium that
serves as a vehicle for heavenly truth is the tool
of the scoffing -infidel; it is formed into prayer
by the saint, and into blasphemy by the sinner.
Alternately, it serves the purest and holiest uses,
or the vilest and most atrocious abuses; now
formed to the sweet breathings of heavenly char-
ity, and anon to the harsh utterances of malig-
nant hate.
These distinctions are wide and clear, and
easily perceived by the most obtuse or indifferent
observer; but these distinctly marked varieties
pass into milder shades as they arp exhibited in
common Conversation, and then a nicer observa-
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tion is needful to detect the v^eties of hue that
color language ivhen used in the every-day forms
of society.
The habitual use we make of language is the
result of our own characters, and it reacts upon
them. It likewise acts upon those who are about
us with an unceasing power, repelling or attract-
ing all whom we approach. Every human being
exerts a perpetual influence on every other hu-
man being, with an activity as universal as that
of gravity in the materia world ; and language
is one <)f the most efficient means of this influ-
ence. Viewed in the light of these truths, com-
mon Conversation becomes an object of serious
^consideration ; and the mdde of sustaining it
worthy of the deepest. thought and of the most
careful watchfulness.
Between the malignity of at fiend and the
charity of ian angel there is a long interval of in-
clined plane, and those who^ walk tiere may
seem a company so mixed that they cannot be
separated into two^ distinct bands ; but every in-
dividual of the throng is looking toward one or
the other extremity, and either ascending or de-
scending in his course. Conversation is the out-
birth of our thoughts and affections, and it shows
their quality in the most direct manner possible.
Actions are said to speak louder than words, and
to the appreciation of our fellow»beings our lives
are much truer and fuller expositions of our in-
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temal natures than our Conversation ; but before
God, always, and before our own consciences if
we really look at ourselves, the insincere words
that deceive our fellow-beings stand unmasked,
— the deformed exponents of the falsehood of
the soul. We can therefore understand the char-
acter of our neighbor better by his actions than
.by his words ; but to understand our neighbor is
of little importance compared .with understand'^
ing ourselves; and is chiefly useful because a
comparison: of individusds aids us in comprehend-
ing our own natures. We can understand our-
selves by our own w'ords if we will take the
trouble to consider them dispassionately, and an-
alyze the thoughts and affections whence they
spring. ^ . '
So little honesty is believed to etist in ordi-
nary Conveisation, that the saying of a witty
courtier^ that "language is tjie instrument where-
by man conceals his thoughts," has cdmc^st parsed
into a proverb. The question, in which direction
is the man walking who wraps duplidty about
himself as his constant garment, needs no an-
swer; for all must know that the Divine Being,
whose forin is truth, hateth a lie.
The first element in Conversation should be
sincerity. Not the blunt and harsh sincerity
sometimes met with, which is made the. cloak of
self-esteem and bitterness ; ibr that is an evil of
tiie same nature as the malice aud hatred that
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show themselves in active, outward injury to-
-wards the neighbor. When excited by pride or
anger, the tongue needs a bridle no less than the
hand ; and when the heart can utter itself truly
only in the forms of such passions, silence is its
only safeguard. In speaking of the follies or
vices of others, sincerity should: be tempered by
a Christian charity. Which, while it does not gloss
over vice, does not dwell upon it needlessly, nor
take a maliciouspleasureiii spreading it abroad,
nor indulge self-complacency by dilating upon it,
to give the idea that one is superior to such
things.
If such motives are allowed to have sway, a
person soon -becomes confirmed in the iiabit of
gossiping, — a habit that degrades alike the in-
tellect and the heart. The soul of gdssip is a
contemptible vanity that imagines itself, or at
least would have others imagine. it, superior to
aH that it finds of evil and absurdity in the char-
acters of those whom it passes in review. A
very little observation wiU serve to show any one
that everybody sees his neighbors' faults, while
very few 6pen their eyes upon their own; and
that not unfirequentiy a person condemns with
the utmost vehemence in others precisely the
same follies andvices in wWeh he himself habitu-
ally indulges. Those who study their own char-
a(^rs witii most care, and who best -understand
themsdives, are apt to say least of the characters
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of their neighbors ; they find too much to 4o
within themselves, in -curing their own defects, to
have time or inclination to sit in judgment upon
the defects of others. ^ v
It is impossible to indulge habitually in this
vice without weakening the powers of the intel-
lect The heart never suffers alone from the in-
dulgence of any wrong passion. The intdlect
and the affections ever sink as well as rise to-
gether. Where the love of gossip becomes.a con-
firmed habit, the mind loses its power of accu-
rately appreciating the value of Character,^- of
distinguishing truly. between the good and the bad.
The power of discrimination is weakened and
impaired, so that no confidence can be placed in
the opinions of the mind in relation to Charac-
ter or Life. In addition to this^'we must bear in
mind that all the mental power we bestow in crit-
icizing and ridiculing our fellow-beings is just so
much taken f^om otir mental strength, which we
might have applied to some useful intellectual
exercise. The strength of. the mind is no more
indefinite than that of the body. We have but a
certain limited amount; and all that we apply to
idle or bad purposes is just so much abstracted
from the good and the useful.
Sarcasm is a weapon we are almost sure to
find constantly used by the gossip ; and whether
it be shown in the coarse ridicule of the vulgar,
or the keen satire of the refined, it springs evet
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fr:>m the same souroe, and is directed to the same
end; as surely as, the dumsy war-club of savage
lands was invented from the same impulse and
wrought with tiie same intent; as the graceful
blade of Damascus. Its source is vanity, its end
to make self' seem great by making others seem
little« It is a weapon that, however skilfully
wielded, always cuts both ways, wounding far
more deeply the hand tiiat grasps* it than the vic-
tim it strikes. Of allthe powers of wit, sarcasm
is the lowest. There is nothing easier than ridi-
cule; nothing requiring a weaker head, or^a
colder heart * v.
The sincere lover of truth will never be found
habitually indulging either in gossip or sarcasm ;
for those who are addicted to these vices never
tell a stoiy simply- as they heard it, never re-
late a fact simply as it happened. A little is
added here or. left out there to give the story a
more ^itertaining turn or the ^satire a keener
poitit As the habit grows stronger, inv^itiou
becomes more ready and copious, till at length
truth is covered up- and lost under<an accumu^
lation of fiction.
There is a very common form of insincerity
used by ai class of well-meaning but injudicious
persons, who, rather than wound the feelings of
their friends, conceal the truth from them, some-
times by prevaripation and sometimes by posi-
tive fiedsehood ; doing wrong, that, as they im-
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agiae, good may come of it; as tiiough an evU
tree could by any possibility bear good fruit.
Another class of pei'sons converse as though
the chief sin of Conyersation were the wounding
the self-love of those to whom they speak, by
expressing any diflference of opinion' from them.
Thus they are continually temporizing, and often
contradicting themselves, and exhibiting a cow-
ardly meanness* of spirit, which is one of the most
contemptible of all the varied forms of duplicity^
There is a common form of embarrassment re-
sulting in a hesitation of speech, which often
springs- from a want of genuine sincerityi The
fepeaker is fancying what others will think of his
remarks, instead of fixing his mind entirely on
the subjeibt of discourse. In this divided state,
his mind loses half its power, and he utters him-
self in a manner satisfactory neither * to himself
nor to his hearer^. No doubt hesitation jn spfeeeh
sometimes arises from want of verbal skill; but
probably a very Isirge proportion of persons suf-
fering from this difficulty would soon cure them-
selves if they would steadfastly speak what they
believe to be truth, just as it rises in their minds,
and without stopping to think what will be
thought of their Opinions or words by those who
listen to them. . .
Next after truth, reverence is perhaps most
important if we w;ould- order our Conversation
aright Many indulge in a frivolous mode of
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speech in regard to the most sacred subjects ^
which, though it may spring fron> nothing worse
than thoughtlessness, cannot fail to exert a bane-
ful influence on the Character, and diminish, per-
haps destroy the little respect for things holy
still cleaving to the heart. This.same irreverence
shows itself in another form, in speaking of the
cledamities suffered by others, turning that into a
jest which is to those under^discussion cause of
the most bitter anguish ; and though th^ speak-
ers probably would not for any consideration
have their words come to the ears of those
spoken of, (they still do not hesitate to make food
for mirth out of death or sin, poverty or misfor-
tune, in a way little short of inhuman. The in-
dulgence of this habit falls back upon the soul of
the perpetrator, wounding deeply, if it does not
kill, all the finer sensibilities ,of the nature.; dry-
ing up the fountains of sympathy, and making
the heart hard and callous.
Akin to reverence, and probably springing
from it, is purity ; which shows itself by a careful
avoidance of everything profane, obscene, coarse,
or in any way offending ddicacy, either in word,
tone, or suggestion. This purity (jannot be too
much insisted upon ; for its opposite poisons tiie
fountains of the heart, defiling the temple which
should be a dwelling-place for the Holy Spirit.
Delicacy and refinement are toa often looked
upon merely as the elegant ornaments of ppl-
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ished life. They ehould, on the contrary, be
esteemed essentials in the Christian Character*
Everything leaning tow8urd« profanity, obscenity,
or indelicacy is^ utterly incompatible with Chris-
tian purity of heart. . Low attempts at wit, that
hinge oa. vulgarity, are a common form of this
vice; and those who indulge their propensities
in this direction ar^ laying the foundatjion for
general grossness of Character, such as they
would now,' perhaps, shrink from with. horror j
but towards which they are -none the less
surely tending. • "^ ^
We are told, that "for every idle word we
speak we shall give an account at the day of
judgment; for by our words we^haU be justi-
fied, and by our words we shall be condemned."
This ha» jseemed to many a very hard saying,
and while some* persons try to explain it away,
others turn from it as too hard either to explain
or to receive. When, however, we reflect on
what words really are, we perceive that this
heavy accountability clings to them of necessity,
as effect to cause. Man was created the image
and likeness of God, and when we find points
hard of comprehension in the tjharacter- or rela-
tions of man, we may often gain much light by
taking a corresponding view, so far as our finite
powers permit, of the Divine Being.
The Scriptures are the ^ivine Word ; that is,
tto verbal exponent of the Divine Mind; while
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the world around us is the material exponent of
the same Mind; Speech and life in humanity
correspond to these two modes of expression of
the Divinity. When imperfectly -understood,
they almost of necessity seem to contradict each
other ; but it is only then. The unity of the
WcMrd and Works of God is becoming con-
stantly more apparent ^s man advances in the
knowlec^e of both. Each helps to explain the
other, and it is only by a knowledge of both
that the character and attributes of Ck)d can be
justly comprehended. A little consideration will
show thdt the speech and life of man in like
manner combine to exhibit the character and
qualities of the soul within, — that they harmof
nize with each other, and that therefore of neces*
sity by our words no less than by our works We
must be justified oi* condemned before the All-
seeing One.
Many suppose, that because we, in our short-
sighted views, are so often misled by the words
of our fellow-beings, they are not true pictures of
Character. We should, however, remember that
it is not before short-sighted man that we are to
be judged by our words, but before the onmki-
cient Grod. To his ear our words have a very
different significance jfrom that which they bear
to our fellow-beings. We should recollect, that
the falsehood which may make it impossible for
us to "judge righteous judgment of our fellow-
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beings stands before the Lord only a43 a false-
hood ; and that, in whatever form it comes, from
the courteous white lie — as man. dares to call
it — of polished society, to the double-dyed
blackness of malignant hypocrisy, God sees only
the varying shades of dissimulation ; springing,
in whatever form, from a deep-running under-
current of selfishness and wprldliness. We may
be deceived into believing words are genuine
when they are not so ; but every disingen^ous
word uttered is, before God, the image and like-
ness of the duplicity that reigns within. To us
they may seem the beautiful garments that en-
velop purity .and truth ; but to him they are the
foul and flimsy veils that strive to conceal thtf
soul's deformity.
Man, in the pride of his artifice, often exults
because he has outwitted his neighbor by his
lying words, while all the time he has far more
outwitted himsejf. He has degraded his own
soul, — set upon it a foul mark that can be
washed out only by the bitter tears of penitence,
and yet hplds his head aloft in fancied superior-
ity over his fellows, while before God and the
angels he stands like Cain, with the mark of sin
impressed upon his^ forehead.
That man should be condenmed for lying
words all will admit, but when men converse
idly, or without any particular thought one way
or the other as to what they are saying, they are
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apt to suppose that no especial moral character
belongs to the words they utter. Such, however,
is far from the feruth. Man is never so sincere as
in his idle moments. His words are then the
simple outpourings of his affections. K has been
often said, that one can, always measure the re-
finement of any person by watching his language
and deportment in his moments of sportiveness.
It is quite as easy to judge of other traits of
Character when the mind is thrown off its guard
at such moments. Idle words, mofe apparently
than any other, are genuine manifestations of
Character. It is in* them that the heart, out
of its abundance, speaketh. The Conversation
of a ti^e Christian is characterized in his hours
of gayety, no lesa than at other times, by truth
tempered with love, made clear and steadfast by,
simplicity jL and clothed with reverence and purity.
The trait of Conversatiou we would next con-
sider is courtesy, — Christian courtesy. This is
nothing more nor less than carrying out the law
of charity; the doing as we would be done by.
It is ta recognize the ,fipx5t that others have -a right
to talk as well as ourselves ; and also a right to
expect us to listen to what they say as attentive-
ly and respectfully as we would wish them to
listen to uia. We should not merely hold our
fcongues when others speak, but should scrupu-
lously attend to what they say. A person who
affects politeness^ although he remams silent
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while another speaks, yet does so with an air
that plainly shows he is paying no attention to
what is said, and is waiting with impatience for
the moment when he can hear himself talk.
This sort of > listening is a mere pretence put on
by the cbnceited and overbearing when they
wish to pass for persons of polite manners ; but
in reality it is an insult rather than a courtesy to
listen in this way. To listen with true courtesy,
one should feel and show? not only a willingness,
but a desire to know what another has to say,
should 'foUow attentively all that he ss^ys, and
should then reply wiib due consideration for
what has been said. . . n
It is a remark x)ften made, that after an argu-
ment l^etw^en two or more persons, each indi-
vidual is more strongly fixed in his previous
opinion than he was before. This result is often
consequent upon.the want of true courtesy. The
j>arties to an argument^ absorbed in admiration
of th^ir own. opinions, seek not to become wiser
through discourse, which should be the end
sought in all Conversation of an argumentative
or discussive character, but seek only to draw at-
tention to their own views and opinions ; until
that which should be Conversation degenerates
into a mere war of words, in which each party
strives to talk down, rather than to convince, the
other; In such wordy warfare charity has , no
part; l)ut pride and combativeness hold entire
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domiiiion over the soul. He who comefe'off con-
queror may exiilt in his own power ; but he has
overcome, not beciause reason was on: his side,
but because his combativeness was stronger than
that of his opponent; and /he exults in that
which is in reality his shame. The ttioral and
the intellectual natures suffer together in such
coi^tests. The miiid fastens itself upon the prej-
udices and opinions it has chanced to adopt,
loving theih merely because they are its own,
and seeks no longer i;o advance in the acquisi-
tion of truth; while th^ heairt, inflated with ego-
tisrii, has no abiding-place for charity. Let char-
ity rule in a disqussion, and how different is the
result. Eacji party then strives to aid thie other
in discovering the truth, "and at the close .of the ,
Conversation each has maide some advance in
the knowledge of truth. The ideas of both have
become mt^re clear and rational, and their minds
have acted with far more power, because they
have been given exclusively to the object under
consideration instead of being divided between
the object and self-love. Iti the one ckse, the
parties are like two horses harnessed together
contrariwise, and each striving to go forward by
pulling the other back; while in the other, they
travel amicably and fleetly, side by side, toward
the fountain of truth. . •
Next after courtesy comes simplicity, which
may be defined as forgetfulness of self. There is
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nothings more fatal to agreeable Conversation
than thinking perpetually of one's self. Young
persons, pn first going into society, are very apt
to fall into the error of supposing that all eyes
and ears are fixed upon them, to observe how
awkwardly or how grapefully they move, and
how well or how iU they converse. This. is Ihe
result of a mental egotism combined with love
of admiration, and usually produces awkward
diffidence or absurd affectation. Too often the
first weakness is overcome^ or covered up, most
unwisely, by exchanging bashfulness for imperti-
nent boldness.; whUe the vanity and self-con-
sciousness of the second very rarely result in
manners or Conversation either sensible or agree-
able. To overcome these defects, wisely, re-
quires a strong effort. They should be radically
subdued by learning to ask one's self, " Am I
doing what is right and proper?" instead of,
" What will people think of me ? " It is no easy
task to learn to- do. this habitually, because there
is involved in it a radical change of Character. It
is to learn to be, instead of to seem. In the first
state, we ^ure absorbed by the idea of what we
seem to others ; while, in the second state, we are
occupied witji the idea of what we really are,
without regard to the opinion of anybody, but
guided strictly by the abstract law of right. In
the first state, we are embarrassed by the com-
plexity of our wishes and aims. We wish to
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please everybody, and we stjrive to ascertain
what will be agreeable to the various tastes of
those with whom we converse. . Thus we have
no constant landmark, no unvarying con^pass to
guide us on our way ; and we are drawn hither
arid thither, as we try now to- please one person
and then another. Let our- wishes and aims
but become simple, and we walk steadily and
Burely in the light. In the complexity of our de-
sires we were slaves ; but in their simplicity we
become free. Complexity strives perpetually after
reputation, and is always advajDcing either in
the direction of servility or of arrogance, accord-
ing^ as self-esteem or the love of adnu^ation pre-
dominate in the mind of the individual ; and ad-
vancing years ^d it ever deteriorating in all the
best elements of Character. Simplicity, on the
contrary, deals with what is, and not with what
seetns to be, and is ever seeking growth in good-
ness and truth V and therefore each added year
finds it growing in all the graces of improving
manhood or womanhood. Complexity grows
old in mind no less than in body. Its moral
being is scarred and wrinkled by selfishness and
worldUness, and its intellect dried up and with-
ered by narrow views and unworthy aims. In
its old age there? is nothing genial or lovely, and
in its death one could almost believe that soul
as well as body perishes. Simplicity improves
in nrund as it grows old in body. There are no
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wrinkles on the brow of its snnny spirit ; there is
no withering of its intellect Its life, in time, is
a perpetual advance in all that is gracious and
intelligent, — a steady ripening for eternity, —
and its death is but a birth into a fuller and more
perfect life. ^
In Conversation, complexity adapts itsdf art-
fully to others, in order to gratify its own srffeh-
ness. It humors the selfishness and wbiins of
those to whom it speaks^ in order to gain con.-
sideration jfrom them, or to make use of them in
some way for its own advancement.
Simplicity, on the contrary, adapts itself art-
lessly to others, because it is full of charity; and'
therefore desires to make others happy. Its
words are the overflow of genial 'thought and
kindly aiFection ; and all hearts that hold aught in
common with it open and expand before its influ-
ences as plants start at the touch of spring. It is
not so much the words uttered that produce this
effect, as the pleasant and kindly way in which
they are saidj for this throws a grace and an
attractive charm about the most commonplace
objects of its Conversation.
Intellectual brilliancy in Conversation dazzles
and delights the imagination; but it does not
touch the heart. Simplicity, on the contrary,
always impresses itself upon our feelings with a
power that is aU the more strong because we
cannot analyze it by our intellect. We talk
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with a person of simplieity about the common
opcurrences of the day, and find ourselves, we
know not why, more gentle, refined, and happy
than we were before. We are refreshed as by
drinking firom a pure and und^filed fountain
of sweet waters ; refreshed ^s mere intellectual
power cannot refresh us; refreshed as no book
can refiresh . us. There is a harmonious complete-
ness in the whole being of simplicity, a direct-
ness and honesty in aU it says and does, "a
^ace beyond the reach of art," in all its mani«
festations more* potent, because more internal in
its effects, than anything 6an ever be that is born
merely of the intellect There is no affectation,
no straining for effect in simplicity. All is natural
and genuine with it. Its wit, is never forced,
its wisdom is never, stilted; nor is either ever
dragged in for m^re display. With the simple,
Conversation is ,like a brook flowing through
a beautiful country, and reflecting the varied
scenes through which it pai^es in all their grace
and beauty.
Another important trait in Conversation is the
correct use of words; ^nd the effort after this
cannot fail to. exert a benefici^ influence pn the
mental powers. In. order to speak correctly, one
must observe with accuracy and think with just-
ness; the endeavor to do this increases our love
for the truth and our capacity for perceiving it.
Much of the falsehood in the world is the result
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of carelessness in observation or phmseology.
We often hear two persons give an account of
something they have seen or heard, and are sur-
prised at the disbrepahcies between the two nar-
rations. ' Probably neither person intended to
deceive ; but both saw or heard carelessly, and so
are incompetent to describe accurately ; and prob-
ably, also, neither has cultivated the habit of
speaking correctly, as that habit is not apt to be
found united^ with carelessness of observation.
Such persons would, perhaps, look upon this sort
of carelessness as a venial offence ; but it is not
so. Anything that interferes with; or diminishes
the capacity for, pferceiving or speaking the truth
is of importance, and should neter be passed
^ver lightly. God is truth no less than love, and
every variation from the truth is a^sin against
him.
If we find we have related any fact or de-
scribed any object incdrrectly, it is not enough
that we a'pologize for the error by saying " we
thought it was so." Such an , eflror should im-
press us as a thing to bfe repented of, and we
should try to ascertain why and how it was that
we fell into it, and it should put us on Our guard,
that we may be more accurate in future.
Inaccuracy of gjyeech often arises from a desire
to teU a good story, resulting from the love of
admiration -or from an ill-trained imagination.
The speaker colors, exaggerates,, and distorts
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everything he relates, carefully conceals aJ the
facts on one side of a question, and enlarges
upon those of the opposite side with compensat-
ing fulness. It is no uncommon thing to see
this carried to such an extent that it is idle to
give credence to anything the person says ; the
more especially as such a person very rarely
stops with mere distortion of the facts of a story.
As the ^abit increases, invention supplies new
facts and details to make put all the parts de-
sired^ till the listener finds it impossible to sepa-
rate the true from the false, sgid the speaker is as
unabl,e to distinguish Jiis jown inventions from
the original facts ; for when the habit of speaks
ing the truth is neglected, the capacity for per-
ceiving it is gradually lost. .
In an intellectu^ point of view, the ccwrrect
use of words is of the utmost importance, if one
would speak well. To attain this, it is necessary
to have a distinct idea of the meaning of words,
and then to endeavor to use such words as truly
express the ideas of the mind. The use of pet
phrases and words is entirely at war with correct-
ness in this respect. With some persons, every-
thing is pretty, from' Niagara Falls to the last
new ribbon; while others find, or rather make,
everything nice, splendid, or glorious. It would
be esteemed an insult to the understanding pf
any person to suppose that the same idea or
emotion could, be aroused in his mind by the
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sight of the siiblimest work of nature as by a
trifliDg article of dress ; yet if he use the same
term to describe it in each instance, he certainly
lays himself open to suclj an imputation. Want
of thorough education is an inadequate excuse
for follies of this sort, because common sense
combined with far less knowledge than may be
acquired in a common school is more than suf-
ficient to enable every one to use his native
tongue with sufficient propriety to save him from
» being ndiculotis. ' /
There is one specious gift which is almost sure
to mislead those who are largely endowed vnth
it, and that is fluency. We listen with jJain to
one who speaks hesitatingly and with difficulty,
and who is obliged to search Jus memory for
words' that will correctly represent his thoughts;
but if, when the words come, we find they really
tell us something worth waiting for, we feel far
less weariness than in following the unhesitating
flow of words that are but ^npty sound. There
« ^ is always peculiar ease and pleasure in the exer-
cise of a natural talent, and those naturally pos-
\y sessed of fluency must of course find it hard to
restrain the tide of words that is perpetually flow-
ing up to the lips ; but if they desire to converse
i» agreeably, the effort must be made, and self-
denial must be attained. The benefit derived by
an over-fluent talker from self-restraint will be
quite commensurate with the effort^ no less than
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with the added pleasure of liie listener, /or he
will gain in the power of accurate thought every
time that he resists the inclination to utter an
unmeaning sentence.
A clear and distinct utterance is another faculty
that should ' be cultivated, for the effect of an
otherwise interesting conversation may be seri-
ously impaired, ajid perhaps destroyed, by a
slovenly or indistinct articulation. Every word
and syllable should receive its due quantity of
sound, yet without drawling or stiffness ; while
the voice should be so modulated as to be heard
without -effort, and yet the opposite fault of
speaking too loud be avoided.
Correct pronunciation is a very desirable &c-
compUshmeut, though somewhat difficult to at-
tain in its details, isiuthorities are so various; but
probably the most comprehensive rule that can
b6 observed is, as far as possible to avoid provin-
cialisms. A person's pronunciation can hardly
be elegant if it reveal at once of what Stale or
city he is a native; while freedom from local
peculiarities is of itself a promise of good pro-
nunciation, as it shows either that the indi-
vidual has taken pains to weed out such peculi-
arities, or that he has been bred among those
who have done 90. The pronunciation of the
best scholars in every part of our couniary is very
similar, while the diffidence becomes more ami
more strongly marked between the inhabitants
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of the various States of the Union as we de-
scend in the sccde of education.
Finally, do not fear to be silent when you
have nothing to say. Do not talk for the mere
sake of talking. To sit silently and abstractedly,
as if one were among, but not of, the company in
which one may chance to be, is dbcourteous ; be-
cause it impUes a fancied superiority, or an un-
kind indifference. Good manners require that in
company one should be alive to what is going
ouy but this does not imply the necessity of
always talking. There is, almost always, in a
mixed company, some Conversation to which a
third person may listen without intrusion ; but if
this should not happen to be the jcase, it is far
better to wait until something occurs that gives
one an opportunity of talking to some rational ^
purpose, than to insist that one's tongue. shall
incessantly utter articulate sounds whether the
brain give it anything to say or no. This sort
of purposeless talking exerts a positively injuri-
ous influence upon the mind, by leading it iiito
the too common error of mistaking sound for
sense, words for ideas.
Before quitting this important subject, there is
a general view to be taken of it in its universal
bearings upon Character, which places it among
the most important branches of a wise educa-
tion.
The true signification of education, according
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to one derivation of the word, is the bringing or
le^^ding Out of the faculties. The best educated
person is not he who has stored up in his mem-
ory the greatest number of facts, but he whose
faculties have become most strengthened and
perfected by what he has learned.
There are several studies pursued in our schools
and colleges, such as Greek, Latin, and Mathe-
matics, rather because they are looked upon as a
kind of gymnastics, whereby the meiitat faculties
in general are educated, or-developed and invig-
orated, than because they bring a direct practical
benefit to life; for of the numbers who exercise
their faculties upon them, while in the schools,
not one in ten makes any direct use of themafter-
wards. These studies require expensive books
and teachers, and a greater amount of time than
can be given by the majority of men and women ;
and moreover they cultivate the intellect without
doing anything for the heart. Without in any
degree questioning or undervaluing the great and
varied benefit derived to the mind from these
studies in added accuracy, strength, and richness,
there is still room for wonder that Conversation,
both as a science and an art, has no place in our
systems of education ; since its practice is a daily
necessity to all, while its powfer, when wielded
with skill, is second to none other that is brought
to bear upon the social circlck
Our young girls are nearly all of them taught
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music with great ^cpenditure of. money, lime,
and labor ; but whether we look to ,tte cultiva-
tion of ' actual talent, to the improvement of
Character, or to accomplishment as a rheans of
making ourselves agreeable in society, how profit-
ably could a part of this time and labor be em-
ployed in acquiring the power and the habit of
accurate language, agreeable modulation, dis-
tinct utterance, and courteous attention ; und it
can hardly be doubted that a person who pos-
sesses the power of conversing well finds and
gives more pleasure in society than a person
skilled to an equal degree in music.
Conversation has, indeed, this advantage over
all school studies; in order to obtain its best
requisites no books are needed beyond such as
are accessible to all, while its best teachers are
the suggestions of common sense, and the con-
scientious love of liie true and the good. Still,
there are few persons whose efforts would not be
crowned with a higher success if aided by the
criticisim and tiie guidance of a competent in-
structor. Those who are competent to self-
instruction in this, as in all other accomplish-
ments, are exceptional examples, and it may be
doubted if even these might not have reached a
higher excellence, aided by the suggestions of
another mind. Properly cultivated. Conversation
would have an influence in developing the whole
being, of a kind and degree that could hardly be
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over-estimatecl. In its exercise, Thought and
Affection have full play, while all the stores of
Memory and the wealth of Imagination find
ample field for display.
Conversation is so comprehensive in its mani-
festations and necessities, that it can reach its
perfection only through the development of the
whole being, moral as well as intellectual ; and
it will constantly become more finished in pro-
portion as this development becomes more, com*
plete. Its universality, its hourly necessity, should
impress us with its value ; for the mercy of the
Lord, as it gives light and air, sunshine and
shower, seed-time and harvest, in short, all the
essentials of physical development to the whole
human race, so it supplies to all the power and
the essential means for disciplining and cultivat-
ing the whole Character.
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*< Tbexe if somediing higher in PoUtesMS than Ghzistlaii monlistB hat<»
xteogniaed. In ita hett fonns^M a Idrnpile, out-going, all-perrading spirit, noM
hat the truly religions man can show it; for it is thesaeiificeof self in the little
habitual matters of life, ^always the best test of our principled, ^ together
with a req^t, unaffected, for man, aa our brother under the same grand des-
tiny." — 0. L. Braoji.
« Mannen axe what rex or soothd, corrupt of purify, »alt or debase, bar-
hariae or refine us, by a constant, steady, uniform, insenwiMe operation, liln
(hat of the air we breathe in." ^ Bubxs. -
Manners are the most external manifestation
by which men display their individual peculiar-
ities of mind and heart; and unless used arti-
ficially to conceal the true Character, they form
a transparent medium through which it is ex-
hibited.
It has been sarcastically asserted, that few per-
sons exist who can afford to be natural ; and it is
probable that, if the hum^n race were to allow
their manners to be perfectly natural, that is,
were they to allow all the passions of the soul to
display themselves without restraint in their Man-
ners, social intercourse would become insupport-
able.
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Among the merely worldly, the difference be-
tween an ill-bred and a well-bred person is liiat
the former displays his discomfort^ ill-hmnor, or
selfishness in his Manners, while the latter con-
ceals them all under a veil of suayity and kind-
ness. Selfishness prompts the one to be, rude,
and the other to be hypocritical, and each is alike
unworthy of commendation.
Manners are the gannents of the spirit; the ex-
ternal clothing of the being, in which Character
ultimates itself. If the Character be simple and
sincere, the Manners will be at one with it ; will
be the natural outbirth of its traits and peculiar-
ities. If it be complex and self-seeking, the Man-
ners will be artificial, affected, or insincere. Some
persons make up, put on, take off, alter, or patch
their Manners to suit times and seasons, with as*
much facility, and as little apparent conscious-
ness of duplicity, as if they were treating their
clothes in like fashion. If an individual of this
class is going to meet company with whom he
wishes to ingratiate himself, he puts on his most
polished Manners, as a matter of course, just as
he puts on his best clothes ; and when he goes
home, he puts them off again for the next impor-
tant occasion. For home use, or for associating
with those about whose opinion he is indifferent,
no matter how rude the Manners, or how un-
cared for the costume. Perhaps tiie rudeness
may chance to come out in some overt act that
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win not bear passing oyer in fdlence, and then
tike perpetrator u^rs an '< Excuse me," that re*
minds one of a bright ney( patch set upon an
old, faded garment.^ Not that such, a patch is
unworthy of respect when worn by honest pov-
erty, and set on with a neatno^ that makes it
almost ornamentaL This is like the ^ Excuse
me" of a truly well-bred man^ apologizing fqwr
an oflFence he regrets.; while the " Excuse me "
of the habitually rude man is like the botched
patch of the sloven or the beggaur, who wears it
because the laws of the land forbid nakedness.
The fine lady of this class may be polished to
the last degree, when arrayed in silks and laces
she glides over the rich carpets of the drawing-
room ; and yet, with her servants, at home, she is
"possibly less the lady than they ; or worse still,
this fine lady, married, perhaps, to a fine gentle-
man of a character simflar to her own, in the pri-
vacy of domestic life carries on a civil war with
him, in which all restmint of courtesy is set aside.
There is so much undeniable hypocrisy in the
high-bred courtesy of polished society, that arnon^
many religious persons there has come to be an
indifiS^ence, nay, almost an opposition, to Alan-
ners that savor of elegance or courtliness. If,
however, Christian charity reign within, rudeness
or indifference cannot reign ivithout. One may
as well look for a healthy physical firaine und^
a skin revolting from disease, as for a healthy
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moral frame under Manners rude and discourte-
ous ; for Manners indicate the moral temperament
quite as accurately as the physical temperament
is revealed by the complexion. Selfishness and
arrogance of disposition express themselves in
indifferent, rude, or overbearing Manners ; while
vanity and insincerity are outwardly fawning
and sycophantic. If Christian charity reign in
the heart, it can fitly express itself jonly jLn Man-
ners of refinement and courtesy; and the Chris-
tian should not be unwilling to wear such Man-
ners in all sincerity because the worldling as-
sumes them to serve his purposes of selfish-
ness. Worldly wisdom ever pays Virtue the
compliment of imitation; but that is no good
reason why Virtue should hesitate to appear like
herself. The best Mannars possible are the sim-
ple bringing down of the perfect law of charity
into the most external ultimates of social life.
Until Character tends at all times, and in all
places, and towards all-persons, to ultimate itself
in Manners of thorough courtesy, it is not build-
ing itself upon a sure founaation. The ultimates
of all things serve as their. basis and continent;
therefore must true charity of heart be built
upon and contained within true charity of Man-
ner. .
When we are in doubt regarding the value of
any particular trait of Character, we can gener-
ally find the solution of our <iifficulty by working
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out an ansi^^r to the question, How does it
affi^ct OUT usefulness in society 1 There are three
modes in which we express ourselves towards
those with whom we come in contact in the
family and social relations of lifie,— Action, Con-
versation, and Manners. The importance of or-
denng the £rst two of these expressions aright
can hardly be doubted by any thinking being.;
but that conscience has anything to do with
Manners would probably be/][uestioned by many.
Let us ascertain the moral bearing of Manners by
the test just indicated.
What effect have our Manners up<m our use-
fulness as social beings? Conversation is in
general the expression oiF our thoughts^ much
more seldom do we express our affections in
words. Manners, on the contrary, are the direct
expression of our affections. They are to Action
what tone is to Conversation. Many persons
may be found who make use of falsehood in their
Conversation, but very few who can lie in the
tones of their voice. So, many persons can act
hypocritically, but there are comparatively few.
whose Manners are habitually deceitful. Our
words and actions are more easily under our
control than our tones and manners ; because the
former are more the result of Thought, while ihe
latter are almost entirely the result of Affection.
Although few persons are distinctly aware of this
difference, everj one is powerfully affected by it.
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There is no physical quality more poi^rerful to
attract or to repel than the tones of the voice ;
and this power is all the stronger because both
parties are usually unconscious of it, and so
mutually act, and are acted upon, simply and
naturally, without effort or resistance. Thus
conversation ofl^n owes its effect less to the
words used than to the tones in which they are
uttered. An unpalatable truth may come with-
out exciting any feeling of irritation or opposi-
tion from one who speaks with a tone of voice
expressive of the benevolent affections, and pro-
duce much good; while the very same words,
uttered in a tone of asperity or bitterness, may
exasperate the hearer, and be -productive only of
harm. It has already been said, that Manners
bear the same relation to life that tone bears to
conversation ; and a good life loses great portion
of the power it might exert over those who come
within the influence of its sphere if it ultimate it-
self in ungracious or repulsive Manners. In the
old English writers we often find persons char-
acterized as Christian gentlemen or Christian
ladies ; and courtesy seems formerly to have
been clearly understood to be a Christian virtue.
Our conflict with, and our escape from, the aris-
tocracy and privileges of rank of older nations has
caused a reaction, not only against them, but
also against the external politeness which was
connected witii them, and which was. and is too
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often, though certdinly hot always, false and
hypocritical ; and thus the growth of republican
principles has had the effect to diminish the
respect once entertained for good Manners, and
the mass of our countrymen seem to look upon
politeness as the antiquated remnant of a past
age, which the present has outgrown as entirely as
wigs and hoop-petticoats. It is, however, a curi-
ous feature in the change, that at no previous
time have the titles of gentleman and lady been
so universally and pertinaciously assumed as at
the presient. The rudest even -sure jesentfal at
being' called simply men or women, while they
unconsciously show the weakness t)f their claim
to a higher title by denying it to those who they
assume are no better than themselves. The
often-repeated anecdote of the Yankee stage-
driver wh<> asked of the Duke of Saxe- Weimar,
" Are you the man that wants an extra coach ? "
and, on being answered in the aflSrmative, said,
" Then I am the genti[ema^ to drive you," is an .
illustration of what is going on continually
around us. A leurge proportion of the members
of one half of ^ society stand in perpetual fear
that those in the other half do not esteem them
gentlemen and ladies ; and yet it seldom seems to
occur to them to substantiate their claim to the
coveted title by that cultivation of good Manners
which can alone make it theirs of right.
The artificial Manners and laws of social life
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are so overloaded with oonventionalismB, and a
knowledge of these is so often made a test of
good-breeding, that much confusion of opinion
exists regarding the requisites that constitute the
true gentleman and lady. These titles belong to
something real, something not dependent on the
Jmowledge and practice of conventionalisms that
change with every changing season, but to sub-
stantial qualities of Character which are the
same yesterday, to-day, and to-morrow.
The foundation of good Manners is the sincere
acknowledgment that we are all children of one
^at family, all one band of brothers, each hav-
ing a right to receive from the rest all the consid-
eration and forbearance that can be given him
without diminishing the portion that belongs to
the others. The rich complain of the envy and
jealousy of the poor, and the poor murmur be-
cause of the arrogance and haughtiness of the
rich ; yet if those among the two classes^ who are
guilty of these vices were to change positions,
they would change vices too; for arrogance in
the possessor and envy towards the possessor of
wealth are but differing phases of a love for
wealth based on the love for that consideration
in society which it gives, and not for the power
it yields x>f added usefulness.
The ill-bred fashionist sails haughtily into the
shop where she obtains materials for her adorn-
ment, and with a supercilious air purchases her
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906 THB KEMiaiTS or CHABACTEB.
ribboni^ and laces of a snlky gud^ who reyenges
herself for'not being aWe to wear the costly gaods
by treating as rudely a& she dares the customer
who oan ; and as they look upon each other, the
one with scorn, and the other with envious hate,
we see in both only the very same littleness of
feminine vanity, which in its narrow-»minded
silliness believes that the first requisite of a lady
is costly garments.
It would be a great mistake to suppose that iu
our higher society there are no good Manners,
none that are really good in essence and purpose,
as well as in form ; and it would be an equal
mistake to suppose that in aU society of lower
caste there is either a want of iarue refinement or
an envy aiid distrust of all that is above -it ; but
it is also true that there is a magic circle known
as "genteel," and a perpetual antagonism pre-
vails here between those who are within and
those who desire admittance, but are refused ; as
there cure literary circles where contentions and
envyings arise between pedantic scholarship and
assuming ignorance.
The ill-breeding so often complained of in the
mtercourse between the different classes of soci-
ety, and by none more indignantly than those
who exercise it most, results from the factitious
value set upon the externals of life by those who
estimate them in proportion as they give distinc-
tion among men, ^md not as tiiey inca^ase the
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means of faappin^etms and nsefiilness in this world,
and so prepare us. for the nsefalness and liappi-*
ness of the world to come.
Those among the poor, the ignc»rant, and the
vnlgar, whose hearts are burning with envy and
hatred; and those among the rich, the learned,
and the fashionable, who are rendered arrogant
and supercilious by their possessions, are. alike
unconscious of the true worth of the bkssings
that excite the covetousness of the one class and
the exultation of thp other. Each party values
man for his possessions, and not for the use that
he makes of them ; for what he has, and not for
what he is. Where this is the case, mutual aver*
sion, ultimating itself on both sides in acts of
discourtesy, will ever keep alive a spirit of antag-
onism among the various classes of society ; and
this will disappear in proportion as society be-
comes suflSciently Christianized to perceive and
acknowledge that every human being is worthy
of respect so far as he fulfils the duties of bis sta-
tion; and that we cannot be discourteous even
towards the evil and the unfaithful, without in-
dulging feelings of pride and disdain that are
incompatible with Christian meekness;
In the social intercourse of equals, and in
domestic life, ill-temper, sel6[shness, and indiffer
enoe, which is a negative form of selfishness, arft
the principal sources of ill-breeding. Where the
external forms of courtesy are not observed in tiiiB
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&mi]y drole, we are almost sure to find perpet-
ually reeumng contention, and bidcering. Rude-
ness is a constant source of irritation ; because,
however little tbe members of a family regard
politeness, each will have his own way of being
rude, and each will probably be disgusted or
angry at some portion of the ill-breeding of all
the rest. Rudeness is always angular, and its
sharp corners produce discomfort whenever they
come in contact with a neighbor. Politeness pre-
sents only polished surfaces, and not only never
intrudes itself upon a neighbor, but is rarely ob-
truded upon; for there is no way so effectual
of disarming rudeness as by meeting it with
thorough politeness ; for the rude man can fight
only with hi& own weapons.
Indifference of Manner exhibits a disregard for
the comfort and pleasure of those around us,
which, though not so obtrusive as rudeness,
shows an egotism of disposition incompatible
with brotherly love. If we love our neighbor as
ourself, we cannot habitually forget his existence
so far as to annoy him by neglecting to perform
the Common courtesies of life towards him, or
interfere with what he is doing by not perceiving
that we are in his way.
If we would bf thoroughly weU-bred, we must
be so constantly. It is not very difficult to dis-
tinguish in society between those whose Manners
are assumed for the occasion and those who
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wear them habitaally;. The former are apt to
forget themselves occasionally, or they overact
tiieir part, cur, if they succeed in sustaining a per«
feet elegance of deportment that is really pleas-
ing as ah effort of art, they always want the
grace of naturalness and simplicity which be*
longs to the Manners of those who have made
courtesy and refinement their own by loving
them. ^ It is only '^en we act as we love to
act, that our Manners are truly our own. If we
cultivate the external forms of politeness from
an indirect motive, that is, for the love of appro-
bation^ or from pride of character, it'is the reward
we love, and not the virtue ; and if we gain this
reward, it is only extemad and perishable ; and is
of no benefit to our character, but the reverse, tat
it ministers only to our pride. If, on the con*
trary, we cultivate politeness witk simplicity, be-
cause we believe it to be a virtue, and love it for
its own sake, we are sure of the reward of an
added grace *^ of character, which can never be
taken from us, because it is a part of ourselves ;
and though we may enjoy the external rewards
if they come, we shall not be disturbed if they do
not ; because these wer^not the motives that in-
duced our efforts.
Politeness, wh«re it is loved and cultivated with
simplicity for its ovm sake, gives a repose and
ease of action to the moral being which may be
compared to the comfort and satisfaction resuh-
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ing to the physical frame from habits of personal
cleanliness. The 'moral tone is elevated and
refined by the one, as the animal functions are
purified and renewed by the other.
As in civil life liberty to the whole results
from the subjection of the evil passions of all to
legal enactments, so in social life every individu-
al is free and at ease in proportion as all the rest
are subject to the laws of courtesy. Ease and
freedom are the result of order, and it is as incor-
rect to call rude Manners free and easy, as to call
licentiousness liberty. No man is truly free who
allows his sphere of life to impinge upon that of
his neighbor. Fluids are said to move easily be-
cause each particle is without angular projections
that prevent it from gliding smoothly with or by
its companions ; and in like manner the ease of
society depends on the polish of each individual.
If the units of society seek their own selfish in-
dulgence, without regard to the rights of the
neighbor, the whole must form a mass of grating
atoms in which no one can be free, or at ease.
Indifference, ill-temper, selfishness, envy, and
arrogance, all positive vices, are the character-
istics that ultimate themselves in ill-manners.
Rudeness is, as it were, the offensive odor ex-
haled from the corrupt fruit of an evil tree ; and
he -^o would be a branch of the true vine must
remember, whenever he is tempted to do a rude
thing, that he will never yield to such temptation
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unless there is hidden somewhere upon his branch
fruit that should be cut off and cast into the fire.
The Christian gentleman and lady are such
because they love their neighbor as themselves ;
and to be a thorough Christian without being a
gentleman or lady is impossible.^ Wherever we
find the rich without arrogance, and the poor
without envy, the various members of society
sustaining their mutual relations without sus-
picion or pretension, the family circle free from
rivalry, faxdt-finding, or discord, we shall find
nothing ungentle, for there the spirit of Christian-
ity reigns. He who is pure in heart can never be .
vulgar in speech, and he who is meek and loving
in spirit can never be rude in manner.
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\ 1x7 to fkvqnent the eompaiij ct joar betters : la booki and lift, that is
tbe meet wholMome aoeiety. Learn to admire rigfatlj ; the great pleasore of
life it that. I^ote what tbe peat men adnOred; ibfij admixed grtat thio^i:
narrow spirits admire basely, and worship meanlj."— Thackx&^t.
** Aooordiog to the temper and spiiit by which it is iaflnenced, prayer opeOfl
or shnts the kii^om of life and peace on the soul of the supplicant, eleTatinc
him either to a closer conjunction with the Lord and his angelic kingd<nn, or
plunging him into a more 4Bplorabl» depth of Bq;»acation, by imaienlog hKi
Into oonsodation with the lost spirits of darkness." — CLOwn. ^
Man was not born to live alone, and it is only
in and through the relations of the family and
the social circle that the better parts of his nature
can be developed. Solitude is good occasion-
ally, and they who fly from it entirely can hardly
attain to any high degree of spiritual growth;
but still in all useful solitude there must be a
recognition of some being beside self. He who
turns to solitude only to brood over thoughts of
self, soon becomes a morbid egotist, and it is
only when we study in solitude in order to make
our social life more wise and true, that our soli-
tary hours are blessed.
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Man really alone is something we can hardly
imagine. He becomes cognizable almost entirely
through his relations with God and with his fel-
low-men. Heathen philosophy sought to .make
man wise by withdrawing him from the passions
and afiections that move him when associated
with his fellow-men, in 'order that he might de-
vote himself to the study of abstract truth.
Christian philosophy teaches that truth owes its
sanctity to the Divine Love, which alone pves
^ it Life ; and that by leading a life of love we
acquire the power of understanding the truth.
Philosophy is a dead abstraction until piety and
charily fill it with the breath qf life.
The offices of piety belong in great part to
solitude, and ;the offices of charity to society;
but the principle of Companionship is involved
in both; for piety associates us with God as
charity associates us with man.
All Companionship involves the idea of both
giving and receiving. In the offices of piety, in
proportion as we give a worship that is earnest
and heartfelt, is the warmth and clearness of ihe
influx of heavenly love and wisdom that we
receive. In the offices of charity, our love is
warmed and our wisdom enlightened in propor-
tion as we disinterestedly seek the true happiness
of those who^ lives come within the sphere of
our influence, guided not by blind instinct, but
by an enlightened Christianity. Thus the qual-
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ity and quantitj of what we receive from Com-
panionship depends on the quality and quantity
of what we give.
There is no surer test of Character than the
Companionship we habitually seek ; for we
always prefer the society of tiiose who admin-
ister to our dominant love. Some seek the soci-
ety of their superiors, others of their equals, and
others, again, of their inferiors ; and the members
of each class are actuated in their choice by very
various motives. Thus, among the first class are
found the ambitious, who seek their superiors be-
cause they fancy themselves elevated by the re-
flection of the attributes they admire ; the proud,
who fancy themselves degraded by association
with their inferiors ; and the humble^ who seek to
be advanced in goodness, in knowledge, or in re-
finement through intercourse with those who
excel. On the other hand are those who seek
their inferiors from the vanity that demands ad-
miration as its daily food, or the pride that feels
itself oppressed in the presence of a superior, or
the philanthropy that loves to give of its stores
to those less endowed than itself. The middle
class may be actuated in their choice by the love
of sympathy in their pursuits, or by a kind of in-
dolence that is disturbed by whatever differs much
from itself. There is less purpose and vitality in
this class than in either of the others ; but merely
a desire to float with the surrounding cuirent,
whithersoever it may tend.
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The constituents of society are so varied in
quality, that it would be very difficult for any one
to associate exclusively with a particular class ;
and it may be doubted if we have a right to
seek. to do so. The variety in social life is
adapted to develop the various qualitie:^ of the
human soul far more perfectly than thi'y coiild
be if the different classes of humanity w^ere en-
tirely separated in their waQks. All slvould be
willing to give as well as to receive, anti to this
end all should be willing, to associate in a Bpirit
of brotherly love with their superiors or their in-
feriors without any feeling either of servility or of
elation. We may seek the society of our superi-
ors in order to enrich ourselves, and that of our
inferiors in order to give freely even as we have
received; while with our equals we alternately
give and receive, for no two persons are so simi-
larly endowed but that each may gain by associ-
ating with the other. In truth, whichever way
the balance may incline, none ever give without
receiving, and none can receive without giving.
No Companionship is wise that does not in- .
volve the principle of growth. If the influence of
our associates does not make us go forward, it
will surely cause us to go backward. If we are
not elevated by it, we shaU certainly be degraded.
Two persons cannot associate, and either party
remain just as he was before ; and if we would
find in society an eledient of growth, .we must
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seek for all that is elevating in whatever circles
we move ; for it is not confined to any particular
circle or class, but waits everywhere for the true
seeker.
Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the
earth, said the Lord, teaching as never man
taught ; and it is in proportion as we walk meekly
with our feUow-men that our capacities become
capable of receiving, to their fullest extent, the
influx of goodnesa and truth that should be the
end of social intercourse. Nothing obstructs our
receptivity so much as that egotism of thought
and affection which keeps self perpetually before
the mind's eye, and to this egotism meekness is
the direct opposite. Meekness implies forgetful-
ness of self. There is nothing servile about it,
but it pursues its way in pure simplicity, forget-
ting self in its steadfast devotion to what it seeks.
Egotism pursues its aims from love of self and of
the world, and confides in its own strength for
success. Meekness pursues its aims from the
love of excellence, and confiding in the strength
of the Lord. The first love is dim of sight, and
^ften satisfies itself with the shadow of what it
seeks, while its strength is too feeble to grasp the
higher forms of excellence. The second love is
full of light, because its eye is single ; it can be
satisfied only with substance, and its endeavors
know no limit, because its strength comes from
Him who never fails nor wearies.
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Meekness is always ready to receive of the
excellence it seeks, through whatever medium it
can be obtained; while egotism is perpetucdly
hindered in its advancement by its unwillingness
to owe it to any source out of self.
Similar results follow in giving as in receiving.
Meekness gives in simplicity from love to the
neighbor, arid feels 'as great pleasure in impart*
ing from its stores as in receiving additions to
them, because the pleasure it imparts is reflected
back upon itself, making all its good offices twice
blessed. Egotism is twice cursed, as all that it
receives and aU that it gives perpetually adds to
its love of self; for it valued what it possesses be-
cause it is its own, and imparts to others because
it enjoys a feeling of superiority over the. recipi-
ent of its possessions. Meekness builds itself up ;
egotism puffs itself up. /Fo meekness Compan-
ionsh^ is a perpetual source of healthful growth ;
while to egotism it furnishes food only to supply
the demands of a morbid enlargement, destruc-
tive to all manly and womanly symmelry.
Society at large, according as we walk in it in
a spirit of meekness, or a spirit of egotism, thus
serves to, develop and expand pur powers, or to
narrow and degrade them more and more con-
tinually. To the casual observer, the difference
in the advancement of the two classes may not
in early life be apparent. The forth-putting pre-
tension of egotism may indeed caiise it to seem
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the more rapidly advajicing character of the two ,
but the, progress of years will widen the separa*-
tion between their paths, till it shall be seen as
a great gulf, of which the opposite sides have
naugl^t in common. Advancing age will show
th^ egotist narrow-minded and pverbearing, peev-
ish and fault-finding ; while ie who pursues his
even course, walking in Christian meekness with
his fellow-men, will in old age exhibit ever-
enlarging charity and ever-expanding wisdom,
and his gray hairs will seem like a crown of glory.
It may seem almost needless to $peak of the
danger to Character that is involved in seeking
the Companionship erf the worthless or the evil-
disposed. " Can one handle pitch and not. be
defiled ? " Yet tiie usages of society are so dis-
ordered, that- the possession of wealth, family
distinction, or personal elegance,'though accom-
panied by ignorance, folly, o^ even dissoluteness,
is sometimes a surer passport into what is termed
good society, than, the best culture of mind and
heart, where external advantages have been de-
nied. :
When we value mankind according id their ex-
ternal advantages, our moral standard is as false
as the drawing upon a Chinese plate. We have
no true moral perspective. Our ideas of right
and wrong are confused and imperfect,^ and in
danger of becoming corrupt. We laugh at the
stupidity of the poor Chinaman in his attempts
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after beauty and art, while in morals we are quite
as stupid as he. Believing ourselves wise, we
are fools. It is very hard to escape being unduly
influenced by the opinions of society ; but the
more earnestly we seek true excellence for oiir-
> selves, the more easfly we learn to value true ex-
cellence in othei?i3, and to overlook the opinions
of the world. The more independent we become
of opinion, the better will be the influence we
exert upon society, as well as that which we re-
ceive from it in return.
If the influence of our Companionship with
thpse whom we meet in general society and
in the- daily avocations of life be important,
far more so is that which comes to us through
the friends whom we select from the world at
lame as best adapted to minister to our happi-
ness ; and in proportion as they are near and
dear to us will their influence be strong and
deep.
The choice of friends is influenced by an
equal variety of motives, and of a similar nature
as those that lead ta the selection of the social
circle. There is often no better foundation than
selfishness for what -passes current in the world
for ardent friendship. The selfish and worldly
love from Selfish and worldly motives^ and doubt-
less they receive their reward ; but if we would
derive the advantages to Character that result
firom a wise Companionship, we must select our
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Mends without undue regard to the opinions of
the world, and impelled by a desire for mqral or
intellectual advancement. Falsehood and fickle
ness in friendship result from its being built
upon merely selfish or .circumstantial founda-
tions. When built upon mutual respect and
affection, it contains no element of decay or
change ; and they who trust to any other founda-
tion have no right to complain if their confidence
is abused and disappointed.
Persons sometimes suppose themselves the
fast friends of others, when their affection is
merely the result of benefits received, directly or
indirectly; and if these benefits are withheld,
their supposed friendship is dissipated at once, or
perhaps changed to enmity.^ Such a friendship
is merely circumstantial, and has no just claim
to. the name. Mere juxtaposition, the habit of
seeing each other every day, is often, sufficient to
produce what the parties concerned esteem friend-
ship, and to occasion the freest interchange of
confidence. The slightest change of circum-
stance, a few miles of separation, an inadvertent
offence, a trivial difference of opinion, a clashing
of interest, are, any one of them, suffix^ient to
bring such an intimacy to an end, and;to cast re-
proach upon the sacred name of friendship, when
friendship had never existed between the parties
for a single moment.
Gren/iiiie friendship can exist only between
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pei^sons of some elevation of moral character, and
its strength and duration wijl be commensurate
with the degree of this moral elevation.. Truth-
fulness, frankness, disinterestedness, and faithful-
ness are qualities absolutely Essential to friend-
ship, and these must be crowned by a sympathy
that enters into all the joys, the sorrows, and the
interests of the friend, that delights in all his up-
ward progress, and, when he stumbles or falls, ais
all at times must, stretches out the helping hand,
not condescendingly nor scornfully, but in the
simplicity of true charity, that forgives even as it .
wouM be forgiven, and is tender and patient even
where it ^condemns. In such a friendship there
is no room for rivalry, weariness, distrust, or any-
thing subversive of confidence.. With the selfish
and the worldly, such a connection cannot exist,
because with them rivalries and dashing interests
must arise ; for it is only- among the seekers after
excellence that there is room for the gratification
of the desires of all. Neither can it exist be-
tween the false, for falsehood shuts the door upon
confidence ; nor with the morally weak, the flbl-
ish, or the idle, for they weary of each other even
as they weary of themselves.
Of all earthly Companionship, there is none so
deeply fraught with weal or woe, with blessing or
with cursings as the Companionship of married
life. After this relationship is formed, although
the threads still remain the same, the whole^arp
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and woof of the being are dyed with a new
color) woven according to a new pattern. Char-
acter is never the -same after marriage a3 before.
There is a new impetus given by it to the pow.ors
of thought and affection, inducing them to a dif-
ferent activity, and deciding what tendencies. are
henceforth to take the lead in the action of the
mind ; whether the soul isto spread its wings for
a higher flight than it has hitherto ventured, or to
sit with closed pinions, content to be ot the earth,
earthy. All ^are interested, even strangers, in
hearing of the establishment of a, newly married
pair in what irelates to the equipage of external
life. Far more interesting would it be if we could
trace the mental establishing that is going on, as
old traits of <?haracter axe con^rmed or cast aside,
aijjcd new ones developed or implanted. -
This union, so sacred that it even supersedes
that which exists between f>arent and child, should
be entered upon ojjy from the highest and purest
motives; atid then, /let. worldly. prosperity come
or go as it may, this twain whom God has joined,
n<#'by a mere formal ritual of the Church, but
by a true, spiritual union that man cannot put
asunder, are a heaveu unto themselves, and peace
will ever dwell within their habitation.
In proportion as a true marriage of the afFeC"
tions between the pure in heart is productive of
the highest happiness that can exist on earth, so
every remove from it diminishes the degree of
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this happiness, until it passes into the -opposite,
sind becomes, in its most woridly and selfish
form, a fountain o£ misery, of a quality abso-
lutely infernal.
Amid ihe disorder and imperfection reigning
in the world, it is not to be supposed that a large
proportion of marriages should be truly heavenly.
In order to arrive at this, both parties must be of
a higher moral standing than is often reached at
an age when marriage is usually' entered upon ;
but unless the <jharacter of e^ch is inclined heav-
enward, there is no rational ground for anticipat-.
ing happiness, except of the lowest kind.
Many persons of a naturally amiable disposi-
titoii eryoy what may seem a high degree of hap-
piness, through their sympathy with each other
in worldliness and ambition ; but such happiness
is not of a kind that can endure the jclouds and
tempests of life. It is nourished only by the
good things of this world, and, if it cannot ob--
tain them, is converted into the greater wretch-
edness because the being who is deafest in liie
shares this wretchedness. - When, on the contrary,
things heavenly are those most highly prized and
earnestly sought, each party helpfe to sustain the
other in all earttily privations and disappoint-
ments ; for each is looking beyond and above the
trials of earth, and each is in possession of a
hope, nay, a fruition, that cannot be taken away,
and which is dearer than all that is lost. With
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them, to suffer together is to rob suffering of half
its ^yeight, and almost all it» bitterness. What-
ever earthly deprivation may befall them, the
kingdom of heaven is ever within their souls.
The Companionship of our felloVbeings is not
confined to the living men and women around
us, but comes to us, through books, from all na-
tions and ages. Wise teachers stand ever ready^
to instruct us, gentle moralists to console and
strengthen us, poets to delist us. Scarce a
country village is so poor that there may not be
found beneath its roofs4;he printed words of more
great men than ever lived at any one period of
the Earth's history.
We are too apt to use books, as well as socie-
ty, merely for our amusefnent ; to read the books
that chance to fall into x)ur hands, or to associate
- with the persbns ^we happen to meet with, and
not stop to ask ourselves if nothing better is
within our reach. It may not be in our power
to associate with great living minds, but the men-
tal wealth of the past is within the reach of alL
We boast much that we are a reading people,
but it may be well to inquite how intelligently
we read. The catalogues of books borrowed from
our public libraries show, that, where the readers
of works of amusement are counted by hundreds,
the readers of instructive books are numbered by
units. In conversation, it is not uncommon to
hear persons expressing indifference or didike to
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whole classes of books, — to hear Travels de-
nounced as stupid, Biography as tame, and His-
tory as heavy and dull. It does not seem to
occ^r to the mass of minds that ^riy purpose
beyond the amusement of the moment is to. be
thought of in reading, or that any plan shouldrbe
laid, or any principles adopted, in the choice of
books to be read.
It is undoubtedly 9. great good that nearly aU
our people are taught to read^ but it is a small
fraction of the community that reads to much
good purpose. Children, so soon a3 they have
acquired the use of the alphabet, are inundated
with little juvenile stories, some of them good,
but most of them siHy, and many vulgar. As
they grow older, successions of similar works of
fiction await them, until they arrive at adoles-
cence, when they are fully prepared for all the
wealth of. foUy, vulgarity, falsehood, and wicked-
ness that is bound up within the yellow covers
of most of the cheap novels that infest every
highway of the nation.
, As you are jostied through the streets of our
populous cities, or take your seat in a crowded
railway-car^ you ar6, perhaps, impressed with the
general air of rudeness that pervades the scene,
— a rudeness of a kind so new to the world, that,
no old word suj£cing to describe it, a new name
has been coined, and the swaggering, xareless,
sensual-Iooking beings, reeking with the fumes of
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tobacco, that make up the masses of our moving
population, are adequately described only by the
word rowdy. A3 yet, no title hasl^een found for
the female of this class, — bold, dashing,. loud-
talking and loud-laughing, ignosrant, vain, and so
coarse that she supposes fine clothes and assum-
ing manners are all tbftt is necessary to elevate
her to the rank of a lady. Perhaps you wonder
how so numerous a race of these beings has come
to exist; but that boy at your elbow, bending
under the weight of his literary burden,' is a col-
porteur for converting the nien and women of
this " enlightened nation " to rowdyism- , Those
books portmy just such men and women, as you
see before you, and that is why they are wel-
comed so warmly. A few cents will buy from
that boy enough folly .and impurity to gorge a
human mind for a week,. and possibly few among
this throng often taste more wholesome intellect-
ual food.
It is probable that some of these persons are
the children of intelligent and welH>red parents j
but their fathers were engrossed in business, and
their mothers in' family cares, and thought they
had no time .to form the moral and intellectual
tastes of the immortal minds committed to their
charge. They fancied that, if they sent their
children to good schools, and provided liberally
for all their external wants, they had done enough.
Ignorant nursery-maids, perhaps, tau^t them
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morals and manners, while the father toiled j;o
accumulate the means for supplying their exter-
nal wants, and the mother hemmed ruffles and
scalloped trimming, to make people say, " How
sweetly those children are dressed ! " as the maid
paraded them through the streets, teaching them
their first lessons in vulgiir vanity.
A child may be educated, at the best schools
without acquiring any tj^^te for good literature.
The way a parent treats a child in relation to its
books has far more in^uence in this respect than
a teacher can possibly possess. A mother, even
if she is not an educated woman, can learn to
read understandingly, and can teach her child to
read in the same way. She can talk to it about
its books, and awaken a desire in its mind to
understand what it reads. Children are always
curious in regard to the phenomena of nature,
and whether this curiosity lives or dies depends
very much on the Answers it receives to its first
questions. K the mother cannot answer them,
herself, she can help the child ta find an answer
somewhere else, and she should beware how she
deceives herself with the idea that she has not
time to attend to the moral and intellectual
wants of her child. She has no right to so im-
merse all her own mind in the cares of life that
she cannot, while attending to them, talk ration-
ally with her children. The mothers who best
fulfil their higher duties towards their children
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are quite as often found among tbose who are
compelled to almost constant industry of the
hands, as among those of abundant leisure.
There is nothing in the handiwork of the house-
keeper or the seamstress that need absorb all the
mental attention ; and hers must be an ill-regu-
lated mind that cannot ply the needle, or per-
form the more active duties of the household,
and yet listen to the child as it reads its little
books, and converse with it about the moral les-
sons or the intellectual instruction they conts^in.
The mother has it in her power ta influence the
mode in which the child makes companions of
its books, more than any- other person ; and
the character of its Companionship with them
through life will generally depend in a great
degree on the tastes and habits acquired in
childhood. ■ '
Many parents, who guard their children with
jealous care from the contamination of rude and
vicious society among other children, allow them
to associate with ideal companions of a very de-
graded kind. The parent, should check the pro-
pensity, not only to read bad books, but also to
read idle or foolish books, by exciting the action
of the mind towards something better. Merely
to deny improper books is not enough. Some-
thing must be given in place of them, or the
craving will continue, and the child will be very
apt to gratify its appetite in secret ^
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Children are easily led to observe nature, ani-
mate or inanimate, with interest, and there are
many simple books illustrating the departments
of natural science which mothers could make in-
teresting to their children at. the same time that
they instructs themselves. "^ Juvenile works on
history abound, and through them the child ma;y
be led, as intelligence expands, to seel^ more ex-
tended and thorough treatises ; and the sympathy
of the mother should be ready to help him on his
way. It is mere self-deception in those motibers
who deny their mental capacity, or their com-
mand of time, to aid their children in their mental
progress. -It is sl moral want of their own, fitr
more than everything else, that causes them to
shrink from this^ most important responsibility.
Those who . have passed thfe period of child-
hood, who have taken upon themselves the re-
sponsibility of all that concerns their own minds,
and who have any desire after upward progress,
should remember that the books they love best
are those which reflect tUeir own characteristics.
Every one looks up to his favorite books, and the
tone of his mind ia influenced by them in conse-
quence. In our Companionship with our fellow-
beings we may be governed to a great extent
by our desire to stand well vrith the world, and
therefore seek the society of those whom the
world most admires rather than those we most
enjoy. In the choice of our books thare is much
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less inflaence of this kind exerted upon xis. In
the retirement of our homes we may daily con
sort with the low or the wicked, as they are de-
lineated in books, and our standing with the
world be in no way affected, while the poison we
imbibe will work all the more surely that it
works secretly. They whose ideas of right and
wrong are dependent on the judgment of the
world may need even this poor guide, and suffer
from the want of it ; fot in doing what the world
does not know, and therefore cannot condemn,
they may encounter evil and danger from which
even the love of the world would protect them,
if the same things were to be exposed to the
public eye. We have no more moral right to
read bad books than to associate with bad men,
and it would be* well for us. in iselecting our
books to be governed by much the same prin-
ciples as in the selection of our associates : to
feel that they are, in fact, companions and
friends whose opinions cannot fail to exert a
powerful influence up6n us, and that we cannot
associate with them indiscriminately without
great danger to our characters.
The Book of books, the Word of God^ should
occupy the first place in our estimation ; and the
test question in regard to the value of all other
books is, whether they draw us towards, or away
from, the Bible. So far as they are written with
a geatune love for goodness and trathy books in
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every department of science and literature have
a tendency, more or less strong, to increase our
reverence and love for the Source of all goodness
and truth ;, and no book can be subversive of our
faith in the Scriptures that has not its founda-
tion laid in falsehood.
Nature, may tell us of a Creator, but the Bible
alone reveals a>Father. Na:ture describes him as
far from us, removed beyond all sympathy, be-
fore' whose poweir we tremble, and whose, mercy
we might strive to propitiate by sacrifices or en-
treaties ; but from the Bible we learn that he is
near at hand, watching every pulsation of the
heart, listening to every aspiration that- we
breathe ; that we walk with him so iong as we
obey his commandments, and that, though we
may turn from him, he -never turns from us ; that
when we approach him in prayer, it should not
be with fear, but with love ; and loving him with
the knowledge that he first loved ud, we find that
prayer, in its true form, is a Companionship, and
that the Father rejoices over his child in propor-
tion as the child rejoices in approaching the
throne of mercy.
Pure and holy influences come to us mediately
through our Companionship with those among
oiit fellew-beings who, have received of the over-
flowings of the Divine Fountain of goodness and
truth. But -when we reverently approach that
Fountain, we receive immedfaitely, with a power
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and ftdness that can descend upon us through no
hnman being.
What we receive through other mediums
reaches only the lower and more external planes
of our being ; but prayer brings us, if we pray
aright, before the throne of the Most High, and
opens those inmost chambers of the soul that re-
main for erer closed and empty unless they are
opened and filled by the itnmediate presence of
the Lord. These constitute that Holy of Holies
which is ihe inmost of every human soul. The
World at large may enter its outer courts, chosen
friends may minister before the altar of its sanc-
tuary, but withinr all this there is a holier place,
which none but the Lord can enter ;- for it is the
seat of the vital principle of the soul, which can
be touched and quickened by no hand but his.
The quality of the life of the whole being de-
pends upon the degree in which we suffer the Lord
to dwell within our souls. EQs Companionship
fills and vivifies everything that is below it. The
more entirely we walk with the Lord, the more
constant we shall be |n the performance of all our
duties. The more entirely we open our hearts
to his influence, the niore benefit we shall re-
ceive, from all other influene^s. The more rever-
ently we listen to the truth that comes directly
from him, the more capable we shall be of find-
ing out and appreciating the truth that comes
indirectly. The more we open our hearts to
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receive bis love, the more perfect will be the love
we shall, bear towards our fellow-beings. The
more constantly we feel that we are in his pres--
ence, the more perfect will be the hourly outgo-
ings of our lives.
Intimate Companionship with the Lbrd does
not abstract us from the world around us, but
fills that world with new meanings. There is
nothing abstract in the nature of the Deity. He
is operating perpetually upon all nature.* Grav-
ity, organic life, instinct, human thought and
affection, are forms of his influx manifesting it-
self in varying relations. Wherever he comes
there is life, and his activity knows no end.
Let no huihan being think that he holds Com-
panionship with the Lord, because he loves to re-
tire apart, to pray, or to contemplate the Divine
attributes, if, .at such times, he looks down upon
and shuns the haunts of men. The bigot may
do so ; and all his thoughts about things holy, all
his prayers, only confirm him in his spiritual
pride. Every thought of self-elevation, every
feeling that tends towards "I am holier than
thoii," smothers the breath of all true prayer, and
associates us with the spirit of evil; for our
prayers cannot be blessed to us if pride inspire
them. Neither let any one suppose himself
spiritual because material life or material duties
oppress him. God made the material world as
a school for his children ; and he will not keep us
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here a moment after we are prepared for a higher
state. We are patting ourselves back when we
-work impatiently, in the feelitig that the duties of
life are beneath us.
K we would abide with our Heavenly Father,
we must co-operate with him perpetually. It is
doing his will, not cdntemplaling it, that teaches
us his attributes, and builds us up in his image
ai^ likeness. His fields are -ever white unto the
harvest f let us work while it is yet: day, ever
bearing in mind that he gives us the. power to
work, and that we can work rightly only so long
as we live in the constant acknowledgment of
our dependence upon Him.
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